Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

I sometimes like to tell him well in advance of what I plan to do with/to him so he the idea can be playing in his mind over and over well before I actually do it.

boys who are confident and flirty but get flustered the moment you flirt back have a special place in my heart

Look what I got today.

@greeny1969 asked:

Do you get to the stage where you have no interest in having a release , or do you still crave the pleasure of it ?

(another question from the comments)

Tom here.

I'm assuming that by "release" you mean "orgasm," and it's a good question. The situation is that @mrs--edge and I have a "date" about once a week. I really enjoy the feeling of being aroused leading up to it, and naturally I'm very excited during it. After she is finished and satisfied, I'm still excited, but it tapers off to a more normal feeling of arousal after an hour or so.

About once a month my wife likes to make me come in my cage, because it makes her feel good about herself, which adds to our intimacy. Sometimes she drags it out for two months, and recently she made me go for three.

The thing is, I have learned to really enjoy surfing on that ebb and flow of arousal and excitement, and the longer I go on, the more that I (sometimes) don't want to spoil it with an orgasm. This leads to some games where I try to hold back and she tries to make me (she usually wins). But sometimes she will get me close and then ask if I want to. And of course, I both want to and don't want to at the same time (and she knows this). Usually I tell her that I want her to decide (she usually, but not always denies me when it's her decision) which is hot.

For as many years as we've been doing this, I'm always aroused and excited, and I always want and don't want a release. 😉

I wonder if she has any idea that I want her like this... with little paintbrushes to hand, to delicately brush away the grains of sand...

But also, bound before being placed in the pit and buried to her neck and ankles. Perhaps with heavy weight plates threaded onto some of the ropes, to weigh her down and prevent the thrashing disturbing the smooth sand that imprisons her...