Something I Don't Think People Necessarily Understand Is That When You Send An Aggressive And Condescending

look at me. listen. you need to take that six foot something transfem and you need to lay her on your chest and stroke her hair gently and rub her back and hold her tight like a beloved stuffed animal. do you understand me. you need to hold the tall girls in your life like you would anyone else. LISTEN to me

I absolutely adore patients who are afraid of needles… it’s so so cute watching them whimper and squirm… tears filling their eyes because they’re so terrified of them… god it gets me so hard 🖤

No sweetie, you misunderstood. When I said lets play with dolls, I was talking about you

despite "snatched by stranger" being the overwhelmingly predominant scenario for kidnapping stuff it really never stops being crazy hot thinking about a switch flipping somewhere in a trusting dynamic when your friend realizes how much easier things would be for them if they just didn't let you leave this time

You can drug your much-bigger hound and pin it down and watch it struggle under you but it's far weaker than it's used to being so it just limply and frustratedly pushes back. Now you can start teasing it and groping it and getting it all worked up under you and notice how instead of struggling to fight you off like before it's struggling to gain for dominance so it can mount you like a big dog but you won't let it because it's your useless drugged up pathetic little puppy under your hands and you love making it squirm instead

climbing into his bed with a soaked pull up and having him reach a hand down to check you and coo at you in pity cause you wet the bed again…

One of my favorite physical triggers ever is the "scruff" trigger. It's where you suggest to the subject that when the back of their neck is grabbed, they go limp. It's so fun to watch them slump and blush. Works wonders for discipline, too, because it's immediate.

Sub getting a little overwhelmed and bitey during sex? Scruff that pet and whisper teasing taunts in their ear while you continue to use them.

saw the phrase "cuddle-rape" and it's. rewiring my brain. there are two main interpretations in which this is very good:

cuddlefucking, non-consensual style. we're spooning and you start feeling me up. i laugh and push your hands away, say i'm not in the mood. but you dont stop. you're nuzzling at the back of my neck and grinding against my ass, just a bit. i tell you to stop, firmer this time. i say i'm serious. you slide your fingers into my mouth to shut me up. you keep going. i start to cry. you keep going. you don't stop.

cuddling after rape. you've just finished violating me. i lay in the bed, sniffling and leaking. i'm too worn down to run. i won't look at you. you climb into bed next to me. i tense up. you lay down next to me and wrap your arm around me. i flinch away, but you don't do anything other than press a kiss to my head and hold me. it confuses me. i don't want you to hold me. but after what you've put me through, i desperately need the comfort. i hate myself for it, it disgusts me, but. i relax into your arms and begin to sob again anyway

So one of my kiddos is visiting for the weekend and we did a call ahead of time just to check in because it's our first time meeting in person. When we called he started asking me stuff like what kind of wound care materials I have, how I choke people, where is safe for me to hit. He apologized a few times for asking so many questions when he knew I was experienced and I told him something I think more young/inexperienced subs need to hear:

VET. YOUR. DOMS.

If you're playing irl don't be afraid to ask questions and quiz a dom on kink safety. Confirm that they both have the knowledge and know how to act on it. The RA in RACK is there for a reason. You and your dom both need to be aware of the risks inherent even in 'common' or 'low risk' kink activity. If you try to ask a dom questions or vet them and they respond with irritation or anger that should be a red flag. Never be afraid to protect yourself.

two way corruption kink where we're both just making each other grosser