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Advice to Help Your Journey

Whether it is your Healing Journey, your Spiritual Journey, Finding Yourself, Soul Searching or any other Journey you pursue, always keep in mind it is your journey, therefore it must be your own Personal Path. Listen to those who guide you, rather than those that dictate to you. Someone who guides you will tell you how they have found their way and it may inspire you to do some things the same but in your own personal way. 

Those that dictate will say “You have to do it this way” or “It won’t work if you don’t do it a certain way”. This leaves no room for creativeness, If we were all meant to copy each other, it wouldn’t be a personal journey and there would be no point of us being individuals and we would never evolve, we would all be stuck doing the same thing over and over again, We are all here to find our own way. Not meaning there will be no similarities, but meaning it should fit and feel right for us individually.

Sometimes you may find, you will do something the same as someone else but you do it because it feels right, not because you were told you have to or this is the only way. When you are on a Journey, you are doing it to find your own path, not to journey up somebody else’s path. You are here to find the path that resonates with you, otherwise it won’t feel right and you may likely feel it’s a waste of time or too hard and give up. A lot of people starting out on a path get so confused and they are told it is going to be hard and they hear so many people say, “this is how you must do it” and everyone is saying different things and that makes it seem confusing and hard. When you find your own path it won’t feel hard it will feel good and it will feel right. 

When you listen to people telling you how, “you have to do it,” you lose your freedom and that is what your path is all about, it is the freedom to feel good, being you, the freedom to find your own way. There is no one person out there with all the right answers for you or anyone else either. But you can take a piece from each, just take the pieces that fit for you, it’s perfectly okay to do it that way.

Yes, there are structures and things that need to be considered and achieved along most paths. For example healing emotional wounds, you need to achieve self love and self respect and acceptance of who you are, so you can feel worthy, You achieve those by going within and understanding where your hurt first arose, so you can then release it by healing your inner child, but how you get there has to feel right to you, there is no one way that fits everyone, your wounds are no exact match to anyone else’s and neither will your healing be. All journeys need a structure but you are the one who chooses and designs the path.

There is a lot of very helpful guidance and advice out there but learn how to recognize guidance from dictatorship. Listen to advice, it will definitely help, I advise you to get your hands on as much advice and guidance as you can, but don’t believe there’s only one way, feeling stuck on what one person said “you have to do”, can create blockages and hurdles along your way. Listen to the choices but above all, take only what feels right to you, it will make your journey a lot smoother.

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I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but it’s okay if your spirituality, beliefs, and practices have changed since the beginning of the pandemic. And it’s okay if you’re still figuring out what those changes mean for you.

Just by existing in a country with a lot of cases and/or deaths, you’ve experienced a continuous traumatic event stretched out over 14+ months. Even if you personally have not been affected, your day-to-day routine has probably been disrupted in some way. This kind of continuous trauma is going to cause major changes in every aspect of your life and personality – and that’s assuming you haven’t had any other traumatic events that may or may not be related to the pandemic, like unemployment, housing insecurity, or losing a loved one.

It’s normal to see some changes in your spiritual life after this kind of trauma. Changes in spirituality are a common symptom of grief. Some people feel a stronger connection to/belief in their faith, and may become more active. Others feel disconnected from their faith and may find it difficult to find motivation for spiritual pursuits. Both are normal, healthy ways of coping with your grief.

You may also find that your experiences in the past year have lead you to reevaluate whether your beliefs and practices really work for you anymore. You may have a system, a tool, or a guide that has been a cornerstone of your spirituality for years, but that suddenly doesn’t seem to be a good fit anymore. This is normal. The world has changed. You have changed. It’s natural that your spiritual path would change with you.

You are not broken. Your gods have not abandoned you. You are a human coping with trauma, and you are allowed to make changes to your spiritual practice so you can feel more supported. 

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Take this into 2021 and beyond 🙏🏼

a wonwoo thought please 😔😔😔 the man is so fiiinnnneeeee

wheeeeeew he's beyond fine. honestly his fucking stare is beyond hot it makes me wanna chew glass. so imagine he's fingering you, and you're squirming beneath him while he crooks his fingers just right. the whole time he's looking at you with that fucking stare. those dark, intense eyes just rove over your body, honing in on where your pussy greedily sucks in his fingers with each thrust, before looking over the rest of your trembling form. he runs his other hand over your quivering body, tracing the curve of your torso as you arch up, of your abdomen as it tenses in response to the pleasure. the whole time he's just watching you, observing you so attentively, taking in every detail of you lost to the throes of pleasure while he thrusts his fingers deep inside of you

there's something about him that really suits a more subdued kind of lust, carrying himself as completely composed even though he's ready to burst at the seams. like he would rub his thumb over your clit just to make you cry out and clench around his fingers, and even though all you see is a tilt of the head and all you hear is a low observant hum, he was damn near ready to cum just from the way you cry out for him. the moments would drag on so slowly, your pleasure prolonged as he just sets your body alight with his skilled hands. he’d take his time, teasing you, making you melt not with a rush of heat, but with a steady simmer that has you falling apart more and more over time.

Why are you so sensitive? (Choi San imagine)

Genre: Cute, fluff imagine

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Gif is mine

You were watching a movie with your boyfriend, San. It was a Saturday night. After a very difficult week, a day off was everything you needed.

You two were sitting on the living room's couch and his hands were around you. You were hugging each other tightly and you were both watching tv carefully.

San didn't want to miss anything, so he were not talking to you. "San, would you like me to bring some pop corn?", you asked him, but he did not answer. "San!", you shouted and he turned his head to face you. "What, baby? Did you say anything?", he asked.

His ignorance made you very angry. You were so mad at him, because of his answer. You made the decision to go to the kitchen and you left him alone. You took the bowl of pop corn with you and you went back to the living room. You sat next to San and you started cuddling with him again.

You were watching a thriller and you could not help but being scared every time the screen was showing something scary. You were so terrified that the bowl fell on the floor. The living room's floor were now full of pop corn.

You looked at San with sorry eyes. It was time for him to be angry. "I fixed the floor an hour ago!", San complained. "Sorry...", you said in a pitty way and he stood up. He brought a broom. He cleaned and he sat next to you after finishing.

"Are you mad at me?", you asked him softly. "No!", he said in a mad way. You were sure that he was lying. The tone of his voice was really serious and angry. You were talking to him for a while and he was ignoring you again.

You wanted to cry. What had you done to him to deserve this kind of reaction? You left him alone again and he didn't know why you were doing this. "Where are you going?", he shouted. You didn't answer and you went to your shared bedroom.

San was following you, while he was full of curiosity. You fall on the bed and you started crying. "Baby, what happened? Are you Ok?", San asked and he sat next to you. "What have I done to you and you are treating me like that?", you said, while you were crying.

"I am really sorry! I am really sorry I made you feel so bad! I was overreacting! It is my fault, sweetheart!", he said and he put his hands on your cheeks.

"Why are you so sensitive?", he said and he smiled at you. "I don't know... It's... It's just...", you said, but he stopped you. "It's just you, baby! And I love you to the moon and back!", he said and he kissed you.

The end

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