Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

9 ingredients for taming your slave, results guaranteed…

1. CHASTITY

Lock its genitals in order to restrict access. Make sure it is chaste most of the time, free only in your presence from time to time. This way, its body parts become your property and it is unable to play with itself, which ALL men do.

2. INSPECTIONS

This might seem like unnecessary play only but it is not. It send a strong impulse to its mind about who is in charge and has unlimited freedom. Do it on regular basis.

3. ROUTINES

Routines are very important, any kind of routine. To begin with, decide upon a daily routine with which it will show its respect and humility to you. Make sure there will be no skipping on routines.

4. DISCIPLINE

This is a complete must, done on daily basis. Discipline is the most essential ingredient. It doesn’t need to “deserve it”, it is simply necessary. Find the time and the will every day.

5. TEASE, EDGING, DENIAL

Having and keeping its balls full will ensure its full attention towards you. It will make it beg and it will make it soft on its mind. Have you tried it for hours? No? Try it. Bigger balls equals more obedience and willingness to do anything for you.

6. RUINED ORGASMS

Your slave needs to cum and it will do anything to cum. You will allow it to cum on occasion but you will also slowly take away its right to have that pleasure. Ruin iits orgasms often and make it thank you. In time you could easily have it pleasure-less and without actual orgasms, up to you. Remember, an orgasm is not a right, it is a health necessity. It is not a reward either. Yours are important and only orgasms that should be cherished.

7. HUMILIATION

As bad as this might sound, subtle ways of humiliation are extremely effective. It needs it, it wants it. Do it. Find ways, decide up on them and act upon them. Humiliation makes it more humble. Then humiliate some more, subtly.

8. USE IT, MAKE IT FEEL USED

slaves like being treated like objects or toys. So that’s just what you need to do, use it for your pleasure and needs and then simply discard it. It’s a play, nothing more but it works just fine. Make sure you train yourself for such acts properly, in order not to appear silly.

9. EMASCULATION & PEGGING

Chastising your slave is the begging of emasculation. Pegging is another great way to emasculate. Make it your bitch, bring out its feminine side. Bringing out its feminine side works beautifully in favor of emasculation. Emasculation kills the ego every man has. Ego is an absolute enemy. 

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TL;DR

pegging is so important in a long-term chastity relationship. 1, it is a regular reminder of who has the cock in this relationship; 2, it remind him you're in charge; 3, it keeps the male ego away. it's hard for him to be stubborn and argumentative when he has a recent memory of you pegging him; 4, it simultaneously teases and denies him while providing a sexual release. remember this IS his sex now PERIOD.

always remember to put a vibrating toy in for yourself to have so fun ;)

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pegging does all the things that you need to do in order to successfully pull off a chastity relationship and let's be honest... it's a little bit of pay back for all the things he used to do to you. did he use to dress you up in degrading outfits? smack your ass until it was red? pull your hair? tie you up? call you a slut or a whore? fuck you until you couldn't walk straight? whatever it was... now it is his turn. furthermore...

it enforces that you're in charge. the one with the cock is in charge and YOU have the cock in this relationship.

it gives him a sexual release without the sexual satisfaction of penetration and having a "full" orgasm.

it keeps him horny and willing to please.

it is both a punishment and a reward.

it is a form of teasing as well as a source of teasing (more on this later)

this is his sex now, so be generous with it.

in your day-to-day life he will find it hard to be argumentative and have that male ego when you had him bent over moaning into a pillow last night. tell him how cute it is that he tries to be tough and masculine considering he was moaning like a bitch last night.

teasing ideas:

have him suck your strap-on. put in a vibrating toy in yourself and do this until you cum.

take a picture or a video of you pegging him and text it to him. tell him, "this is what is waiting for you when you get home."

use some light bondage to restrain him to the bed face down with a pillow under his hips. put ear plugs in and a blind fold on him. leave him there for however long you want. go take a bath and drink a glass of wine. put a butt plug in him and have a remote controlled vibrating cock ring on his cage that you turn on occasionally. once you're ready for some fun, mount up, turn that vibrator on full blast, and give him a the ride of his life.

while pegging him don't forget to smack his ass. leave it red. remember when he used to smack your ass? it's pay back. take a picture/video.

after you're done pegging him, detach the dildo and leave it in him. make him carry it around the rest of the day or sleep with it still in.

if/when he cums from the stimulation of you pegging him (+/- the vibrating cock ring) that doesn't mean you're done. continue to peg him. use his cum as lubrication on your strap-on or make him eat it.

peg him in fun places. the garage, the shed, the car, the backyard, camping, changing room, at work, anywhere!

dress him up in some of your lingerie or a fun outfit (maid, nurse, cheerleader, etc.). you dressed up for him… it’s only fair he dresses up for you now. take pictures and send them to him later or show him them at a later date to embarrass him.

spreader bars is something we have never talked about even though they are super super hot

like where the sub/bottom gets edged and overwhelmed and they want so badly to twist away and close their legs but it’s obviously not working. Just helpless and at the mercy of the dom/top *kisses fingertips*

there really is a little evil part of me that loves it, when people don’t get over me. aww you’re still hung up on me after years of being apart? poor baby boy. i’m soo sorry that you feel like i’m irreplaceable and like you’ll never find anyone you can feel small and vulnerable and loved and at home with anymore. now, say. it. again.