Experienced: One of your fantasies 😉
You're shocked -- and hurt -- and your stomach is in knots worrying now what this means for your marriage, but there's not much for you to say. She obviously isn't asking for permission, or even trying to help you understand why she's doing this. So you have no choice except to accept that this is the new normal for her and you.
She always seemed so sweet and innocent, but she wasn’t for my friends
You know I am.