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Achemom sphinx moth, Eumorpha achemom, Sphingidae

Found throughout North America.

Photo 1 by brendanboyd, 2 by sandy317, 3 by dwelch477, 4-5 by joannerusso, 6 by wordswild, and 7-9 by kneubaue

i'm waiting for the night to fall

acrylic paint & ink // ko-fi

since i’m not 100% out usually it goes like this:

they/them— the one i tell ppl to use cause idk how they feel about neos

he/him— its ok. not my preferred one

xe/xem or kit/kits— i rlly like these but only use them online cause i’m scared

she/her— don’t

gender poll

guy who has accidentally only ever slept with pre-op trans women, seeing a cis woman take her pants off: whoa girl i think theres something like. really wrong with your penis

For the man who's had just one idea

People who have been dehumanized and go "fuck you, I'm a human no matter what you say" and people who have been dehumanized and go "fine then, I'm not a human and I'm happy with that" are equally awesome and should hold hands

google you gotta relax

im really glad we as the trans community seem to be drifting away from posts where some transphobic fuckwit asks a bad faith question about transness and we spend hours gathering sources theyre never gonna click and presenting explanations theyre never gonna read and instead now we're prioritizing our own mental bandwidth by just saying we fucked their moms. I love that for us and i think its a way better use of everyones time