This Will Certainly Not Be The First Time That Your Wife Has Cuckolded You. In Fact, It Won't Even Be

"What? Will I have sex with him? Well -- I really think he does expect that since we'll be sharing one hotel room the whole time -- and it's probably something he really needs now, but I promise I'll ask him to use protection. So like I said -- there's no reason for you to be so jealous about it."

Even though your wife seems to think that all she's doing is being a good friend to him, you still can't help feeling jealous and hurt, but there really isn't anything you can do without seeming to be a real jerk about it. It's just that you had always thought that you would be the one who would take her to Hawaii some day, and that it would be a really romantic place for the two of you to visit together. And now you have the pain of thinking about it being a romantic vacation for her -- but without you.

[The two of you have talked about this for a while.  And now she has a date with a man she knows from work – and her plan is to spend the night with him]

In response to her question about your feelings, you tell her “I…I guess I feel excited … and nervous … and a bit scared”.

“Mmm” she says. “And how about … jealous.  Do you feel jealous that another man will be taking me out to dinner, that I’ll be touching him and kissing him and then going back to his apartment where I’ll make love with him – and then I’ll spend the night with him while you are home alone, and in the morning I’m sure we’ll make love again before he brings me back home sometime tomorrow?”

“Yes.  Jealous.” you agree. “For sure.  I just wish there was something I could do so that you didn’t feel that … you had to do this.  But I can’t just make my cock bigger, and I know what a disappointment I’ve been, and I want you to be satisfied.  You deserve to be satisfied.  But yes … it hurts knowing that another man will be doing that with you. I…I guess this won’t be just a … one time thing?”

“No, of course not” your wife says with a laugh. “Your …uh … failure has not been a one-time thing, and we both know it won’t change in the future, so no – this is not a one-time thing.  I will be dating him, and maybe other guys, quite regularly.  OK – time for me to go get ready for him.  Do you want to help me pick out the lingerie that I’ll wear tonight?”