My wife and I have had this type of conversation before. We would joke and tease each other about her being with one of my friends, but neither of us would really want that to happen. We have always been as discreet as possible about her dating other men. I don't believe any of our friends know about it, though I think at least one couple we are friends with may suspect something. However, my wife does have one girl friend that knows my wife has had a boyfriend.
Experienced: They are going off soon anyway 🤩