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Alright, I need to have a chat with the teenagers that follow me, specifically regarding lying about your age and nsfw content. This isn’t directed at anyone, but I think it’s a convo that needs to be had in general.

I was a teenager once. I get it. Everyone lies about their age online. Maybe not to other people, but I’m sure every minor has clicked a ‘yeah, sure, I’m 18+” button at some point in their lives. I’m not here to shame you for that.

What I am here to say is it is vital that teenagers understand the difference between engaging in sexual content independently (ie, entering a fake birthday to access 18+ content), and lying about your age to engage in sexual activities with others online (joining discord servers/using nsfw channels intended for adults only/lying about your age to talk to nsfw content creators/commissioning nsfw art/etc).

Lying about your age to a website so you can look at porn is one thing. It’s an entirely independent experience, where the only consent that really matters is yours. Nobody has any power over you in this situation, and there’s about no chance of legal consequences.

However, lying about your age to other human beings is extremely different. If you’re engaging in nsfw roleplay with a friend about the same age as you, talking about sex with other teenagers, sharing nsfw fics among friends, that’s one thing. But do not lie about your age to engage in sexual activities/discussions. Not only is something that could have actual legal ramifications, and very serious ones depending on what’ going on, but it’s a violation of the other people’s consent. The moment other real people are involved, you need to be respectful of their boundaries & what is and isn’t appropriate for you to be engaging with. If they say no minors, I don’t care if you’re 17.5, you stay out until you are 18 years old.

Examples of situations where it is never okay to lie or mislead anyone about your age online include:

Joining/accessing nsfw channels or servers on discord.

Yes, I know it’s very easy to just click that little red button on discord that lets you access the channel you’re so curious about. It looks just like the one you see on adult websites that you click without thinking.

Don’t do it.

If channels are 18+ then you stay out of them. There are other real life human beings involved who did not give consent to have a minor in an adult orientated space.

Engaging with nsfw creators/content directly

ie, commissioning nsfw artwork, following or talking to nsfw creators who’ve asked for no interactions from minors/flagged their accounts as 18+ only, subscribing to nsfw creators on patron, nsfw roleplay, etc.

Joining/engaging with adult only communities, like Fetlife or cam sites.

Engaging in romantic and/or sexual online relationships

Any time you are talking with one or more other real human beings, particularly any adults, in a sexual context.

I know that adult websites have basically trained teenagers to just say they’re 18 and move on, but it is vital that teenagers understand that it is never okay to lie about your age when directly engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Knowing people’s age is a vital part of consent, and if an adult is found to have been engaging in sexual activity with a minor, they could face life long legal consequences. Not only that, but a basic facet of consent is clear, honest communication. If you are lying to a partner, then you do not have consent. Lying about your age is a huge violation of consent.

That’s not to say you can never mention sex around adults online. There are times and places where you may be asking for advice, or even just making jokes about sex or whatever. That’s all well and good, so long as everyone is on the same page. It’s on adults to make sure that we are behaving appropriately around minors online, and make sure that we’re setting boundaries in those relationships. But it’s on minors to communicate that they are minors, and respect those boundaries that are set.

So, tl;dr,

Lying about your age to access a porn site is fine. Lying about your age to engage in sexual situations/adult-only spaces where other real human beings are involved is not.

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!!!!PLEASE SPREAD!!!!

I'm sorry, but I need to do this. this post will be about the situation with my close friend, and how she was grossly slandered. the situation about the fact that she is a TW MENTION OF GROOMING groomer, which is utterly irrelevant nonsense, let's remember that when the situation happened BOTH parties were not 18 years old, and everything could be solved then with words. the only thing I don't fully understand is: why didn't the "victim" refuse right away? Why did you have to agree to all this if you were uncomfortable? what the heck is that anyway?? why then STALKER a person and condemn them for actions that were several years old? why spread misinformation that she didn't apologize when she apologized PUBLICLY on her twitter? (proof below)

she herself admitted to me what she did once, and that she sincerely regrets everything and apologized, but, as people understood, she was not heard. I'm just - I'm incredibly tired of people mistaking her for being a disgusting person, but she's far from that and hardly ever was. I know her personally, I communicate with her personally almost every day, and she is a very kind and comfortable person to communicate with! it's certainly terrible that she did such things once, but she clearly understands and realizes that she behaved incorrectly, and APOLOGIZED TO THE VICTIM!!!! And, according to her, not just once. but what did she get in return? right, stalking on social networks and bullying from people who do not know the situation from both sides, because it is so difficult for people to let into their brain that people can change over time.

this all happened THREE, THREE YEARS AGO...why can't you people, kind of even educated, accept that people can actually apologize for their actions and become better people? why stir up the distant past purely for your own benefit? I read the situation from the side of the victim and sincerely laughed, because I had not read such nonsense for a long time since the time when I adored fanfiction. Where did you get the idea that she refuses from the whole situation? she did the right thing, apologized and forgot about everything that happened, she just DOES NOT WANT to remember it again! For her, this is the same traumatic event in her life!

why can't people forget about that too? I myself had traumatic events in my life similar to this, and even worse, but instead of spoiling my offender's life, I forgot and worked it out with a psychologist! (I was 12, they were 19) I understand that there are different people and everyone’s brains are different, but what’s the point of remembering the same traumatic event over and over again and thereby bullying another person, not knowing whether they has changed or not?

I'm really sorry about all of this and for bringing this up, but me and my friend are already incredibly tired of all this and I just want to show the other side of this terrible situation. so I ask once again, LISTEN AND SPREAD!