Omg you read regency romance??? I got hooked after bridgerton and thought it such a guilty pleasure as radleaning (I mean romance as a genre can be steeped in misogynistic tropes but there are some good eggs there) ššš I was surprised to see you recommending devil in winter though I HATED the male lead in that book though he's generally a fan favourite.... kidnapping Lillian, calling Evie a bitch etc (in general I'm not much of a keypas fan, her male protagonists can be a bit too possessive alpha male for my taste)
I read all romance - historical, paranormal, urban fantasy, contemporary, etc.
Romance novels arenāt something to be ashamed off - itās like being ashamed of enjoying watching Love Actually at Christmas. Romance novels are the largest genre of fiction.
Do romance novels contain things that are anti-feminist? Yeah. So does 99% of all other literature. I donāt read any with bdsm or other things that normally extreme pain, limited mobility, punishment, etc for the heroine. But just donāt read those. Youāre actually more likely to find libfem stuff than anything like in an Eggers novel.
As for Devil in Winter - it is quite literally the best villain to hero trope in a historical romance ever. Second to being the best example of the trope in the genre in general only to Kresley Coleās Lothaire.
Heās my fave Kleypas hero because he has the best heroās journey - he goes from being a total lout to coming into responsibility. But I understand why heās be hated!! If you want to find more books youād like try keeping date of publication in mind:
Kleypas started writing before 2000 - which means her heroes are always going to be influenced by Julie Garwood, Johanna Lindsey, Kathleen Woodiwiss, Jude Devereaux, etc. This is the period of the OG alphahole heroes. During the 70s-80s women were facing significant economic challenges, workplaces actively hostile to their interests, backlash from men on a personal and professional level, and were being told they would never be able to get married. These heroes ALL: provide economically for the heroine, protect her from physical danger, give her elevated status, drop their backlash against women for the heroine, and marry and sexually satisfy the heroine. So these heroes had to be literally strong enough to āpullā the reader from the real world.
After 2000 until about 2007 you had the intermediary period. More women were in school, economics improved, women were living alone, and fear that marriage wouldnāt happen for you declined. These heroes became slightly softer - less kidnapping, more independence for the heroines (contemporary really started using birth control, heroines had their own careers and apartments). Writers that started before 2000 kept more alphas. The height of paranormal.
2008-2012: The Billionaire Years - economic anxiety and collapse causes women to seek out novels where the heroines are insulated against economic woes. Enter Beautiful Bastard and 50 Shades. These books also were when fanfic started producing conventional authors - and they brought bdsm from fic to the mainstream. Erotica (which usually bumps itās heat āupā with bdsm) reveals the strain on marriages and relationships resulting in an inadequate sex life. Women seek it out in books.
2012-2019: Cinnamon roll heroes. Economic situation once again improves. Women donāt want the alphaholes any longer, heroines get feistier, romcoms break out everywhere.
Devil in Winter exemplifies the 2000 to 2007 period. St Vincent is a dick, but less of a dick than his 1982 predecessors. He ensures economic stability for Evie through managing her assets - an example of economic partnership relatively absent in romance still. But Evie is able to escape her abusive family (aka protection!). The novel is written masterfully - any professor teaching about romance novel structure would do well with DiW on the syllabus.
But since you hated him - try sticking to books published after 2012, 2014 especially. Also for the next years going forward I think alpha heroes will make a return. Already we see books written in 2020/2021 have fewer children. So as economic stress gets worse I think more billionaires, more protective heroes will once again emerge.
If you like Bridgerton Iād recommend Sarah MacLean, try her Bare Knuckle Bastards series or Bombshell (and skip Ewanās book).
- the difficulty of growing up with ADHD and aspbergers (or other diagnoses that affect you). the fact that you say too much, or too little, and come off as someone not like everyone else. the way kids/teens usually go through life just trying to convince themselves they DONāT want friends and donāt need them when all they want is to be liked and not have to change who they are. something that affects so many kids today and it is shown in such a real, good, honest way in this show
- girls supporting girls in everything. the fact that felice supports sara, that madison tells so many people off for being rude to her girls and also is one hundred percent right and supportive about how august treats felice and doesnāt want that for her girl. we need this and itās refreshing to see it in such a nice way without any kind of drama to it just for dramaās sake
- GIRLS PLAYING SPORTS. most girls stop playing sports at the age of 14 which is a big, big problem imo. to see here that the one playing football and wanting support is rosh, and that people GIVE it to her and show how fun sheās having is absolutely also an important thing to show. it made me absolutely so happy to see this get attention and i think people overlook the importance of it
- politics when it comes to rich and poor. the way rich people are allowed to accept all kinds of money whereas if poor people get them itās disgusting and they are awful for accepting money. that the royal family is the one family getting the most money out of all.Ā
- you are allowed to set boundaries for yourself. you are allowed to not want to be a secret, you are allowed to not wear a dress that your mother wants you to wear. you are allowed to dump someone even if it could give you opportunities.
- girls have a sexuality and it is OKAY and i love to see that girls talk about sex and hookups and all just as much as the guys (even if a different way) because letās get rid of the way girls are never supposed to explore their sexuality, discuss it or want to let others know (or know about others experiences)
- parents and substance abuse and how it affects your family and the difficultiy of wanting maybe a relationship but knowing it could fuck up everything. the way kids have to deal with it when they should be the ones taken cared of
- that spreading nude videos, photos of any kind is A CRIME and should be treated as a crime and is absolutely never wrong of the one taking part of the video. they didnāt do anything wrong. august was the absolute asshole that should be charged with so many things. and that people were supportive and felt sorry for them was also the best.
and they lived happily ever after idc
thinking aboutĀ āyou havenāt met all the people who will love youā and like!!! you also havenāt found all the things that will make you happy!!!! there will always be new authors and musicians and artists whose work you will one day discover and love!!!! there will always be new hobbies and skills for you to learn and feel fulfilled by!!! there will always be new things around the corner that will bring sudden and unexpected happiness!!!!!!!!!!!
There are times when I am convinced I am unfit for any human relationship.
Franz Kafka (via quotemadness)
I am back. Kind of? Anyway, hereās a list of series Iāve finished that I love:
1. Sands of Arawiya by Hafsah Faizal - enemies to weāre figuring it out to youāll have to read the second book to see, embracing our power, found family, slow burn
2. The Never Tilting World duology by Rin Chupeco - healthy romance between goddesses and mortals as in the goddesses are not 100+ years old, they are 17-19 (I donāt remember), bodyguard x royal romance, world building with commentary on climate change
3. An Ember in the Ashes by Sabaa Tahir - one of the most epic fantasy series of all time, I love it because each book is so different and tied together in terms of plot, I love the main characterās arcs, the history of the world is so interesting
4. Ignite the Stars by Maura Milan - I read this one a while ago so I donāt remember all of the details, but I love the sci-fi fantasy world, I would love to see this as a TV show, also the main character is morally grey and is not just on a journey to try to take over the universe
5. The Bone Witch by Rin Chupeco - another morally grey character, the magic system is unlike any other that Iāve read, every one of Rinās books is amazing and I think Iāve read every single one except for the sequel to The Girl from the Well
we've all gone through friendless periods in our lives. don't fall into the trap of thinking there's something intrinsically wrong with you - that is a) untrue and b) a belief that will make your isolation grow and cause feelings of worthlessness that will prevent you from accepting people into your life because you feel like you're not deserving of their friendship
taylor swift really wrote two albums for the hopeful romantics, the dark academics, the yearning lovers and the quiet souls of the world
biden signed a whole bunch of executive orders today, all of which aiming to undo damage done by trump. iām by no means a fan of biden, heās a centrist at best and has a history of sexual assault and i despise how heās pushing for āunityā instead of accountability right now, BUT hereās the full list of executive orders, because a little good news is good for you sometimes (but mostly because the news sites with this stuff are behind paywalls):
Completely abolishing theĀ āMuslim banā travel ban, which had blocked travel to the US from several Muslim-majority and African countriesĀ
Restarting visa processing for people from the affected countries from theĀ travel ban, and focusing on āaddressing the harm caused to those who were prevented from coming to the US because of the banā
Reinstating ties with the World Health Organization (after TrumpĀ withdrew the USās membership and funding last year) and making Dr. Anthony Fauci the head of the American WHO delegation
Rejoining the Paris Climate Agreement and ordering federal agencies to start reinstating more than 100 environmental regulations that were weakened/rolled back by Trump
Stopping the Border Wall construction and immediately terminating the national emergency declaration that allowed Trump to redirect billions of dollars to the wall
Revoking the permit for the Keystone XL pipelineās construction
Overturning Trumpās executive order that had stopped federal agencies, contractors, and other institutions from holding diversity and inclusion training
Immediately ending TrumpāsĀ 1776 Commission, a committee that aimed to give American students āpatrioticā history lessons, which were widely criticized by historians and civil rights leaders as being āracist liesā and ānationalist propagandaā that whitewashed history and greatly downplayed how bad slavery was
Protecting the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals program (DACA) and keeping Dreamers (people who were brought to the US as children) from being deported
Extending the national ban on evictions
Overturning a Trump executive order that had pushed āaggressive effortsāĀ to find and deport immigrants
Blocking the deportation of Liberians, a group Trump had targetedĀ specifically
Reversing the rollbacks to vehicle emissions standards
Designating Susan E. Rice as the leader of a ārobust, interagencyā effort requiring all federal agencies to make ārooting out systemic racismā central to their work, and requiring federal agencies to submit detailed reports on equity in their ranks within 200 days
Reinforcing Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, to require that the federal government does not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, a policy that reverses actions by Trumpās administration
Undoing Trumpās orders that slashed the size of several national parks (Trump had wanted to auction off parts of national parks and protected land, primarily to oil companies) and halting the oil and natural gas leases in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge
Restoring the directorate for global health security and biodefense at the National Security Council, a group Trump had disbanded, and requiring social distancing. A mask mandate would be met with significant legal opposition, but this order also requires masks on all federal property and by all federal employees
And lastly: immediately freezing all of Trumpās recent regulations heād tried to sneak in at the last minute, so that the new administration can examine them much closer
also, this wasnāt an executive order, but in case anybody missed it: biden also chose rachel levine, a transgender jewish woman, as the assistant health secretary! from what iāve seen, rachel seems great and has done a lot of good as pennsylvaniaās health secretary, so thatās very exciting
Alternate universe where I literally just to go to school forever (for free) so I can just learn about art and literature and history and languages for 100 years. No job skills. No credit requirements. No student loans. Just learning.