I Still Wouldn’t Say No …

Fixed to the bed

Spend your time in chastity well

So, your girlfriend read my blog and now she doesn’t want to let you out for three weeks? Or was it your wife who lost all interest in your release to the point where she can’t seem to remember where she left the keys? Or did you stumble on a hypnotic curse that prevents you from asking to be released and your S/O isn’t remembering on her own?

No matter how or why you’re stuck in chastity, it’s important to spend that time well. Time is a gift and your keyholder has just granted you more of it by taking away that idle pastime of mindless masturbation. Don’t waste it!

I’ve put together a list of ideas that will help you pass the time in a productive manner, becoming a contributing member of society

Read a book. You haven’t finished a good book in years, have you? It’s time!

Clean! Clean! Clean! I can’t say enough about men cleaning and doing housework. It’s a feminist’s dream. A man who cleans thoroughly and diligently is admired and coveted by women everywhere. It doesn’t matter if it’s the bathroom, the kitchen, your desk or the garage. (You’ll have plenty of time to get to all those places over the coming months and years.) Pick a place that could use some work and just go to town. Watch your keyholder beam with joy when she sees how spotless your home becomes.

Cook. For centuries, daily cooking has been a task relegated to women. Many women enjoy cooking but the daily chore of coming up with meal ideas can turn that joy into drudgery. Here’s where you can help! Pick one of your favorite meals and learn to make it on your own. Offer to cook that meal when she would like. Over time slowly add more and more meals to your repertoire. Eventually you’ll be cooking enough of the daily meals to free your keyholder;s time to cook what she loves.

Learn a skill. Have you ever wanted to learn how to unclog a drain? What about making a website, fixing a car engine or painting a portrait? Now is the time to learn! Some of you have an extra two or three hours available to you every day now that you aren’t glued to your pornbox all night. Use that time to tackle that skill.

Massage your woman. Foot massages, back massages or my personal favorite, hand massages, are welcome by most women. A massage is an opportunity to share an intimate moment, have great conversation and relax together. I’m always so refreshed after receiving a good rub that I’m more inclined to look favorably on the person performing the service. Wink! Wink!

Exercise. It can be as simple as taking a walk around the block or as demanding as running a 5K. Exercise is as close to a miracle drug for physical and mental health and wellbeing as anything mankind has come up with. Any exercise you can do will help ease your harrowed chaste mind and bring your stress levels down. I have boys in chastity who have lost so much weight from chaste workouts that they had to buy different cages. Their bodies changed so much the old devices no longer fit right.

Read my blog. It couldn’t hurt, right? When the nights are long and the balls are blue, come on over and find some comfort here.

Have other suggestions?

Let me know! I’ll share them with others in the same predicament.

eating a girl out for the first time? as someone with a couple of decades' experience (i started young, ok?), can i offer some advice?

take your time. your aim isn't to make her come as fast as possible, it's to make sure she enjoys every moment. slow down, revel in the process of finding out what she likes.

tell her how beautiful she is, how tempting her cunt looks, how intoxicating it smells, how sweet she tastes. she might be feeling vulnerable, especially if she's inexperienced too - it's your job to make her feel safe and adored.

enjoy the journey - i know you just want to feel your tongue on her clit NOW, but exploring her thighs, working your way slowly to her folds, trailing all the way up her cunt, drinking her juices, letting her feel your breath before she feels your touch...it'll be worth it. for both of you.

learn to read her body with all of your senses. she might be vocal but she might prefer to bite her lip or enjoy being gagged. you don't need to hear her words to know what to do. you'll feel her muscles twitch and relax - learn what it means when she lifts her hips, squirms or sinks into you. she might taste and smell differently when she is close to coming for you. pay close attention to her clit - if you're lucky and you've done a particularly good job, you might see it twitch as she recovers from the perfect orgasm. enjoy it.

you can be vocal though. moan into her. use every sensation you can. light flicks to determined, long, slow licks. blow gently on her wetness. how does she react to your lip piercing? your teeth?

build and add to the experience until she's completely overwhelmed. play with her nipples. run your nails over her skin. lift her legs and spank her.

chances are, she'll get to the point where she really needs you to fuck her. slip your tongue all the way down and inside her. if you can't breathe, you're doing it right. that means you probably won't be able to keep it up for hours, so save this move for when she's right on the edge and you're ready to let her tip over.

if you're especially lucky and she's a squirter, you will get absolutely soaked. enjoy it. show her you're enjoying it. moan into her cunt; she'll come even harder.

if she needs to be fucked harder, slip your fingers inside her cunt and curl them up towards your tongue as it circles her clit. all of her most sensitive nerves will be between your tongue and your fingers. you'll be able to feel every tiny twitch inside her; it's the most beautiful place in the world to be.

when she can truly take no more, stay close to her as you drift away from her cunt. kiss your way up her tummy and her chest, let her taste herself on your lips as you hold her and let her ride out the aftershocks. trail your fingertips over her back. whisper in her ear. tell her everything you loved about eating her out.

Whoos a fat loser? Is it you, is it you?

Aaaaww such a wittle baby in his diaper...

Your so cute, yes your so cuuute.

Fucking wimp! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Tonight I want: a pretty, biddable office slut to fluster and manipulate and micromanage. You might be smart enough to have landed an internship in my department on your own merits, but your gorgeous face and the way your eyes emptied out each time I assigned you a task are what made me claim you for my team.

Can I bend you over my desk and spank you when I’ve had a frustrating client call? Can I dress you up in thin white button down shirts a size too small after writing filthy, possessive words in sharpie all over your chest? Can I tell you to ‘fetch’ in front of your peers when I am ready for my morning coffee? Do you want everyone we work with to know I own you… that I use you? That you exist at our company solely to be my stress relief and servant and treasured trophy and pet?

This post was written as a collaborative work of @oh-hi-welcome-to-my-soft-side and @sweetboynolan . Enjoy!

New Mommy, DMD - Part 1

"What are my goggles for? You've got so many questions after I turned the happy gas on! Not so shy now, are you? Ok, open wide so I can get my fingers in there. Mmm. I seeee. You must have a very good Mommy, because I don't see one cavity in here. Alright, let me check your tongue way back in here... Oh! Was that moan for me? Naughty baby! I've had little boys mistake me for their mommy in the grocery store before, but I don't think you get that excuse here. Now, close your mouth and I'll test some muscular strength. Ok, suck on them, please."

*Pssssssssssssrrrrrrrrr*

"What's that sou...? Oh my goodness! Did my widdle patient get excited from my feengurs? Well it's a good thing your mommy had you diapered. It's ok, this isn't the first time its happened. That's why we keep the masks on, some big babies let go of a lot more."

"Oh, right, you asked me a question. My goggles are for keeping your little squirties away from my pretty eye makeup when you get your good patient reward. You see, I wanted to look extra pretty when I checked my schedule and saw you were coming in today. Awww, I saw how wide your eyes got, and that bump your pee pee made in your soggy diapee too; you think I'm trying to impress YOU! What a sweet, silly, baby boy! No no no. Once I finish taking care of your teeth, I'm going to see if your pretty Mommy wants to get dinner with me. Wouldn't that be fun? With me dating your Mommy we could play dentist all the time, and, sometimes, I might even give you a dose of the happy gas when we strap you to your diapee changie table! Oh! Shhhh, no need to fuss Baby. Here, let me turn the gas a little higher. There, now, let's see how much you like being a mommy's boy. Lets get these tapes off. There we go, it's ok Cutie, just relax, I'm a pro. Let me just warm up the lotion, and a spare diapee. I've given out lots of good patient prizes on this chair, but I'll make this one extra nice.

The wheelchair was more of a carriage, but Mommy's face lit up when he was wheeled out of the working area. Her heels clicking as she meet the dentist halfway down the hall.

"Here you are Miss Tori, one very good patient, all clean and changed, and not a single cavity to be worried about! Looks like he needed a nap after such a big day, but I'm happy he's not fussing, because... well... Oh! No, reception will handle payment... No, no, I was really... err ahmmmm... do you... do you like Italian food?"