A sunny spring in Sicily, Italy
The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up the light of his countenance upon you; and give you peace. Can I get an amen in the notes
The routine of a virtuous woman to inspire your own
She wakes up earlier than all others at home - (Proverbs 31:15)
Dedicates her first moments in the morning to God (Proverbs 31:30)
Prepares the family meal with calm and organize her daily tasks (Proverbs 31:15)
Takes care of her appearance - not be complimented by people outside, but by her own family (Proverbs 31:25)
Takes care of her family needs and do the daily maintenance of her home (Proverbs 31:27)
Works with effort and dedication. Wherever she goes she’s a testimony of her family’s good reputation (Proverbs 31:13)
Tries to be creative and bring new investments and opportunities to her family (Proverbs 31:16)
Even at night she’ll save some energy and liveliness to use with her husband (Proverbs 31:18)
They can hear you...
catholics are cringe ngl lol
What makes a truly great gift?
Cost? Sentimental value? One-of-a-kind? They’ll use it every day? There’s always the cliché – “it’s the thought that counts.”
I struggle with what makes a truly great gift. But I do know how to ruin any gift.
Give it begrudgingly. With an attitude of “fine, if I have to.”
That kind of giving will turn the most amazing, unique, thoughtful gift into garbage.
I don’t know about you, but I would rather get nothing, than have something given to me begrudgingly. I’m not alone in that feeling.
If I do get something that was given begrudgingly, unless I can give it to a parish auction, it’s going straight into the trash.
The thing is, a lot of us have that idea about God’s gift of forgiveness.
That God doesn’t really want to forgive us. And if God actually does forgive us, it’s done begrudgingly.
Because we did something super Catholic. Or met some arcane requirement to receive an indulgence. Basically, we backed God into a corner with His own rules. And now He has to forgive us.
If that’s how it works, it’s unhealthy. To say the least. Why would you want anything to do with something that messed up?
Thank God that’s not how it works!
The thing to know about God is that God isn’t waiting for you to do something super Catholic or to meet some arcane requirement, before He forgives you. God’s waiting for half an excuse to forgive you.
Like a being genuinely sorry for about hurting someone. And asking for forgiveness.
A change of heart. That’s all God’s waiting for.
Because God’s approach to forgiveness is kind of the opposite of begrudging. We see it in today’s first reading,
“Who is there like you, the God who removes guilt and pardons sin? Who does not persist in anger but delights in clemency?”
Translation - You want to see God light up with joy? Ask for forgiveness.
Today’s Readings
To The Substitute Art Teacher - Jordan Bolton
Feminine goals for 2024
Giving my heart completely to God. Both in intentions and in actions
Being more organized at home
Finding time for a creative hobby (like ballet, painting, singing or piano)
Learning how to cook new recipes
Taking care of my hair, body and skin - taking care, not just masking problems
Having a more attentive look to my family and friendships
Growing my patience and amiability, letting go of anger and reactivity
Give my best every day, living less on the automatic and more with my heart
What other goals would you add to your journey?
I'm a wife and a mom and christian. Not trad since I'm married to a woman, but otherwise pretty much so. side-blog.
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