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Chastity.

This is a must for us. While we don’t play 24/7, I enjoy making him wear a chastity device frequently when we’re apart. I work nights, so if I’m at work, chances are he’s locked into “The Vice”. This is a locking chastity cage, similar to others, only this one has an anti-pullout mechanism that makes it very difficult to remove without the key. Basically “The Vice”  is a plastic sheath for his dick that attaches to a ring around the base of his balls. It prevents erections and masturbation very well for the price. I don’t want my man’s dick mangled by a piercing for this game we play, and some of the other devices out there require that to be secure. The Vice keeps it secure and out of his (or anyone else’s) hands. Its so empowering to be able to restrict access to his own dick. I have the power to grant him erections and orgasms, he can’t have them without me or my approval. The length of time he wears the device really changes, but is up to me. I usually don’t keep him in it for more than a couple days, but we’ve had times that I left him in there for over 3 weeks. He really wasn’t happy about the time I had to leave town for 4 days and took the key with me, AFTER he’d been locked up for a week already.

There are a log of fun chastity games you can find online. Some fun chastity games we play:

Try to cum. I enjoy leaving the device on him, and tell him to try to have an orgasm with it on (no vibrator allowed!). Its fucking entertaining to see him hump his hand, finger his asshole, shake the cage around, pinch his own nipples, etc. I like to offer some cheering words of encouragement here for him. Usually I have him do this on the floor in the middle of the living room while I sit on the couch and watch. He hasn’t been able to cum yet, but maybe one day he’ll get there. (Another great video opportunity)

Coin flip. If he’s been locked up for several days, I’ll strap him to the bed or handcuff him to remove the device.

Then I’ll start stroking his dick until he’s very close to orgasm, right on the edge. Then I flip a coin, heads I finish him off. Tails, I immediately stop, put an ice pack on his dick and lock him back up once he’s soft again. Better luck next time honey.

Roll of the dice. If he rolls a six, he gets to cum. If not, that’s the number of days he stays locked up until he gets another chance. This went on for over 3 weeks for us at one point. He was really on edge lol.

Chastity can also play into the control aspect as well. Sometimes when we play I don’t take the cage off. For example, he doesn’t need an erection to get fucked in his ass or to use my dildo and vibrator on my pussy, so why take it off? If he starts giving me a bad attitude, I’ll simply add another day or two to his lockup time. I use this as punishment for disobedience when playing, so it gives me more control.

One of the big things you’ll notice if you start incorporating chastity into your sex life, is that he will become more and more agreeable and obedient as time goes on, if you restrict his orgasms. If we’re playing with chastity more seriously, I like to make him wait 1 to 2 weeks between orgasms. He has a high sex drive, so when I do this, he gets so horny he’ll do anything to get out of his chastity cage. Its really entertaining to see what I can get him to do. Once, after 13 days locked into the Vice, I insisted he detail my car if he wanted out of the device. He whined and complained, so I told him that he just earned himself another 3 days in the device, and I still expected the car detailed.

The MOST IMPORTANT thing when incorporating chastity into your sex life is this. SAY NO. Don’t be swayed by his begging, whining, or complaining. Firstly lets get this out of the way, no one NEEDS to have an orgasm. He wants to cum, he doesn’t need to. So lets get that little idea out of the way immediately. We have a rule, when he’s locked up, he gets to politely ask for an orgasm once per day. If I feel like it, I’ll have him earnestly beg me. This is great for extracting promises from him. But if I say no, he needs to shut the fuck up about it immediately. Occasionally I’ll say yes, but most of the time I’ll say no as I’ve already decided on how long he’s going to be locked up. Do not feel bad about this. In fact, relish your power here.

I get off on having him go down on me right after I tell him “No, you’re staying locked up.” While we both agreed to incorporate chastity devices into our sex life, the lockup duration is my decision alone. Use the device to modify his behavior to your liking. If you want something from him, sexual or not, give him the order. If he doesn’t comply, add time in the device. The power is intoxicating.

Teasing. Sometimes he wears The Vice around the house, sometimes not. But regardless I like to wear skimpy clothing, rub up against him, feel and squeeze his balls, ass cheeks, and body just to see him get a boner (or try to, hehe). I’ll take this a lot further sometimes, stroking his dick until he starts leaking precum, getting him close to orgasm, only to stop and tell him to calm down. Sometimes I even let him fuck me until I have an orgasm or two, then tell him to stop. This is delightfully frustrating for him. Other times I’ll leave him in the chastity cage and masturbate right in front of him. One of my favorite teases is to use his mouth to make me cum and send him away completely denied. Sometimes I tell him I’m going to make him cum, only to stop at the last second and tell him I changed my mind.

Ruined Orgasm. By far the funniest aspect to this whole femdom thing. Its really an artform. The basic idea is that you get your man very, very close to the point of orgasm and then stop all stimulation. If you do it right, he’ll just tip over the edge, and his semen will dribble out of his dick with barely any force, and next to no pleasure. This works best with his hands restrained so he can’t try to finish the job himself. I like to pair this sometimes with the shock collar to make it completely miserable.

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“You want it? She asks, knowing the answer.

“Please, he whines, begging for her with him whole body, and he couldn’t possibly say no.

“You can start with me,” she told him, pulling his face to him.

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Ideas to explore fetishes related to male submission and female domination as a couple in a female led relationship. Many of these ideas and themes can be combined and modified to fit your needs.

Denial

Caged. Have him wear a chastity cage so he can only get hard and cum with permission.

Ruined orgasm. Stop stimulation just as he cums to deny pleasure and frustrate him.

Luck of the draw. Have him roll dice to determine his fate.

Hands to yourself. Tempt him with your body but don't allow him to touch.

Visual creatures. Have him jerk off for you but don't let him see your body.

Humiliation

Little guy. Tease him about his size while he's trying to cum.

Pretty in pink. Have him wear panties or otherwise dress up in order to cum.

Safety first. He has to jerk off with a condom.

Messy boy. He can only touch himself in the bathroom and must cum straight into the toilet.

Bad dog. He can only cum from humping something.

Domination

No pain, no gain. Give him a price to cum in the form of spankings.

Heating up. Let him jerk off with icy hot as lube.

Point system. Give him points for chores and services and reward or punish him for his total.

Like a girl. Pleasure him only with a buttplug or finger inserted.

Role reversal. Use a strap on to fuck him.

Cum Eating

Clean up duty. He must lick up his own cum.

Own medicine. He must cum directly into his face or into his mouth.

Bottoms up. Have him cum in a shot glass and swallow it.

Cherry on top. Make him garnish a dessert with his cum and eat it.

Made your bed. Have him cum on your pussy and go down on you.

Premature

Like magic. Hold his penis still in your hand or pussy and have him try to cum.

Softie. He can only jerk off and cum while he isn't fully hard.

Personal best. Give him a time limit he has to cum within.

Nostalgic. He can only cum while making out with you fully clothed and dry humping.

Easy does it. He can only stimulate himself with one finger.

Obedience

On my mark. Give him a countdown.

Past your bedtime. Give him sleeping pills and only let him jerk off when they're kicking in.

Whiskey dick. Give him shots and make him try to get hard and cum.

Self incriminating. Make him ask to be denied pleasure or punished and explain why he deserves it.

Time out. Send him to time out for unwelcome sexual attention.

Cuckolding

Jealousy. Tease him with fantasies about another man.

The flirt. Flirt with someone else in front of him.

Compare and contrast. Have a threesome but neglect or exclude him.

Warden. Give his chastity key to a lover of yours.

Exclusive. Reserve your body for your lover and deny him.

Forced bi

Self suck. Give him a dildo and do to his dick as he does to the dildo.

Sloppy seconds. Have a man cum in your pussy and have him lick it out.

Conversion therapy. Only let him cum to gay porn.

Teamwork. Bring a guy home and make him help you suck and fuck him.

Showtime. Bring a gay guy home and have him put on a show for you.

Perhaps someone is wondering how the retribution for bad behavior begins.

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