mirrorpalais
hello i'm FA and leo sun. I'm 26
My ask: How my future spouse will treat me?
Thank you a lot šš„
How will FA's future spouse treat them?
the hierophant, the empressĀ
They'll be the type to have particular routines with you: such as eating breakfast together every morning before work or scheduling a weekly date night that is rarely missed. However, they may be adamant about certain routines like imagine you're hurrying through work one day and you tell them you're going to skip it. Your future spouse will not like this lmao but they will unwillingly accept it with a sad puppy expression. This is just their way of showing affection because I think they will struggle with being emotionally vulnerable. So theyāll always come back with thoughtful gestures, romantic gestures that are practical. For example, like when youāre overwhelmed, they might handle chores or surprise you with something small but attentive to your needs to lift your spirits. They will turn into your personal cheerleader when you pursue your goals!. They'll love seeing you being independent. They are also the type to not leave all of the planning to one spouse. They will make you feel cared for by making tiny but very meaningful gestures. Even in stressful situations, when you are out of it, they will make sure that you are feeling safe and respected. Even reminding you to take a rest.
Initials : SB
Age : 18 yrs, 10 months
Rising sign: Aquarius (according to vedic astrology)
Your question:
How can i improve my focus and love for studies? My cgpa is stuck at 7.5 out of 10, and i feel burnt out whenever i think about studies. My goal to be a rank holder with a cgpa above 9.5
What can SB do to improve their focus and love for studies?
I didn't even start to shuffle but after reading your context and as a tip, if you want to radically raise your score considering that your current score is 7.5 out of 10, you will end up shooting yourself in the foot. You should be more practical and rational about your current situation. Setting such a high bar for yourself without even being able to get out of 7.5 is not the best solution. You should focus on reaching a 7.8 and if you want to be ambitious, maybe an 8. It is not bad to dream big! At all. But you should take small goals, go step by step. When you get to 7.8, set a goal to get to 7.9 and so on. In other words, set realistic goals babe.Ā
But that's not what you came for, let's see what the cards say: You have a spread that is mostly pentacle suits. They reinforce what I told you: be more practical. To be more specific, be more practical in your daily academic routines. One of them could be what I told you. Currently you feel that you lack more interest, you have apathy and you are dissatisfied with what you are achieving. But I see you mostly in a cycle. You may be comparing yourself to others (big mistake if thatās so). Although you are not quite deep in this cycle at all. The fact that you have sent an ask to get out of it confirms that there is a part of you that wants to get out of it and WILL get out of it. The obstacle you present is one of disappointment and sadness because you are not able to establish a solid foundation to improve your academic performance. You feel you don't have the stability you should and you refuse to see another point of view. But your best solution is to establish what I told you, a better routine. Start with a study schedule that suits you. If you can't stand 40 minutes in a row with 25 minutes of rest, make it fit you: 10 minutes of study followed by 8 minutes of rest. Are you a visual learner? Draw your notes in a notebook. You struggle with organizing? Create a study plan beforehand. What are your strengths? Are you good at retaining information at longer periods? Then instead of 40 minutes try 55 minutes of studying. Stop focusing on comparing your achievements with others, it should be comparisons with your own self. No more looking at how much your classmate scored versus you. Look at how much you scored versus last time, is there an improvement, what things did you feel helped you and what things did you notice that didn't? If you feel that feeling of wanting to compare yourself imagine a yellow bubble around you and every time you want to compare yourself to others you repeat to yourself in your head: "This progress is mine, no one else's. I'm working on me, and what I'm doing is mine. I am working on me, and on what I can achieve, I am not going to compare myself". You repeat it as many times as necessary while you imagine yourself expanding that bubble until you feel a sense of tranquility. The more you say it with more trust in your words, the more easily the bubble will expand. And then focus on what you can control in that moment. If youāre not that spiritual, try the CBT technique: challenge your thoughts. Thoughts create emotions -> emotions influence behavior and behavior influences thoughts. It is a cycle. Thereās a free Harvard course for this! Be mindful with yourself and learn how to improve that resilience against burnout. And by all means, create smaller goals that will help you build your confidence little by little. A simple āLetās finish this homework firstā and then going to your teacher and asked them what you could have done better makes a huge impact. Thatās how the burnout can stop too. Do not go thinking that by the next semester you are going to have a 10. You must go little by little but consistently. Do not give up. Nurture this slowly. Because that's the only way you're gonna make it.
HeyĀ theeere,Ā nameāsĀ C.Ā IāmĀ venusĀ dominant,Ā entpĀ (8w7),Ā soĀ donātĀ beĀ surprisedĀ toĀ seeĀ moreĀ inclinationĀ towardsĀ romanceĀ tarotĀ readings.Ā EnglishĀ isĀ noĀ myĀ firstĀ language!Ā SoĀ bareĀ w/Ā me.Ā IĀ loveĀ fashion,Ā tarotĀ andĀ movies.Ā IĀ alsoĀ enjoyĀ learningĀ aboutĀ mbtiĀ (Ā thoĀ iāmĀ noĀ expertĀ ). My reading style is straightforward and direct without overly spiritual language. I reserve the right to decline any reading that conflicts with my personal ethics, values or energy.Ā
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General,Ā love & personalĀ growth.Ā I encourage open-minded and respectful questions that don't overstep ethical or personal boundaries. BasicĀ astrologyĀ birthĀ chartĀ questions.
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MedicalĀ orĀ legalĀ themed readings or advice.Ā AllowĀ minors orĀ obsessiveĀ people (I don't answer questions that feel invasive, repetitive or based on unhealthy attachments & since i always do an energy check i tend to find this out). No third-party readings: I won't dive into others thoughts or feelings without their consent. No contact questions (to be more specific, I won't answer questions about reconciling with people who may have explicitly cut ties, blocked or separated from you). Free readings unless itās a tarot game. No extreme predictive timelines with specific timing questions. Timing in tarot can be too fluid. Yes or no questions now since tarot gives more nuanced answers to provide clarity beyond a simple yes or no. No hexes, curses or spellwork.
After so many years, i've come to you with a new pac! This one was chosen through a poll last year. In this pack, weāll explore what your person of interest thinks about you. It doesnāt apply to family, friends, etc.
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DISCLAIMER: This is a general reading so take only what resonates.
Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:
If youāve been intuiting things that you canāt quite confirm, but thereās a voice in your head telling you it is true. It also applies if youāve had difficulty letting go of this connection, or if youāve suddenly felt a disconnection or blockage with this person.
What do they think of you?
In short, when they think of you, they think of a missed opportunity. As if things didnāt play out in their favor. There was a good opportunity for something beautiful, that simply couldnāt happen because of external reasons. Itās possible that there was bad timing. This person left me with a feeling of resignation in the air. Maybe you felt capable of offering something reciprocal and even committing, but apparently it was only on your part. This person didnāt know how to give back to you in the right way, and that resignation I mentioned earlier comes filled with passivity on their end. This person seems like they didnāt have the will to fight for the connection the way they should have.
Signs: This person seems like someone who rationalizes a lot before acting, so it made me think of Libra and Aquarius. They tend to emotional protection and stay silent when they feel theyāre losing control. A troubled Moon in Scorpio or Virgo. Oh, and they have a hard time closing chapters. It makes me think of a Moon or Venus in fixed signs: Taurus or Scorpio. Iād put Leo but thereās too much passivity on their end.
Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:
This reading applies to people who, after experiencing this connection, have become more grounded. If you have worked on setting healthy boundaries and are now approaching the situation more mature.
What do they think of you:
This person feels both clarity and shame. Theyāve realized they didnāt act in the best way with you. They may have acted evasively, lied to you, or been very dishonest. Thatās where the shame comes from. Even regret. They know they played a role in making things between you unstable or even difficult. They wish things had been different with you. But that shame is camouflaged in denial and doesnāt let them fully process that clarity. Theyāre not ready to face it openly and have a hard time being completely honest with themselves to know how to fix it.
Signs: Definitely Virgo or Capricorn badly aspected in their birth chart because of fear of not being enough. Pisces and Cancer in sun or mercury, or even Venus. Some air in there, because of the tendency to overthink. Definitely no fire in their chart due to the lack of initiative, and if there is, it must be very weak lmao.
Energy check to see if this reading is meant for you:
If you felt that this person at first showed interest but then their actions werenāt consistent over time and you noticed them as empty or even manipulative, this pile is for you. It also applies if youāve noticed that this person isnāt as honest or self confident as they seem. If youāve picked up on insecurity, immaturity, etc. If youāve recently snapped out of the confusion they left you in and now feel more disappointment than anything over how they treated you.
What do they think of you:
This person knows things didnāt end well: theyāre fully aware of it. Maybe it was pride, misunderstandings, or even a clash of temperaments. Whatever the case, it left you both distant. They wonāt say it, but they know they lost a chance with you because deep down, they admire you. Itās a bit complicated to explain, but they admire how strong, reserved, or even hard to read you are. Maybe theyāre one of those masochists who feel a weird admiration when someone finally sets a strong, clear boundary and slams the door on them when theyāre not used to it lmao. To this person, you were important or even different from the rest, and they think youāre the one who came out better from this situation.
Signs: Thereās an internal struggle to keep the peace, but not as strong as Libraās diplomacy, sounds like Sagittarius to me. Very weakened Sagittarius with some 12th house placements. They might have some Scorpio. But since thereās so much avoidance, most likely they have Pisces or Cancer (or both), misaligned/weakened. There are chances they have a Mars in Libra or something Libra-related in there. Venus in Aquarius sounds very fitting to me.
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My reading was so cute, loved their reaction! It resonated with other readings that said they will be more in love with me after this, and this makes me so happy. Thank you a lot ššš«š§
Hi there! Iām so glad to hear that you loved the reading and that it resonated with you! Itās wonderful to know that it connected with what youāve been feeling. Thank you for your kind words! ā£ļø
every time i start to feel cringe for being too deep in the hyperfixation i remember the intense depression i have waded through and have to remind myself that enjoyment is fleeting (so grab it with both hands), and life is for loving (so hold that love close), and if anyone thinks iām cringe they must not be having a very good time (and i hope they can find a good time soon).
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I'm going to skip over the anonymous participants who did not clarify who they were on direct messages.
One participant submitted their alias anonymously, but there are several direct messages from others where they just say they submitted their question anonymously without telling me WHO they are. So... I donāt know who's who.