Asking Because I’m A Cis Straight Woman, And Sometimes I Feel Like I’m Infringing In A Queer Space

Asking because I’m a cis straight woman, and sometimes I feel like I’m infringing in a queer space by being in the dip n pip community. I’ve been here since 2014, but I know how awful it’s been for queer people historically and presently to find communities where they feel safe and accepted, so sometimes I worry that I’m literally the ONLY cis straight phannie and I’m appropriating queer culture and being an imposter in a queer community. I want to be a better ally to you guys so please let me know how I can do that! If this post is in any way insensitive or rude please let me know and I’ll take it down. I just wanted to start the conversation as someone who is trying to be a good ally to my queer friends online and irl 🫶🏻✨💖

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8 months ago

Some big blogs seem to think they’re too good to tag phan, I’m glad danielhowell has finally decided to step up and do his part

8 months ago

we need to be really fucking afraid. like we need to start seriously preparing beyond our wildest dreams because at yesterday’s q&a

directly after phil said “no seriously imagine it” and zoned out, he pointed at the cardboard cutout of gerard way and said, and i QUOTE:

“that would be— we should get a picture that before- because then we could- use it for the Thing on the Thing day”

the Thing on the Thing day????? and now apparently their director posted that they’ll be at the vegas mcr/fob festival Like is this fucking play about us?

7 months ago

Getting ready for tit tonight and for the first time in my life I feel like I can dress as unhinged gay as I want and everyone will like my outfit instead of staring suspiciously at me


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8 months ago

saying "you missed the memo" on reading out a question asking how to get over a breakup is the most fucking quintessential not-quite-a-hard-launch thing they've said so far


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8 months ago

I agree that phil is evil but the fact that he forgot his line straight before that as well almost makes me think this was a genuine slip up?


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3 months ago

Dan and Phil are probably some of the most inspiring people in the world to me. I just look at them and think:

You can be queer and grow up to be loved and happy. You can learn to be comfortable with yourself

You can be weird and awkward in a myriad of ways, and you can find people who will love you for that weirdness, who will match it and double it. If you feel isolated for being different from those around you, that doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. It just means you're around the wrong people. The right people are out there and you can find them, or they can find you

If/when you're safe to do so, be yourself as freely and loudly as possible. This is the way you can find your people. This is the way for you to be happy

You can have chronic physical or mental health issues and be loved, supported, and happy

If your teenage years were shit, the future is bright, and it gets better from there. You just need to survive

Your life doesn't end at 30. Honestly, that's sort of when it begins. If you don't know what you're doing in your 20s, that's okay. Most people don't. You'll figure it out. Don't be hard on yourself

The more you live, the more you get to reinvent yourself

Relationships (of any kind) don't have to have a time limit. If you trust each other, love each other, and communicate clearly, you can stick by each other's side for as long as you want

You don't lose yourself once you reach an age that sounds "serious". You get to keep your whimsy and enthusiasm for the things you love as long as you don't give up on it

You can love and be loved. No matter what. You can love and be loved. It's possible. It's real. It's tangible. You can love and be loved.

9 months ago

yall dont care about the secret splinge communication moment like i do :(

6 months ago

Why are they making us waitttttt I am foaming at the mouth where is the video


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6 months ago

This is a night for the phistory books


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8 months ago

like what do you MEAN we've only just finished the Europe part of the tour and we've gotten:

December/October discourse

Fake Philslion denial

danussy D:

Phil falling off stage

Gay little dates

The assertion that Phil can cook A Single (one(1)) dish (it is spaghetti)

Dozens of earth-shattering m&g photos

far too many No But Seriously Imagine It mentions

far too many Wedding mentions

Hoodie strings discourse

Tour bus confirmation

A stolen prop

clothing sharing confirmation

gay little video

you're telling me they have THREE OTHER LEGS OF THE TOUR TO DO??? i am afraid

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