Incest Needs To Have Some Codependency . To Me

people on this fucking app love to see a post made by a trans woman talking about how shes treated for being masc and how awful it feels and make it about how hot they feel her with literally no fucking sense of hesitation

Help a broke trans girl land back on her feet

I was promised a job in the fall that I have been holding out for all year only for the industry to get destroyed by the trump presidency. There's no spot for me anymore and barely anywhere else in town is hiring. I just had several extremely stressful moves and am in a little bit of debt from trying to get myself settled. If I could get any help going in to next month to get a little breathing room I would appreciate it so much I need to come up with at least $800

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Trans Masc Misogyny and the Red Six of Spades

Being an attempt to grapple with trans community dynamics and trans guys who yell at women. A very long attempt. You were warned.

if ur a trans man or transmasc fucking read this

i love pathetic subs as much as the next dom, but give me someone who actually wants to play.

give me a dom who actually wants to participate in the “breaking” part of dombreaking. one who will actually stand their ground, who won’t fold immediately when they’re met where they’re at. i promise the tension is 90% of the fun.

Puppy boy resting his head on your thigh while you work because he's too shy to stick his nose in your crotch unprompted

I do have a thing specifically for anal virgins. The way they squirm and tense up when you rim them, that excited fear when you circle their ass with a slick fingertip, the way they blush and try to hide. Like yeah baby, I know it's scary but you're being so good and we both know you want this. I can smell the faggot on you.

cute lil prey-coded thing and the much larger, scarier thing it's got on a leash (they're in looooooove :D)

Puppy want a hit? Gimme paw. Gimme paw! Good puppy! Show belly! Smart doggy... wag for me? Paws up! That's it doggy! Bring that lil muzzle here for shotguns

if you’re in my asks telling me that i’m defending sexual assault. if your only two settings are “none of my boundaries have ever been violated” and “sexual assault” then you are not a safe person. you are the person that post is about and for. you are the person i am begging to understand nuance. i’m thinking about like. i don’t like having my butt touched. sometimes in the heat of a moment an excited partner grabs my ass. that’s a violation of a boundary. but i’m not gonna fuckin break up with them for it. and this concept branches out. i tried bottoming a few times for partners. i thought id like it, i didn’t, and i felt kind of uncomfortable with the interaction later. those partners didn’t “assault” me, we tried something and it didn’t work. once or twice a partner has tapped out and i didn’t notice at first so they had to tap harder. this isn’t assault, they didn’t accuse me of abuse, we had a conversation and they understood it was a mistake. all of these are circumstances where a boundary has been broken or a line has been crossed, but not a situation of intentional harm, assault, or abuse.

So one of my kiddos is visiting for the weekend and we did a call ahead of time just to check in because it's our first time meeting in person. When we called he started asking me stuff like what kind of wound care materials I have, how I choke people, where is safe for me to hit. He apologized a few times for asking so many questions when he knew I was experienced and I told him something I think more young/inexperienced subs need to hear:

VET. YOUR. DOMS.

If you're playing irl don't be afraid to ask questions and quiz a dom on kink safety. Confirm that they both have the knowledge and know how to act on it. The RA in RACK is there for a reason. You and your dom both need to be aware of the risks inherent even in 'common' or 'low risk' kink activity. If you try to ask a dom questions or vet them and they respond with irritation or anger that should be a red flag. Never be afraid to protect yourself.