“I cannot pretend prochoice vs. prolife is about women versus babies. It isn't. It is about society versus families.
Abortion doesn't save women. It doesn't stop or fix rape. It doesn't end poverty. It doesn't stop domestic violence. It doesn't do anything except undo women's healthy biology, kill her child, and send her right back to whatever circumstances she came from.
Sure, if she just doesn't want to be pregnant, it ends pregnancy. Why doesn't she want to be pregnant though? The replies are along the lines of, "Fuck you. It doesn't matter. It is her choice and right." Ok. Thank you for telling me you care about abortion, not women.
This is what is being offered as the savior for women? This is our freedom? This is our equality? This is the answer we are being offered for children living in poverty, abuse, or neglect? Just pre-emptively guess their fate and kill them? This is what we are being offered as a way to address maternal mortality? Don't attempt to make advancements that address complications that arise in pregnancy, just blame women's biology and kill her kid?
I do not accept that this is the best we can do for women, children, or families. I do not accept that to be free, equal, and safe women have to turn against their biology and their children.”
– Robin Atkins
*whispering into the abyss* you may be damaged but you were made for heaven and holiness and you will ache and pain until you find your way to it
good morning, Christ already won
Certain words can change your brain forever and ever so you do have to be very careful about it.
My holy cards came in today! They look lovely under the sun ୨୧
Compliment your spouse
Express love and appreciation towards your spouse
Brag to others about your spouse
Write love letters
Build security
Take the burden off your spouse
Pamper your spouse
Spent undivided attention to your spouse
Plan date nights
Start a hobby together
Empathically and actively listen to your spouse
Long hugs
Gentle kisses
Massages
Hold hands frequently
Make behaviour changes that come up after conflict
I'm a wife and a mom and christian. Not trad since I'm married to a woman, but otherwise pretty much so. side-blog.
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