kai @miwtual’s birthday countdown event + DAY 6: favorite tv show
FRIENDS (1994-2004)
@platonicsource 's january 2025: acts of love.
Living with a chronic illness be like:
"I feel like I'm going to die"
5 minutes later...
"Ok, let's see what movie I should watch"
when rest and "lazy days" stop being optional, you eventually stop enjoying it. i don't even know how to relax anymore. there's barely any relaxation in rest for me, it's all forced by a sick body.
Anyway, able bodied people need to stop blaming people’s chronic pain on their diets.
Like no mom, my hips aren’t in excruciating pain because I ate a couple cookies last night.
ily disabled people who are dependent on aids
ily disabled people who are too scared to use aids
ily disabled people who have been bullied out of using aids
ily disabled people who feel like they don't need many aids or any at all
ily loud disabled people
ily quiet & mute disabled people
ily disabled people who "make being disabled your entire personality"
ily disabled people who are punk, goth, emo, scene, grunge, metal, vkei, decora and any "wierd" fashion style (especially if you decorate your aids to match you're the coolest)
ily creative disabled people
ily disabled activists
ily disabled people who need a helper
ily disabled people who want to be independent but can't be
ily disabled people who love your independent
ily disabled people who wish they could have a helper
ily disabled people who feel like you're not disabled enough to be valid
ily older disabled people who help younger disabled people
ily young disabled people who help older disabled people
ily overweight disabled people
ily underweight disabled people
ily disabled people trying to lose weight for health
ily disabled people trying to gain weight for health
ily disabled people with invisible disabilities
ily stigmatized disabled people
ily disabled people who don't feel like they fit into any of these phrases
so sick of my body. pretty much been confined to my bed for weeks. sleeping shitty because of pain and my mental health has taken a hit.
just ughhhhh.
vecna pulling up to absolutely destroy william byers
Hot take it’s not actually accessible if I have to ask an abled body person for help or assistance
We all know how annoying it is when someone says "get well soon" so what's a good alternative? What would you rather hear?
I generally say something along the lines of "I hope you feel a bit better soon"
Here are some others I've found:
I hope you get some relief
I hope your pain eases
I hope tomorrow is easier
I hope you have a low-symptom day soon
I hope you can get some nice rest
Wishing you more spoons tomorrow
If there's anything I can take off your plate, please let me know
Hoping for some restful moments for you today
I hope things improve, even just a little
I hope you have something good happen soon, you deserve it
Hang on in there, I'm rooting for you
I hope you get some answers and closure soon
If you need to vent or need a distraction, I'm happy to help, just say the word
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Me: *wakes up from nap* hey body do you feel rested :D
Body: all our bones are frozen. Your muscles have withered. Your hands are numb. You have heartburn, and you're sweating.
Me: Body what the actual fuck.