Something That My Therapist Taught Me That Really Helped Me Have More Self Compassion Was The Concept

I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but it’s okay if your spirituality, beliefs, and practices have changed since the beginning of the pandemic. And it’s okay if you’re still figuring out what those changes mean for you.

Just by existing in a country with a lot of cases and/or deaths, you’ve experienced a continuous traumatic event stretched out over 14+ months. Even if you personally have not been affected, your day-to-day routine has probably been disrupted in some way. This kind of continuous trauma is going to cause major changes in every aspect of your life and personality – and that’s assuming you haven’t had any other traumatic events that may or may not be related to the pandemic, like unemployment, housing insecurity, or losing a loved one.

It’s normal to see some changes in your spiritual life after this kind of trauma. Changes in spirituality are a common symptom of grief. Some people feel a stronger connection to/belief in their faith, and may become more active. Others feel disconnected from their faith and may find it difficult to find motivation for spiritual pursuits. Both are normal, healthy ways of coping with your grief.

You may also find that your experiences in the past year have lead you to reevaluate whether your beliefs and practices really work for you anymore. You may have a system, a tool, or a guide that has been a cornerstone of your spirituality for years, but that suddenly doesn’t seem to be a good fit anymore. This is normal. The world has changed. You have changed. It’s natural that your spiritual path would change with you.

You are not broken. Your gods have not abandoned you. You are a human coping with trauma, and you are allowed to make changes to your spiritual practice so you can feel more supported. 

Hoshi: Wonu, when with Junhui, are you the big spoon or little spoon?

Wonwoo: I'm always a knife.

Jun: No. He's the chopsticks.

Woozi: the fuck is that supposed to mean.

Source: Sumbu.official on IG

So, im not sure where to post this but im hoping to find a new role playing partner? I prefer simi lit / or literate and if interested pm me please.

Ateez fandom

- Seongwha

Bts

Kim Namjoon

Min yoongi

(Pt.?) Seongjoong As Parents

Yeosang, playing Wii sports: I may look okay on the outside, but deep down i want you to

Yeosang, pressing the button: Erase Mii

Hongjoong, sighing: What have we said about stupid thoughts?

The rest of ATEEZ, in sync: No stupid thoughts, feelings or ideas during Family Time

Can everyone just chill the fuck out? don't like what we write/ have a problem with smut, leave the blog. see spelling errors grammar mistakes cool, you know that we make mistakes and aren't perfect. AND if you don't like how we write an idol? or Y/N in a fic? stop reading it? we aren't forcing y'all to read our shit YOU came to use YOU found our work. thats on YOU babies

your eyes - wen jun hui

summary: your sweet boyfriend jun was always there to take of you whenever you needed to do something. you being blind hasn't really affected him in any way since he met you at a coffee house, you walking slowly besides your friend in case you trip over something and him helping you from falling over the freshly made coffee. he was sweet, kind and so caring towards you and you never had been more grateful for having him in your life. or was it your biggest mistake, to let yourself be taken care of someone whom you doesn't really know? someone who, behind the mask of his kind façade, hides a deep dark secret?

pairing: fem!reader x incubus!jun

story type: a three part series

genres: slight angst, smut, slight horror element, jun is more than he seems to be, fantasy

~ coming soon ~ don't know when i will be posting this because i have way too many drafts😭 but if you want to be added on taglist, drop a reply or an ask!

Hyunjin: Oh, Chan! I know you don't wanna talk about it, but I did contact our dance instructor.

Chan: No need, Hyunjin, it's all good.

Hyunjin: So the fight with Minho is over?

Chan: Yup!

Hyunjin: Because you understand it now?

Chan: Nope!

Jisung: Because you guys...

Chan: Yup!

Jisung: I knew it.

Jisung, goes to leave but quickly turns back to Hyunjin: See what happened is your dads had sex.

Hyunjin, quickly stands up to leave: Okay, Jisung!

Ateez Reaction To: You randomly lay in their lap

Requested by: @sarangeulhaettda 

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『 S e o n g h w a 』

He was scrolling through his phone when you put your head on his lap

Would be very confused at first but he would let you just lay there

Then he would play with your hands (like touching your fingers with his gently)

Shows you videos that make him laugh

He would be slightly worried if you don’t say anything and would ask if you’re okay

If you’re not okay, he’ll make you talk to him about what’s wrong

If nothing is wrong and you just wanted to lay there, he’ll find it so cute 

Puts his phone on mute to take photos of you 

Seonghwa scrolls through his phone, looking at the usual videos pop up on his feed of baby videos and animal videos. He giggles at the babies and happily laughs to the silly animals. When he noticed your presence, he’s quick to greet you but got nothing in response. You just let yourself fall on his lap and he’s worried you’re going to end up crying, but he’s glad to notice how happy your eyes are and that you just wanted him to hold you for a bit. Seonghwa does and shows you every video he is watching. 

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