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secured #1. 2024. — artwork by the undeniable ayabrown.tiff on instagram.

Here is a guide to hitting others. It is not about safe impact locations or how to develop picturesque bruising. It is about how to hit someone, and keep hitting someone, until you're both satisfied. It is how I approach hitting masochists for my own pleasure.

The first thing to note is that...

This is going to Hurt.

That fact cannot be shied away from. Pain, even for masochists, hurts. There is a tolerance to how much someone can take, and ways to engage with that tolerance. You will need to learn how each masochist takes pain, and potentially even teach them how to manage and endure it.

So you've got a paddle and a tied up piece of masochistic meat, or perhaps you're using your hand and it's bent over your knee, or perhaps it's cuffed to a cross and you've got a whip, or perhaps you've got a knife or needles or... well by now I've laboured the point enough.

How do you get the most out of your meat?

Start slow. Hit them slowly and rhythmically, building up in intensity every few hits, and when they tense too much or start struggling to breathe or can't stop themselves from making too much noise, slow down again.

Your aim is to warm up the meat so that it can get used to the pain, and once it's used to the pain you can intensify it. Climb up, drop down, and climb back up again. Vary the strike location, but remember that locations you haven't hit as much will need warming up too. The more skilfully it's done, the more you'll get to hit it.

On the subject of their breathing, tension, and noises, you'll want to pay attention to these as you hit them. As you hit them, their breathing will try to get sharp and shallow. Their muscles will try to contract to harden against the impact, and they'll make noises as reactions to your hits. Encourage them to keep their breathing steady and calm, and they'll take the hits better. Encourage them to relax so that the impact dissipates into their flesh instead of getting caught in their tension and you can hit them harder while hurting them less. Listen for moans of pleasure if they're so inclined, and encourage them to verbalise their pain, intentionally responding to pain verbally will help them endure it. Let them calm themselves between your hits, and they'll feel like they can take it and let you push them harder.

Watch how they react, but be aware that you may need to soothe or goad them. Try different things: Hold your off-hand on their shoulder so that they can brace against you. Praise them for each hit you've delivered. Tell them they can take more for you. Tease them. Rub them while they catch their breath and tell them how happy you are with them for taking it. Be verbal, but don't expect responses unless they enjoy responding. Pay attention to what helps them calm.

Once you've got the hang of these things, you can begin to play with them and challenge them: forbid them from making noise. Blindfold them so that they can't prepare for the pain. Make them watch you hit them so that they can't help but tense up in response, and play with false swings to mess with their minds. You can be cruel, because you know how it works. You know which moving parts can be shifted, and which must stay still.

Consider also what your masochist wants from being hit: some do not want to be overwhelmed, they want to be guided and hit into a meditative place where they can dissolve into the pain: intense but never too much, and then you can hit them until they're bloody and raw. Others want their pain to push right up to the edge of too much and stay there until they break. They want to cry and scream, and your challenge is to see how cathartic you can make it: break them too quickly and they might not find it satisfying, and neither will you.

And afterwards, aftercare, and you can work out what that looks like with your masochist yourselves.

Mockery and cnc go so well together

"listen to the sounds that sloppy cunt's making, you can't tell me no."

"do you hear yourself? you sound so desperate for this."

"please? please, what?.. what, you can't take it? oh, is that why it's sliding in and out of your hole so easily?you're saying you don't like it, and yet you're so wet. i think you just like hearing yourself scream."

casual kink vibe: just hanging out but not allowed to ever be at eye level or higher with anyone else. staying in a position where everyone can only look down on it as we otherwise do normal day-to-day things. maybe we have a couple of friends over but don't tell them the game we're playing, or we let them know so that even though it's a normal day, it still feels its place beneath everyone.

I tried searching your blog for "clone" and "murderfuck" and "deregulated the entire industry" to find that post and i cannot. Could you please reblog it again i need it so bad it's haunted me in the best way

the truth of the “mating press” position that porn won’t prepare you for is that it’s really more of a farting press

using a prong collar to train me bc i keep pulling you and grabbing you at the worst times. at the end of the day there's two rows of bruises because I just. don't. learn.

[“Oftentimes when we think about preparing for penetrative sex, we think about the willingness and readiness of the penetrator: a penis becoming a boner, a dildo being lubed up. And yes, sadly, a phallus can usually make its way inside a canal whether the canal is ready or not. But wet and swollen pussies and rectums and throats are, simply put, better for fucking.

That’s one of the many advantages of fisting for people who enjoy being penetrated: unlike a cylindrical phallus, it requires patience and finesse to get the considerably bumpier shape of a hand inside. It’s easier for most penises to slip into most vaginas or rectums, but “easy” doesn’t necessarily translate to “more pleasurable” for anyone involved. Fisting emphasizes what the fistee wants and needs in order to relax and open, which changes the act of penetration from “let’s get this done” to “let’s take our time.” It’s not that it always requires hours of tantric foreplay: I’ve seen people swallow hands in a matter of minutes. But fisting tops and bottoms do need to be attuned to each other more than in any other kind of intercourse.

Adamczak mentions fisting several times in her piece (“a closed hand around a dildo, of lips around a foot, of a vagina stretched over a fist”). To my mind, getting fisted is the ultimate act of circlusion, even if the term itself refers to the penetrating body part. Fisting necessitates communication, patience, finesse, embodied listening, and active breathwork. This may go some way toward explaining why fisters tend to enter a meditative, trance-like state. Fisting requires intentional engagement from the bottom, because in order to take a fist you really have to breathe deeply, to communicate about slowing down or wanting more, to reach for the poppers, to ask for the lube. And these are all things bottoms could be doing all the time, but fisting takes us out of our assumptions that the bottom is there to satisfy the top’s lust, to simply take it. A fistee must be a size queen, someone who loves to be filled up with something massive. Opening to a fist is a trust fall for everyone involved. When your hand is deep inside someone, you can feel their heart beating back against you. Sometimes when I’m up to my wrist in an aroused, engorged bottom, watching and feeling and listening to and smelling a partner so aroused they’re thrashing and bearing down and grasping back and contracting over and over, I think: Why would you fuck a hole that isn’t turned on? Sure, I take pride in turning people on and driving them insane with ecstasy, but fucking an engorged hole is just more fun, like bouncing on a trampoline or being tossed into the air by a taut parachute, with all the verve that inspires.

It’s not just penises that enjoy being circluded either. Clit heads respond to pressing and smashing and mashing, especially once they’ve been teased into arousal. The suction of a mouth or pump toy vacuum sealed around the vulva can create the feeling that your junk is swollen enough to put inside of something or someone. “What matters is not what parts a body possesses, but rather, which parts are put into action,” concludes Adamczak, and this is a queer manifesto bigger than circlusion, bigger even than fisting. When we reinvent and remap our anatomy for the purpose of pleasure, we leave behind inherited anxiety and shame around what our bodies are capable of, opening wide to engulf the future.”]

tina horn, from why are people into that? a cultural investigation of kink, 2024

Cheryl Dunye and Guinevere Turner in The Watermelon Woman (1996)

These [CNC] fantasies have never caused me distress, even before I really considered what they meant or where they were coming from. Today, I feel most comfortable with and interested in this explanation: in my sexually formative years, I did not feel very pursued. My desire, my drive, was always greater, it seemed, than that of anyone I met. It is twisted, but it is what it is: a scenario of being taken against my will is, for me, a scenario of uncomplicated want for my body. The want is in fact so great that my very humanity becomes inconsequential. My attractiveness trumps ethics, even my humanity. Through violation, my value is at long last confirmed. In many of my earliest sexual experiences, my pleasure was undermined by people-pleasing distraction: worry that I wasn’t doing a good enough job, that my partner wasn’t going to fulfill my needs, that it would be over too soon. In a CNC fantasy, I can be 100 percent sure the person violating me is taking what he wants. Because he doesn’t care about my needs, I am free to have my own experience. I don’t have to feel guilty for dissociating. What’s more, it’s expected. You can’t take me if I’m already gone. I am just a body, a body that is wanted: the fact that my body is wanted for violence doesn’t seem to affect how validating it is to be wanted.

Why are people into that? - Tina Horn

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trying the reblog trick!!!

Erotica “2019”

Photographed by Marc Vincent (me)

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Junkyard dog

just got fisted while high. I RECOMMEND THIS !

marriage is erotic for basically the same reasons as captivity

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Fucking pervert (embarrassing levels of turned on)