Telling people to “Check your privilege” doesn’t make them want to listen to you. When you say that it makes you sound like a spoiled brat who doesn’t want to hear anything outside of what they want to hear.
Everyone has difference experiences. Don’t prioritize people’s experiences based on race or sex. It’s not always about you.
I’m with this movement!
I’ve seen posts talk about how the idea of motherhood and mothers having a better bond with their children and mothers having a “natural instinct” has hurt fathers and has even caused close interactions btw father and child to be looked down upon and seen a societally unacceptable etc.
But what I haven’t seen is a post that talks about how societies idealized view of relationships between mothers and their children is directly related to society’s acceptance of mothers abusing their children.
Our society activity accepts abuse from mothers and this needs to end.
The idea that if your mother hits you it’s discipline but if your father hits you it’s abuse is wrong. Both interactions are instances of abuse.
I have grown up with a mother who has chased me through the house, punched me many times, kicked me, hurt to me to the point where I’ve been physically ill for weeks. I am a victim of many years physical, emotional and mental abuse.
I suffer from night terrors of my abuse, triggers, touch repulsions, borderline personality disorder, panic disorder, chronic major depressive disorder (my depressive episodes are more frequent than depressive orders typically are for mdd) as a result of how she has abused me throughout my childhood and into my adulthood.
But people, many people even professional therapists have all insisted that as her child I owe her love and affection. Even people who have witnessed her abusing me insist that it is my job to love her because she decided to give birth to me. And decided to raise me.
This mindset has kept many children from being able to seek the help that they need. This mindset keeps children who are dealing with situations they should never have to think about victims to their mother’s abuse. It puts childrens lives in danger. It puts their mental health in danger.
Friends, family, social workers, psychologists, therapists, have all insisted to me throughout my childhood. That I was responsible for my mother, a grown adult, attacking me. That it was still my job as the person she gave birth to, to love her. Because of how society idealizes motherhood.
This cycle needs to end. Immediately. We don’t need put another generation of children through this. We can end this to help children as well as adults who are victims of their mother’s abuse rather than teaching them that it’s acceptable.
What the actual fuck is the world anymore
It’s not about revenge. It’s not about hate. It’s not about payback. If your feminism hates on men, then it’s not feminism, it’s sexism. If your feminism wants women to be superior to men, then it’s not feminism. Stop branding your sexist actions as a part of an equality movement.
This tb.
On a sidenote, I dislike the overuse of "tw", it's almost like you were trying to make everyone feel comfy by hiding them from the truth and dangers, that's the opposite of how a person grows stronger, search up what a "helicopter parent" is.
you guys remember when PETA stole people pets off their porches and euthanized them?
you guys remember how it came out that PETA kills about 90% of the animals it takes in, including healthy and adoptable puppies and kittens, stating “ We could become a no-kill shelter immediately. It means we wouldn’t do as much work”?
you guys remember when PETA advocated killing all pit bulls for the crime of being pit bulls?
you guys remember when PETA handed out these comics to children when there were no adults looking?
you guys remember when they made a porn site and then filled it with videos of animal abuse, and (also in that link) claimed cats should be vegetarian?
you guys remember when PETA lied about sheep shearing, got caught, and defended the lie as true even after they admitted the sheep in their picture wasn’t even real?
you guys remember when they tried to excuse their horrifying ways by claiming that the person who exposed them was manipulating the facts by taking them and putting them in the wrong context?
Because I remember. I remember everything.
And I’m gonna make sure everyone else remembers too.
Yes :^
I am a hetero on this site, it is hard to find members of our species, we are facing imminent extinction due to the continued hunt by SJW's towards us because of the apparent 'privilege' they claim we have.
I have found a hidden spot deep in an abandonded cave where their simultaneous hivemind-like triggered roars at spotting one of us can only be heard from rarely but loud enough to hear whay the say and make me know my brain cells are in a rather good condition in comparision, sometimes I actually find someone else of my species and let them in to take refugee
I still socialize with friendly lgbtq's who have managed to escape the sudden outburst of the infection "Check-yo-privilege-you-white-cis-het-male", a radical mutation of "Irrational judgement" that has also been nicknamed as "Hello, my name is Special Snowflake™️"
What the fuck is straight tumblr and is it even a thing?
Is
Is the ending a reference to having a writer's block-
Despite having pink hair, a tragic backstory, and untold magic power, the narrator refuses to make you the main character
Jeebus crust-
It did too for me
Shoutout to the imaginary person or creature that used to run alongside the car when you were a kid. It was so good at parkour.
Drifting is literally having control of losing control.
@keiimyeh u//w//u) ♡
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im gonna make a hinged cube that you can open up and lay flat and every face is a different board game and its called Big Chess
Radio stations interrupt their commercial-free program by playing a commercial on how they are commercial-free
They should redeem the Home Alone franchise by making a final movie with Macaulay Culkin coming to terms with himself and his family after years of anxiety and drug abuse caused by abandonment issues.
If giraffes were extinct we’d go “Wow, imagine if they were alive!”
damn, this is beutiful
River nestled in the valley.
Alberta, Canada.
whoops :^)
@cisnowflake Yup, on a sidenote, there are also lots of ads with strong, muscular six-pack men in it, talk about how apparently expectations for women of just not eating too much (or too little, ofc) to stay healthy are apparently too high
Also, sexist air conditioning?
please tell me you just invented that one because you didn't know what else to add in, I can't believe
It’s not about revenge. It’s not about hate. It’s not about payback. If your feminism hates on men, then it’s not feminism, it’s sexism. If your feminism wants women to be superior to men, then it’s not feminism. Stop branding your sexist actions as a part of an equality movement.
^^^^^This
also, if your "feminism" is not about women being superior to men, and rather about equality of both genders' rights, stop branding it as feminism, and rather as egalitarian
feminism was about equality for women, and it was needed in the past, of course, egalitarianism would have done it eventually if it had become popular, but the feminism, focusing was to boost the equality for women, since they did have lower rights/were treated worse back then
Nowadays that's only needed in some third world countries, if you really want to advocate for equality, brand yourself as egalitarianism in general, it's actually getting to the point were the feminism branding is making men get treated like shit because they are seen by some as this oppresive, selfish rapists who are apparently priviledged
Hell, not only are there equal rights for women anymore in the U.S, which is of course great, but now they actually have more, yes, more, you can look it, and it hasn't stopped there men have even lost some in other countries, like India, apparently there, men obviously can't get raped! how can men be rape victims after all?
https://www.quora.com/Why-isnt-there-a-law-for-male-rape-victims-in-India
here is a quote from this quora post on that matter:
The Indian law should recognise that males can also be raped, but the fact of the matter is most of the sexual harassment laws are influenced by feminist groups and organisations. Therefore sexual harassment crimes and rapes are not gender neutral because "it would further harm the interests of female rape victims.".
It is true that feminism is about(or at least, was, considering the present) equal rights for women, and it has been achieved in western culture, but the fact of matter is the prolongation of this out of some of women(and yes, I am targetting a specific group, not everyone is like this) that just can't stand not being pampered is really damaging not only the other sex, but also how the rest of the world views them, and realizes the bullshittery that 3rd wave feminism is at it's very core
And if you actually are a 3rd wave feminist because you think others are higher than you: Look around, look at the blatantly based left-leaning liberal TV media, look at Tumblr itself, the biggest echo chamber of this, anyone with this mindset can be comfy here, because they are always given the reason, people like it when they are told things like about how much they are oppressed when they're already quite high, even if it's at the same level or more than others, because that means they are apparently supposed to be treated even better than they are at the minute; hell, even better? who wouldn't want that? strange it is too that everyone, especially females, are being force-fed by other feminists about how apparently nowadays in first world countries women are so oppressed. Y'know what this whole paragraph is talking about?
Systematical indoctrination.
I stand for equality, not an animal farm "all animals are equal, but some are more equal than others" bullshit that some seem to be gladly falling too, and by the way, I recommend that book if you haven't read it ;)
And with that, I take my leave
It’s not about revenge. It’s not about hate. It’s not about payback. If your feminism hates on men, then it’s not feminism, it’s sexism. If your feminism wants women to be superior to men, then it’s not feminism. Stop branding your sexist actions as a part of an equality movement.
I feel bad for this, but as much as I like the positivity in the post, I'd like to break this and point out how the body does that just for the sake of being able to actually remain alive and eventually reproduce, and how you shouldn't love it back, but rather, you should try to take care of it, if you're overweight, instead of excusing your problem with saying you 'love' your body and it's alright to be like that, you should actually demonstrate that you love it by caring for it and getting healthier, same goes for underweight, or any other kind of problem like that that hurts you(your concious mind) and your body, because if you just simply say, 'my body is alright' when it's actually not, instead of improving it, you'll create more problems for it to deal with, and basically be throwing away all it's doing to help you.
It's a symbiotic relationship, try to take the initiative to help and improve it, for itself and for yourself, and it'll help back and make you even better, for yourself and for itself
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I hate the word “fanservice” because it can mean either “hey, we heard you chattering about that lore thing we started to do once but failed to deliver on so here, we put some thought into this update and included that and we hope you like it” or “for no immediate reason, we gave this character big round badonkers”
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Even better
“it’s like freud always said,” says the ‘psychologist’ character in the movie, making everyone in the audience who knows anything at all about psychology flinch involuntarily
If someone really “Lived every day like it was their last” they’d have a great week, a terrible month, and be dead within a year.
All dogs share the same basic digestive system despite the range of physical variations (and attitudes) across different breeds. Every dog is designed to eat a raw animal-based diet, from the Chihuahua to the Great Dane. Breed-specific dog food brands are simply a marketing gimmick aimed at playing on the pet owner’s emotions, and their desire to feed their pet the best possible diet.
Farmers in Indonesia introduce fish into their rice fields. The fish excrement acts as a fertilizer for the plants, while the plants attract insects and other pests, which serve as food for the fish. This process increases rice yield by up to 10%.