Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

When you saw her text notification, you paused on cleaning their apartment to see what she needed.

Seeing her eating had you squirming in your cage.

"Thank you. Thank you Goddess." You texted back.

When she had first mentioned the trip to Paris, you had thought she intended for you to come. Maybe you could carry their bags through Paris and drive them around. But after paying for their flight tickets and their hotel, your bank was cleared out.

So, while they enjoyed traveling through the city of love, you stayed in their apartment making sure their dog got fed and the place remained clean. They made it clear though, that even with them gone, you had to sleep on the couch.

"Weclome loser."

The picture was the first message she had sent since they arrived in Paris a week ago. Seeing her so happy and beautyful made you feel elated.

"Stop looking at the pic, n get back to work.

"Yes, Goddess." You said.

Slipping your phone into your apron pocket, you went back to scrubbing their bathroom floor.

wow.. i’m very thankful… for these tips to stop my knee pain….

She does “traffic jam” chastity

Help! My husband asked me to try chastity play but it’s not going well. Usually, right after I’ve let him out, things are fine. He can be a little cool toward me but that’s fine. But then over the next two days he grows steadily whinier until his begging to be unlocked is intolerable. Not much fun for me or him. I never tell him exactly when I’ll do it, but I almost always take pity on him in the evening on the third or fourth day and let him out to take care of himself. The whole thing has been a bit of a letdown. Is this what everyone is raving about? Surely not.

- Ms. M

No, Ms. M, it’s not and I dare say it’s because…

YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG

Okay, there’s no such thing as right and wrong with intimacy, just different tactics that will yield different results. The tactics you’re using are not aligned with the very achievable results you seek.

Traffic Jam Chastity

Don’t you hate idling in a traffic jam? The worst isn’t standstill traffic. The worst is traffic that is moving just slow enough so that you can’t leave your foot on the gas because you have to keep braking every five seconds. Starting and stopping in crowded traffic is enough to send any driver to road rage court. But that is exactly what you’re doing to your husband.

After a man orgasms his sexual response and interest drop precipitously to their lowest levels. We’ve all seen it. Interest in sex evaporates. Romance and flirting get shoved roughly in a drawer and the male brain hunkers down to git stuf dun.

But, as we know, those rascally males don’t stay heads-down for long. Within 24 hours the sexual response begins to slowly return as the prostate refills. He barely notices it at first but by the second and third days it has taken over his one-tracked mind and he’s getting pretty ready for some luvin’. Shouldn’t that mean you should give it to him? Give him some relief?

Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating for a man

No! Let me explain why not. Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating phase of chastity for a man. Why? For the same reason day 3 of any diet is the most temptation prone and why it eliminates so many dieters. He’s transitioning from getting exactly what his body demands to not. It’s an uncomfortable change and the body doesn’t like it. Every five minutes his body asks “Wait, wut? You mean I can’t have? Why can’t I have? I need! Give me now!” Frustration and irritation mount and, if you do let him orgasm, he will experience immediate relief.

The Goldilocks Phase

Relief is not pleasure. Relief is not useful. Relief, his relief, is not your friend. It lets him off the hook and unravels all that nice tension you just wound into his brain. If you want to experience the benefits of chastity and you want your husband to be floating on the fabled submissive cloud of chaste pleasure then you need to get him past the constant battle for relief and into the Goldilocks Phase.

Sometime after day 4, depending on the man, his body will slowly start to realize that an orgasm is not imminent and therefore it’s a waste of resources to keep expecting relief at any minute. This may take hours or days but he will eventually stabilize into acceptance. Not just mental, but physical acceptance. This is where you want his head.

In the Goldilocks Phase, his expectations have been lowered enough to stop fighting chastity but not so low that he gets depressed. In this phase he is free to simply experience chastity, to experience the sensation of ever growing arousal and ever intensifying desire. For men, desire is pleasure. This will be a sweet sensation that never stops, made just a little bittersweet by occasional waves of overwhelming need. (Don’t worry about those They pass quickly.)

Goldilocks is best for you too

It’s not just him that rides this wave. You benefit most in this period. Rather than spending time fighting chastity and pestering you, his only way out and only listening ear, he spends his time in quiet contemplation. It is this phase that he switches to the long game. Instead of busting out a couple of chores and expecting a tit-for-tat release, he begins to consider the keyholder’s point of view, her needs and her whims. He finds himself doing things that he knows she’ll appreciate and he hardly even notices that he’s doing them. He truly puts her first.

But you need to do it right

But for him to take that view you need to play above his level. Chastity must reinforce the dynamic you want. That means the following:

You never promise a date. You can hint at early release for good behavior or late release for bad, but he must never expect an actual date or time.

You must never cave to begging. He may ask politely once or twice during a stretch of chastity and, if you wish, you may give his request some consideration. But once your decision is made you must stick to it no matter what. I recommend that further begging result in a longer sentence.

Behavior should be tied to chastity. Don’t reward bad behavior. If you do you’re just teaching him he can do it and get the rewards.

How Long? Three-to-four weeks

The Goldilocks Period is about three to four weeks long. During this period he will slowly get more and more aroused, experience more and more submissive feelings toward you and become more and more malleable by you.

That long? I couldn’t possibly!

To some who are starting out, weeks of lockup might seem cruel. Believe me, it’s not as cruel as what you are doing to him by letting him out every three days, stop and go, hot and cold, up and down. If your doctor prescribed a 20-day course of antibiotics would you stop taking them after three days when you started feeling better? No. The same goes with the man. To get all those benefits you need to keep him locked for the full course. I would say that’s at least two weeks (in the case of some reward for extra good behavior) but usually three weeks. And up to four (in the case of bad behavior).

How will you know? He will thank you.

How will you know that you’re keeping him locked up long enough? He will thank you. That’s right, he will actually thank you for keeping him locked up. It might not happen right away. It might take several rounds, several months for his thinking to evolve but it surely will. I’ve done this to hundreds of men, some in person some online. Every single one of them proactively thanks me at some point. There are other signs as well. Aggressiveness toward you will disappear. Calm, quiet service to you will develop spontaneously. After the letdown of orgasm he will actually crave to go back in chastity. He’ll miss that glow so much he’ll want to skip past the next three days so he can get it. Eventually he’ll reach the point that he doesn’t want to be unlocked when the time rolls around. At that point you can have the magical discussion about… wait for it… permanent chastity. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

So man-up, ladies and lock him down and swear off traffic jam chastity forever.

Attitude adjuster. 

“I was sent here to tickle you”

This one’s more on the aggressive side for people who like lers who do wrestling holds and lees who are whiny

she could only watch helplessly in the mirror as the process continued…her new droneskin slowly oozing over her irrelevant human skin soon she will be covered soon she will be encased soon she will be drone resistance is futile escape is impossible she will be drone she will be drone she will obey she will serve she will obey

you will become drone you will serve you will obey you will obey

"Close your eyes sweetheart. Do you trust me?" I asked as I hold up a blindfold before I take you into our room. You havent seen whats inside but you want to. The sooner you obey, the sooner you get to. "Always Miss." You say and closed your eyes. Always such a sweet boy complying to me.

After tying the blindfold around your pretty eyes, I leaned in and whispered," You have been anticipating tonight haven't you? I can see the tent in your pants sweetheart. So hard for me already love and we barely even started yet." You blushed and tried to form words but being your adorable self....you only found yourself blushing more.

"Don't move. Ill lead you to the room. Tonight is going to be all about you. I get off when you cum uncontrollably. Hearing your moans and gasps fires me up. Seeing your squirming self makes me wanna put Satan to shame. Don't worry though adorbs, as much as you wanna please me, I will use you to my hearts content before having my release which of course you will help with." You gulped at my words and licked your lips.

Tracing a finger along your cheek, you leaned in for more contact until you realise my finger in heading towards your pretty mouth. "Such kissable lips, fuckable lips, perfect. Open your mouth love." I said tapping your bottom lip with the finger. I pushed it in slowly but you my dear are a greedy little pet.

You quickly hollowed your cheeks and sucked my finger deep into your mouth and your eager tongue decides to play with it as I let you. I have other plans but little did you know this is a tiny foreplay we are having sweetheart.

I quickly pulled out my finger, wrapped my hand around your neck and slammed you against the wall. I know you like it rough. I do too. That's why we're meant for each other. I alternate between kissing you hard and slapping your pretty face while calling you my pretty boy and my dirty slut. In a few minutes I have you panting and moaning for more, more of everything, a putty mess in my hands and I intend to give you all you need cub.

Suddenly you feel something tight around your neck and realised its your collar. I attached a leash to it and tugged you forward for another panty melting kiss. Dragging you by the collar, I finally led you in the room....."Use your safeword anytime baby boy, I gotchu. Till then im going to fuck you so hard on every surface till you beg me to stop making you cum and ill keep going until you are in a state of bliss." I said as I closed the door looking forward to break you in a heavenly way. 😏😏

Ps: Just a little fantasy. 😏

Xoxo

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