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we just want to compliment you, love, no tricks, you know that, right? xoxox, emmie @ le cocu quotidien.

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The facts about men who wear women’s Panties might surprise you.

Before starting our own Panty brand, Katie & Laura’s Fancy Satin Panties, we never imagined that this was such a big topic and that so many men enjoy wearing women’s Panties. Since we are both very detail oriented, we did some homework on the subject. 

While we don’t want to be judgmental, polls and studies show that about 3-5% of purely heterosexual men regularly wear women’s lingerie for pleasure. These studies also show that these men on average: have higher IQs, make more money, are more successful, are more loyal to their wives/girlfriends, are much less likely to cheat, and are more heterosexually oriented than non-panty-wearing men. Very nice!

With all the mean, negative and ignorant posts out there, Laura and I think it’s important for this to be known. Your Panty Girls are on a mission!

Girls, if you are reading this because of a special man in your life, then he has trusted you with the deepest and most personal part of his being, something very precious, and I am happy for you both!   

My advice to the ladies: if you know your man likes wearing Panties then take full advantage of it. So easy! Soon, you will Love it more than he does. HAHA! He’s a keeper, and you know exactly how to wrap him around your finger. Too many women take the “try to ignore it” approach and are really missing out on a wonderfully intimate opportunity. Hopefully, your girl will happily embrace your Panty preferences! But when she’s not in love with the idea, men need to be respectful of women’s wishes too. Some girls may be hesitant or reluctant to overtly participate in your panty wearing. If so, shopping online together is probably more comfortable for her than taking you Panty shopping at the mall. Be flexible, if she loves or hates a color/style, then let her do some choosing for you. Occasionally slipping on the Panties she selected will probably not kill you. Probably. Once she comes to realize how much simple sexy fun panties can create, she just might start surprising you! Some women have the same “what if somebody finds out!” reflex, that many panty wearing men have. Decisions to keep your Panty preferences private vs. public should always be made together, just like any other aspect of your sex-life details. Her friends seeing your Panties is like your friends seeing her bare breasts: if you both agree on it, then it is okay! But she should not be telling her friends without your agreement, and you shouldn’t be either. It’s just common mutual respect. When you have the right girl, she will see that your Panty preferences are just another way to share your Love for each other.

Honesty and Love and Fancy Satin Panties. Life is very good.

Here’s a link to our “Men wearing Panties” Guide

http://www.fancysatinpanties.com/men-wearing-womens-panties-help-and-info

XOX

Katie

www.FancySatinPanties.com

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About My Gentleman...

Written by A Goddess from Alabama,

I am at a point in my life where I can almost exhale. My career has served me well with travel both in and out of the US. Now I am mentoring others and looking forward to leaving the 9 to 5 grind of healthcare compliance reimbursement. The next phase of my life involves more creative endeavors and volunteer work with several non profits that focus on hunger and making learning easier for all people.

I grew up in a very, very small town in Alabama and found escape through books. I realized early in life that there was so much to explore and to see in this world. I placed my wanderlust on hold, got married and settled into the routine of life. Was it a FLR? No it was not. But as I reflect on those 14 years, I can see where I was more of the leader. It was considered being “bossy.” I did want and expect things done in a certain way…my way. The women on my mother’s side of the family were all strong, in charge types and men seemed to be quiet followers. After the divorce, my focus was on raising my child. At age 53, the idea of exploring the world is still alive. Now that my child has finished college and started her career, I travel yearly with a group of female friends. I know travel would be more enjoyable with a gentleman that will embrace me, my dreams and enjoy sharing in the new phase of my life……all within a loving FLR.

I spent time reflecting on past relationships. The one thing that stood out was that I was the one directing the relationships. So I started to research the dynamic of what I thought was a bossy woman. The picture or definition I saw for a woman in charge of her man did not define me and was not what I wanted. So I kept researching and discovered FLRs and immediately connected with what I found. It was refreshing to see that it was “okay” to be a woman in charge of her man/relationship in a loving and real way. It was such a relief to find that there are men who also want this who are normal….they work, have interests, friends and are successful.

Being introduced to FLRs has been a wonderful and refreshing boost to my search for a relationship. I completely accept who I am in terms of what I need and seek in a relationship. The idea of being in a loving FLR makes me smile inside!

The happiness, emotional well being, personal satisfaction and realization of dreams for the woman in a FLR is a huge benefit of being in a loving FLR. When this happens, the man and children (if any) benefit from the female’s loving and wise guidance, this becoming the best they can be also. Some couples may be challenged by what other people think about their relationship and feel pressure to conform to the norm of others opinion. I believe that what happens in a loving relationship is between the two involved and if the bond is solid can withstand outside challenges. The only challenge I encountered was in finding a partner. But of course all challenges can be overcome!

I have recently started a relationship with my new gentleman who was raised in a strict, loving matriarchal home. Seeing a woman in charge of her man and a man who happily surrendered to his wife’s direction was what he saw/experienced as a child.

My new gentleman and I were having dinner for our first date. We were at a great restaurant and the ambiance was perfect. The waiter came over and I ordered for him…from wine and appetizer to the entrée. My man did not complain or refuse any of my choices. The waiter’s reaction was priceless! He was a little taken aback. It was apparent that he had not seen a couple where the woman was in charge. I totally enjoyed the moment!

My gentleman fully embraces FLRs. Our interactions have been very effortless because we both know we work better in an FLR. We can freely discuss FLR dynamics and other topics from politics to books and art. He is very smart, caring and most of all, a complete gentleman who shares my passion for learning and traveling. We are both excited about the journey that has started!

To learn more about FLRs any woman or man should look to the Internet. There are so many sites out there that address FLRs and are in English, German and other languages. The site lovingflr.com helped to answer my questions and provided a tool to learn more. Many good books are also available from the website and bookstores. My best advice……read, read and read some more. Befriend others who want or are already in FLRs for support and social outlets. I believe that if I had been introduced to FLRs in my 20s, I would have made different choices and would be in a loving Loving FLR marriage. Remember that your FLR reflects who you are as individuals and how you come together as a couple. It won’t be a carbon copy of anything you read or encounter.

It is great that more women are becoming empowered to embrace leadership roles in their relationships. We can be strong, confident, loving AND in charge in our relationships…

Thanks to A Goddess and lovingflr

The shrinking cock is a reminder that i will never satisfy another again.