@love-missl I so want to test this theory.
That would be funny… https://ift.tt/2jtbUmm
This is one of the rituals that we perform in private to ensure our relationship remains unequal. Sure, slapping a submissive across the face is nothing new, but with us, there is a deeper meaning to it.
I don’t need to slap him hard, as it’s not the physical pain that counts, rather it’s the feeling of power and control I get when slapping his face, and the humility it forces upon him. A gentle backhand with only the flick of my wrist is sufficient. If I am wearing my leather gloves, I will remove one and lightly slap him with it.
When I slap him, I am conveying the message “I own you and can do whatever I damn well please to you”, and for a few months, I actually said the words out loud to him each time to drive that meaning into him with repetition. Now when I slap him, I don’t say it anymore, but in his mind, he hears the message loud and clear.
After slapping him, I hold my hand out to him. His part of the ritual is to feel the humiliation from the slap, and submit. To show his submission, he kisses the hand that slapped him conveying the message “ Yes Ma'am, you own me and I surrender to your control”. When I said my part out loud, he answered me out loud.
When I first created this ritual, I would slap him at random a few times a day just to remind both of us our roles and places in this relationship. It worked great and have expanded on it since.
When we first started, he would take my hand in his while kissing it, but now I have him clasp his wrists behind his back and hold them there instead as it’s a much more submissive and vulnerable pose. He must maintain eye contact with me while kissing the hand that beats him.
Every so often, I may feel that I don’t see enough submission in his eyes and slap him again. If I slap him a second time, he has to get down and kiss my bare feet, or lick the patent leather ballet slippers I tend to wear around the house, as they are comfortable and perfect for licking.
I now use it to control his speech as well. If he says something I find offensive, or is just boring me with what he is saying, a quick backhand across the face shuts him up immediately and he kisses my hand and remains silent until I allow him to speak again.
So, in summation, the ritual is quick, efficient, and gets the point across. I feel powerful as he experiences humility which helps to maintain the inequality we both feel is important in our female-led relationship.
She tells you you have 20 sissy baby rules for the party weekend. She has you write them down on paper with a crayon.
The Rules:
Rule 1 -Your pacifier must remain in your mouth, it can only be removed by a Daddy or Mommy. No speaking unless spoken to
Rule 2- No touching your diaper or anything inside it.
Rule 3- You will wear and use your pink diapers at all times. Only a Mommy or a Daddy May remove.
Rule 4- You must refer to everyone as Mommy, Mistress, Nanny or Daddy.
Rule 5- When spoken to, you will reply with, "Yes Mommy or Yes Daddy"
Rule 6- You will ask permission for everything.
Rule 7- You will never leave the nursery unless a Mommy or a Daddy says you can.
Rule 8- You will never disobey or disrespect a Mommy or a Daddy.
Rule 9- You will always follow Mommy's orders and do exactly what Mommy says.
Rule 10- You will obey Mommy's every command without hesitation or question.
Rule 11- You will never hide from a Mommy or a Daddy.
Rule 12- A Mommy or a Daddy may make new rules or add on to existing ones at anytime.
Rule 13- A Mommy or a Daddy can remove or add an article of clothing or accessory from your sissy body for any reason.
Rule 14- If a Mommy or a Daddy catches you in the act of breaking one of the above rules, the punishment will be decided by that individual.
Rule 15- Punishments can include spanking, time-out, public humiliation, enema, a phone text and pic to a co worker or whatever else a Mommy or a Daddy sees fit.
Rule 16- The punishment will be decided by a vote, whether or not the sissy has been a naughty sissy.
Rule 17- Sissies will always thank their Mommy or Daddy after every punishment, no matter how painful or humiliating.
Rule 18- Sissies will never talk about their punishment with anyone outside of the nursery, including the Mommy or Daddy that punished them.
Rule 19- Sissies must be grateful for every punishment they receive.
Rule 20- The Mommy or the Daddy may change or add any rule or punishment whenever they please.
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