Our Reality Today

I really do think that Stefan and Katherine should have been together in tvd. Yesterday I was thinking about how Elena was the one who made Damon embrace his humanity and I thought that the same could have happened with Stefan but backwards. Let me explain: Stefan sucked at being a vampire, we all know this, because he was a ripper and with that came the guilt, the brooding and all that stuff, and also and the most important thing he hated being a vampire. His one and only desire was to be human, that’s why he dated Elena and pretended to be a normal guy. He wanted a human girl with a human life (his words not mine) Same with Damon, he hated being human, in fact he couldn’t think of anything more miserable remember…So Damon ended up wanting to be human and embracing the human side of him thanks to Elena and just imagine how amazing it could have been if Stefan learnt to love his own nature and embrace his vampirism thanks to Katherine.

In my opinion, if this had happened Stefan would have been a much better character with a real character growth arc and it would’ve been just so fucking interesting. The love story could have worked as well as the delena relationship did.

Also, Katherine was the one who turned him so it could be so great if she was the one who teached him how to make a good vampire, how to love being one.

I also think that Stefan couldn’t love anyone right until he learnt to love himself, so…

And if they didn’t want to make nothing romantic between them, although I think it should have been, it could have been a really good friendship that improved the lives of both.

Applying the Law to Shifting: The Ultimate Key

By @multiversebaddie x @heliosoll

DISCLAIMER: everything that we will explain is based on our opinions, we are not stating that any of these things are facts. You can take what you resonate with and leave the rest. Also, we will explain reality shifting based off of the multiverse theory. 

Welcome to our collab post, where we will be talking about how to use the law of assumption to reality shift for our fellow reality shifters who want to apply the law of assumption in their shifts! Let’s start off with basic definitions. The law of assumption is a form of manifestation where your assumptions and dominant thoughts harden into reality. It is important to note that you don’t need to believe or feel a certain way to manifest, all you need to do is persist in the assumption that you already have your manifestations no matter what. Reality shifting is simply moving your awareness (or consciousness, whichever you believe) to another reality, if you believe in the multiverse theory. Nothing is impossible so you can even shift to “fictional” realities like anime, Harry Potter, Star Wars, etc because with the multiverse theory nothing is impossible and other realities are just as real as ours. Our reality is just one of many and what’s considered fiction here can be a fully realized reality somewhere else.

We’re going to start off with some basic terms and definitions to ensure everyone understands the post fully. Assumption: a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof. Self Concept: how you think and view yourself, other people, other people in relation to you, and the world. Persistence: firm or obstinate continuance in a course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition (aka continuing to do something even if it’s difficult). Intention: a thing intended, an aim or plan. Methods: a procedure, technique, or way of doing something. 

And now some shifting definitions! DR- Desired/Dream Reality, WR- Waiting Room, CR- Current Reality, OR- Old/Original Reality, Methods- a process done to shift, Safe Word/Action- A word/phrase that you say or an action that you do that shifts you somewhere else, most often used to shift back to your CR or WR.

Law of Assumption

In order to apply the law of assumption to shifting, you should have a basic understanding of what it is and how it works. We already explained this a little just above! The law of assumption simply states that whatever you assume to be true must be true. That’s pretty much it! Your dominant thoughts create your reality. Grass is green because you assume it is. If you were to assume grass is pink instead, eventually, you would see pink grass. People use the law of assumption to manifest their ideal lives every day! 

Now that you know the absolute basic definition of the law, here are some things to take note of:

The 4D (fourth dimension), in the world of manifesting, is composed of your thoughts, assumptions, imagination, dreams, and beliefs. The 3D is the physical world in which you experience things through the five senses. Both of these dimensions are just as real as the other and are a lot more connected than people tend to think.

Your 3D (the physical realm) reflects your 4D. So just like the grass example above, where we made grass pink simply by thinking it is, your 3D reflects your 4D. This is what we mean when we say “your thoughts create your reality”.

Persistence does wonders (we’ll talk about this further in the post)!

Manifesting with the law of assumption in the 3D can be instant if you assume it so. Remember, what you assume to be true will be true. So if you assume that manifesting takes time, then it will for you. But if you assume that it’s instant, or that it happens within 48 hours, or whatever, and persist in that assumption, then that will be true for you instead.

Assumptions = thoughts. Don’t overcomplicate what an assumption is. An assumption is literally just a thought you think to be true with no proof of it being so. That’s it. To assume something, you just need to have a thought about it. So, “manifesting is easy”, is an assumption. Just like “manifesting is hard” is also an assumption. (hint: always assume manifesting is easy)

You don’t need to believe in your assumptions for them to manifest. Again, we’ll go over this further down!

Your desires already exist. If they exist in the 4D, if they exist in your imagination, then they exist right now because time isn’t real in the 4D. Full stop. Imagination creates your reality. Creation is finished, it is done. Regardless of whether or not you believe in your assumptions aside, try to always remember that your desires already exist and already belong to you. When you manifest your desires, you’re never manifesting from a state of lack because you never lack what you already have, you’re simply reminding yourself that you already have your desires right now.

How They’re Both Related 

The Law of Assumption and reality shifting are both related in that every time you manifest a desire with the law of assumption, you simply shift to a reality where you already have said desire, no matter how “large” or “small” the desire is. Also, we are constantly shifting-with every single decision no matter how “big” or “small”  that we make, and every manifestation that we desire -we shift to another reality where we made that decision. There's another reality where we made a different decision or manifested something completely different. With the multiverse theory, there are an infinite number of realities with an infinite number of possibilities. ANYTHING is possible; there’s no such thing as impossible in the multiverse! In regards to the belief that the 3D is malleable in this reality and that it isn’t necessary to shift when you manifest, that is also completely possible. Everything that you can imagine and desire already exists in the 4D because time isn’t real, ultimately you decide whether you want to change your current reality to fit your desires or you shift to another reality in the 3D.

As Gods, you create your own rules/reality in the entire Multiverse, and you can even define your laws of physics. Our *personal* belief is that within one reality, there are many different “layers” of other mini realities that are malleable and very similar with only slight differences, like a branch of trees that all stem from one reality at the root. This is how you can manipulate the 3D reality you reside in without shifting. Let’s remember all the crazy things Neville Goddard himself was able to do-such as time travel to the past, be in two places at once, and even revise a person back from the dead! He may very well have manipulated the 3D reality to fit his desires, or he shifted to those specific realities where those things are possible! Who’s to say how he was able to do those things? The answer could be different depending on your perspective, and both are completely correct and valid. 

Loa Self concept + Shifting Self Concept - Why It’s Important and How To Reach It

Almost everyone in the Law of Assumption community knows the importance of having a good self concept, but let’s take a quick recap as to what that entails and the benefits of having a good self concept. While it isn’t necessary to have a good self concept to manifest or to shift, there are a lot of benefits to having one and you won’t regret prioritizing your self concept. When you have a good self concept with the law of assumption you stop having doubts and limiting beliefs, you always manifest instantly and effortlessly, time doesn’t bother you, the 3D doesn’t bother you, everyone treats you well, you live a perfect life, and you no longer have a victim mindset. In regards to reality shifting, having a good self concept can help with how you view reality shifting as a whole, and how you reality shift yourself. If you work on your self concept, you’ll start to see reality shifting as easy and effortless, and that NOTHING can stop you from shifting-not even your own doubts or fears. Also, you don’t need to do a million things or fancy methods to shift, all you need is the intention to shift and yourself!

Reality shifting is supposed to be that easy and effortless, if you intend it you can even blink and be at your desired reality! In order to work on your self concept with reality shifting, you must affirm and persist no matter what that you already have a good self concept. You can affirm:

I am a master at reality shifting

Reality shifting is easy and effortless for me

Nothing stops me from shifting

I am always reality shifting no matter what

I always wake up in my desired reality no matter what

Every time I blink I reality shift to my desired reality

Reality shifting is easier than blinking

I always reality shift instantly no matter what 

I am the best and most powerful reality shifter in the entire multiverse

I can shift whenever I desire

I can shift anywhere on command

I can shift at any time of the day

How to Apply the Law of Assumption To Shifting

The belief in the law of assumption and shifting is very similar! A person can choose what kind of life they live just with their thoughts - which one am I describing here? It could be either one! With this in mind, you can absolutely use the law to your advantage to help with your shifting journey and vice versa. For now, we’ll focus on how to apply the law to shifting.

The law of assumption can easily be summed up with, “what you assume must be true for your reality”. While there are other facets of the law, this is the most basic belief and the only one you really need to know. Knowing that you can change your entire world with just your assumptions is powerful! But how do we apply that to shifting? Very easily actually! 

It’s all about your thoughts. Your assumptions. What do you believe about shifting? Do you think it’s hard? That it’ll just be inherently hard for some people, regardless of what they do? Do you think it takes a lot of time and practice to accomplish? Do you think some realities are just impossible to shift to, that they don’t even exist maybe? All of your answers to these questions are assumptions. I mean this with the utmost respect, but you have absolutely no proof for them. So, if you have to choose between thinking “shifting is hard” or “shifting is easy” with no proof for either one, which one do you think would benefit you more? Obviously, “shifting is easy”. And why is that? Because your thoughts create your reality. By telling yourself “shifting is easy”, that assumption has to become true in your reality, regardless of what anyone else says.

Now I know you may not immediately believe that shifting is easy and that’s okay. But if you regularly tell yourself things like “shifting is hard. I can’t shift. I probably won’t shift like usual”, then pay attention to that. Your thoughts about shifting are important, so always choose the kinder one. Instead of saying, “shifting is too hard for me”, try saying, “shifting is always easy for me” or anything with that energy in mind. Persist in these “easy” assumptions until they harden into fact! Throw away the belief that you can’t shift and focus your energy on being able to! I know it can be hard to just change how you think about things, so let’s move on to our next section.

Mental Diet In Shifting

What exactly is a “mental diet” and how can it be helpful? A mental diet is when a person actively checks their thoughts and makes sure they align with what they actually want to think. This can be “flipping” anxious thoughts, affirming positive ones, and just generally making sure that what they’re telling themselves aligns with what they want. You wouldn’t tell yourself you’re dumb if you’re manifesting good grades, right? People often deal with doubts, anxiety, and other “negative” thoughts when manifesting/shifting. Now, it’s important to note that you absolutely can still manifest and shift even with these kinds of thoughts. You don’t need to get rid of them or go on a mental diet. People go on mental diets because these thoughts can be annoying and frustrating to deal with, not because it’s necessary. 

Now that we know what a mental diet is, how do we do it? This will be different for everyone! Here are some suggestions for what you can do during a mental diet: flipping undesirable thoughts (ex: “no one likes me” to “everyone likes me”), affirming things that do align with your desires, reassuring yourself when you have doubts/worries, assume/affirm that you don’t have negative thoughts and/or that they don’t bother you, and practice talking to yourself with love and respect. These are just a few things that could help you! Don’t be afraid to take the time to figure out what works for you. Remember, you don’t need to go on a mental diet, but it can help your self concept a lot, and if you find yourself having any sort of trouble with manifesting/shifting, try to see if your thoughts actually align with your desires. If you’re constantly telling yourself you “can’t” shift, that could be a reason for your troubles.

So, ask yourself, what do you think about shifting? How do you want to think about shifting? A mental diet doesn’t have to be an exhausting, stressful event. Ideally, it shouldn’t be. Be aware of your thoughts and how you view shifting and yourself. That’s it. You choose how your mental diet goes. You choose your thoughts. You choose everything! Don’t think of a mental diet as a scary, long-lasting thing that you need to do. Instead, view it as a helpful tool for when you want to change your thoughts. That’s all it is!

As a side note, I would highly recommend assuming/affirming that these doubts, worries, and other negative thoughts do not affect your manifestation/shifting journey. Just assume that these thoughts don’t do anything! This is another way to go on a mental diet. Assume that undesirable thoughts have no power over you.

Dealing With Doubts and Other Negative Emotions and Thoughts

The first thing we want to normalise is that it is okay to have doubts, fears, and other negative emotions and thoughts when it comes to shifting. A lot of people in the shifting community are trying to enforce toxic positivity and repress those feelings and thoughts with the belief that if you have those negative thoughts and feelings, you can’t shift. That is completely false, no matter what you feel and think you can always reality shift. There have been people who didn’t believe in shifting or that they could even do it, and they still reality shifted. The only reason why people haven’t shifted is because they have limited themselves from shifting with those kinds of beliefs. There is absolutely nothing stopping you from shifting except yourself. As long as you assume that nothing, no matter what you feel and think, can stop you from shifting then nothing will stop you from shifting. You can create that assumption by working on your self concept as stated above and having a mental diet. When you affirm that you are a master shifter, you are stating that you can shift whenever and wherever you want to no matter what you think or feel because nothing except yourself can stop you from shifting. Your feelings and thoughts are always completely valid-it’s okay to have doubts because after all since we were born we have been programmed to believe that these things are impossible. However, don’t let these feelings and thoughts overpower you and get in your way of shifting because you are completely limitless and at the end of the day you decide when to shift.

Persistence

Let’s talk about how persistence is important when it comes to reality shifting. Neville Goddard once said, “An assumption, though false, if persisted in, will harden into fact.” Persistence is simply insisting in your affirmations/visualisations that you are already in your DR, or that you are shifting to your DR. Persistence is very important because your dominant thoughts always create your reality no matter what. For example, you do not need to believe your assumptions about shifting being easy at first. As long as you keep repeating that assumption in your mind as a dominant thought it has to conform to the 3D no matter what you think or feel! That is how the law works.

You have to remember that in another reality currently, you are already experiencing your DR because your consciousness is infinite in the entire multiverse. Your subconscious knows everything, so it will know the DR you want to shift to. When you shift you are simply moving your awareness to another reality but that doesn’t mean that you aren’t experiencing your DR right now. After all, everything that could possibly happen is already happening in the 4D, you already are in your DR in the 4D right now. All you must do is change your 4D reality so that your 3D reality can reflect it instantly by persisting. In order to persist, you must affirm or visualise yourself in your DR, or going to your DR. So think to yourself and REPEAT no matter what: “I am already in my DR right now,” “I am waking up in my DR,” or “I am going to my DR today/tonight.” You must persist that no matter what you choose to do to go to your DR, whether that be meditating, setting an intention, or waking up there, you WILL shift or wake up in your DR no matter what.

If you find yourself wavering and reacting to the 3D, which shows your CR, simply contradict those intrusive thoughts and feelings by saying that you already are in your DR currently or that you are going to wake up or going to your DR regardless of what the 3D shows you. REPETITION AND CONSISTENCY ARE KEY WHEN YOU AFFIRM OR VISUALISE, I CAN’T STRESS THIS ENOUGH! Remember that you can literally blink and be in your DR at any moment in your waking day as you keep persisting. Never give up on persisting, because anything can change at any moment and you can shift when you least expect it. People have shifted with their eyes open and even by accident in the middle of the day by persisting and not giving up that they are in their DR, or that they are inevitably going to their DR no matter what!

Setting the Intention

We mentioned that all you need to shift is intention. And it’s true! All you need is intention. But what does that mean? And how do we do it?

Well, it’s pretty simple! By definition, intention means, “a thing intended; an aim or plan”. To “set the intention to shift” all you actually need to do is think to yourself, “I’m going to shift/I’ve shifted”. That can be at night, during the day, in the shower, even at school! Where you shift, when you shift, how you shift, none of that really matters. What does matter is the intention. Simply thinking about when you want to shift is an intention. 

I know it seems a little too easy. All you have to do is think about shifting and that’s it? Just that will shift you? Trust me, I know it sounds too easy, but that’s because it is. The belief of shifting has been around for hundreds of years. There are stories about shifting that literally date back centuries and even just a couple of decades ago. In fact, most of those really old stories go something like this, “meditate and focus and boom. You shifted.” The act of shifting is not hard. It’s not complicated. You’ve been told that it’s hard, unnatural, that you have to learn how to do it and use all your energy in doing methods to shift. But that’s just not true. You just need to want to shift. The simple goal of shifting is an intention!

Everyone says this but it’s true; don’t overcomplicate this. Even if shifting was hard (which it isn’t), the knowledge of the law adds an entirely new layer to it. You’re literally the creator. You choose your life! You dictate your reality! However you want to say it, that’s how it is. Assume that shifting is easy, know that you can shift whenever and however you want no matter what you think or feel, and recognize just how powerful you are.

So take a deep breath, make the decision to shift, and let go. Let go of all those doubts and worries. Don’t focus so much on the how and just let yourself shift. Set the intention and boom! You’ve shifted.

You are the Creator

I hope by now the message that all you need to shift is you has really gotten across. All you need is intention! Things like methods can be fun, but they aren’t necessary. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you that any specific thing is necessary for shifting. All you “need” is the intention to shift! Remember, you are the creator of your reality. You make the rules. If you decide that you don’t need methods to shift, then you won’t need methods. If you decide that all you need to do is blink once and then you’ll shift, then all you’ll need to do is blink. Get it? It’s all you. Every “rule”, every decision, every belief and doubt, every little thing that goes into shifting all comes from you. So make it easy for yourself! Like seriously why make it harder? Shifting is inherently easy, and you can make it easier for yourself with just a simple thought.

Have fun with methods, but always, always remind yourself that they are just an option. You don’t need them. All you need to shift is intention. All you need to shift is you. You are the creator of your reality; the operant power in everything that goes on. You make the rules. No one else can tell you how to think or what to believe. So don’t listen to people when they say that you “need” to do methods, use your 5 senses, detach from your CR, meditate, be high vibrational, or that “visualisation is necessary” to shift. The only thing you will ever “need” to shift is yourself. Your own thoughts are all you need. You are all you need to shift!!

Take advantage of the power inside you! Your thoughts create your reality, your thoughts make the rules, your thoughts run the entire multiverse! Assume that you’re a master shifter and you will be. Assume that you’ve shifted and you have. Everything you need is already inside you. So what are you waiting for! Shift!!

I want to say again that this post was written by @multiversebaddie and I so please give your love to her if you haven't already! She wrote a heavy chunk of this post and it wouldn't have been possible without her!!

Today's challenge: What are five of your most unpopular opinions about TVD?! You may already know mine: 1. IMO, first few seasons of this show and even parts of the later seasons are genuinely great television, not just a 'guilty pleasure' 2. While I like Stefan, I don't love him quite as much as most of our fandom does 3. I'm a huge Elena stan for reasons we've discussed 4. I'm kind of obsessed with Mabekah and Steferine 5. I love the oft overlooked Matt and he's sneakily important to the show

I’m getting to these so late, but thank you! These are excellent opinions and I support them. :) (I love Matt, oh boy.)

1. The most well-told of Caroline’s romances, as they exist in canon, is her and Matt. Every other relationship she’s in I can’t fully buy or be invested in as much as I would like to be because of the writing. Again- this is in canon. In terms of chemistry and characterization and possibility- I think all of them work in different ways. I’m a Caroline multi-shipper I guess? I still love my vision of what Stefan and Caroline could have been. Klaus as the Love of Caroline’s Life makes SENSE. She and Tyler are very sweet and innocent at first and it feels real! I even think that she and Enzo could have worked! Caroline COULD WORK WITH SO MANY PEOPLE so it’s kind of sad that she doesn’t, canonically, really work with anyone.

2. I really, really hate how the show uses Caroline as a mouthpiece in the endless ship baiting of season 4 and, especially, season 5. It’s jarring and obvious and often pretty out of character. She deserved better. (So did Elena.)

3. I don’t see anything romantic about Damon and Bonnie. It’s not that I don’t get why people ship it because the friendship is beautiful, the love is real, and the chemistry is good (#thathug). It’s just- to me none of that translates to a romantic relationship. At all. They’re too alike in some ways and not enough alike in others. Also I just don’t ever think they’re in love. I don’t see it and I don’t think the characters see it either. 

4. The show, especially in later seasons, is so wildly inconsistent about characterization that everyone is free to pick and choose what they consider canon. Everyone, at some point or another, does something RIDICULOUS and DUMB and we should all be free to say “that was a dumb decision and I don’t consider it canon”. I’m on season 7 now and it is one giant L O L. 

5. This is my big one. I don’t think Stefan ever fully got over Katherine and so I don’t think that he was ever really in love with Elena. The show disagrees with me on both these points (and many other people as well, I suspect) and because the show disagrees with me I don’t have textual evidence on my side in that the show frequently (and imo heavy-handedly) contradicts me. But in a deeper sense the show does support me through characterization and actions, if not in words, and I still think I’m right. Some day I will write a thesis on it. I think he comes to care for Elena deeply and even to love her- it’s not that I think he’s lying when he says that he loves her- but I think it’s the friendship that blooms underneath the romance that’s real, not the romance itself. 

I see Stefan’s romantic feelings for Elena as some combination of good ol’ delusion, desperation for a human life and love, and a need for a fresh start- a chance to undo the wounds of his Katherine past with the human and “good” version of her. The fact that Stefan is not aware of this doesn’t bother me because that’s human and real. What’s disappointing is that the show never acknowledges that, though it wrote the truths in there anyway, and so it doesn’t develop the compelling and thematically rich disconnect between why he thinks he came to Mystic Falls and why he actually did. It never explores the connections between Stefan’s relation to Katherine, vampirism, and Elena in all their true complexity and because of that Stefan’s storyline- especially re: Elena being The Love of His Life (me throwing popcorn at my screen: she’s not, you idiot)- ends up being forced and underdeveloped and personally disappointing to me because the bones of an incredible, painful, and truthful redemption arc about self-discovery and realization and growth and healing are tHERE.

I loved you so much it almost killed me

Astro Observations:

Lmk any other posts I should make!

- 🔮 Taurus, Cancer and Sagittarius placements have impeccable taste in food. This makes sense as Taurus is the more sensual side of Venus, Cancer represents the mother and Sagittarius is associated with travel and being cultured.

- 🔮 I personally find it hard to click with people who don’t have any 8h or 9h placements; these houses add such a fun and unique personality to people. As nice as people without these placements are I just can’t form a deep connection with them. So if you have 8h or 9h placements as well, I would try to find people with 8h or 9h placements and/or have placements in the sign of your 8h/9h.

- 🔮 Having prominent 3h placements/gemini moon is so hard to have when going through hardships in life, because you’ll overthink every small detail and just keep replaying things in your head and just drive yourself crazy. Virgo placements are prone to this too but they’re usually able to pick themselves back up better.

- 🔮 Aquarius placements get a bad rep for being fake. But in all honesty they’re the most loyal friends that you can have, they’re home is the 11h of friendships after all. However their problem is they can get their head so stuck in the clouds that they lose sight of what’s important and aren’t the best with confrontation. They’re also extremely afraid of betrayal that they may act too swiftly.

- 🔮 In synastry, I feel it is better to not have every placement traditionally compatible to each other. I feel it needs a balance of squares, and then oppositions and conjunctions. I had a relationship where the signs of the chart aligned almost perfectly, but there was no passion or excitement. My current relationship, our charts don’t seem amazingly compatible based off first glance. But even with the hard aspects, our venuses being exactly conjunct just combines so well. Basically, having one perfect aspect in the mix of all the other synastry aspects is ideal.

- 🔮 Ascendant compatibility is so much more important than most people realize. Because it not only shows the compatibility for the ascendant signs but for the rest of the chart. This influences the different areas of your lives and how they interact with each other.

- 🔮 To continue onto ascendant compatibility, the most compatible ascendant signs are signs opposite or sextile each other :). However I find this applicable to all placements but this is especially prevalent in ascendant signs.

- 🔮 Maybe this is just the masculine Leo mars in my life but they secretly love them some pisces and virgos 😟

- 🔮 Best relationship/friendships you’ll have will be with those with placements in your 11th house, 9th house, and 7th house.

- 🔮 Libra risings, Leo risings, Scorpio rising and Aquarius risings attract attention no matter if they try to or want to. A blessing and a curse.

- 🔮 Pisces mars & Cancer mars/venus individuals are prone to age gap relationships or relationships with a strong nurturer and nurtured dynamic.

- 🔮 More personalized to me but as a Taurus mercury, I have the best conversations with fire mercuries 🥴. I feel this is because they balance out my more timid demeanor and slower way of processing things, they bring out my more bold and confrontational side.

- 🔮 Cancer and Aries give similar vibes but just in a different font. Both loyal and caring and compassionate, they just express it differently.

there is no 3P.

let me explain.

we’re all about EIYPO right? so why the hell did we even use to discuss third parties here? if everyone IS YOU, why do you think rachel is blocking your manifestation? if EIYPO, why would you see rachel as a threat…? RACHEL IS YOU.

it’s not adding up guys...

i swear old loacom was so obsessed with that idea despite us knowing we're the creators. like wtf?? everything and everyone is an expression OF YOU. do you understand how important you are? do you? THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE LITERALLY OPERATES FOR YOU. if you’re manifesting an SP, it will go out of its way to make it happen, NO MATTER WHAT. there is always a way.

i don’t care who rachel is. i don’t care if she’s prettier than you, skinnier, smarter, more kinder, more talented. (first of all, shes not. you’re making it all up in your head and putting her on a pedestal.) you can still manifest your SP no matter what. let's say that all the things i said previously were "true," SP isn't gonna see it AT ALL and think that abt you instead once you just decide so. you're in 100% control here. rachel from the grocery store can literally move across the planet if you assume she did and this would all be over like-

third parties are SOO irrelevant. don't even worry about them, and only focus on your SP. they'll either break up or the whole situation will literally be revised. don't make it into a big deal. dismiss and persist babes xoxo

Fun game to test my abilities 🎨

I love to intuitively read images send me a random Pinterest picture, drawing or literally any image you really feel like is you and I will try to accurately describe you it’s just a fun game to see if I can if it doesn’t resonate you can lmk!

Ex; If I were to choose an image I felt described me id choose this ⇩

✨Mars is one of the most important placements in your chart.

Mars talks about how you navigate through the world, specifically how you overcome obstacles, changes, conflict & transformations.

The only thing constant in this world is change.

As the planet of War & traditional ruler of the 1H/Aries - the body & 8H/Scorpio - death & transformation, Mars holds A LOT of power. Do not underestimate it. Both of these houses/placements are houses that trigger your progression through your chart. Meaning, your first house LITERALLY describes your life’s path & your eighth house deals w some of the deepest & most treacherous parts of our human journey (such as intimacy, psyche & death itself).

If you have a strong Mars, you are ambitious & will take on any challenges. The downside is you may come across as combative, self-centered & self-serving.

If you have a weak mars, you can be passive aggressive or shy away from any conflict/competition. You may take a more passive role in life. The upside is you are probably very compassionate, empathetic & diplomatic in handling issues.

The key is to understand your Mars, so you understand how you deal w change & conflict. When you understand how you move through life, you can plan to travel accordingly. Think of it like this— if you are traveling down a river— use a boat. If you are going overseas— use a plane. If you are going to McDonalds down the street— use a car. Essentially find you mode of transportation that you can navigate most easily for your destination, that way you can have the best trip possible for your journey. That’s really life, right?

Never try to be something that you’re not & align yourself w people who show you a different way of dealing w the problems/chaos the world presents. Different perspectives matter a lot. We are all in this prison together. We work better as a team for our escape plan.

✨Fire Mars tends to be more aggressive, going after what they want directly w confident & self-assuredness.

✨Water Mars tends to be more emotional & would do better to channel their feelings into some sort of art or nurturing venture.

✨Air Mars tends to strategize before acting & likes to be methodical when solving problems.

✨Earth Mars tends to know that patience & long term planning is key to success.

Learn to deal w your anger, your passion, your lust & you will unlock beautiful wonders in you life. Use every tool available to express yourself. Know that changes & challenges make you stronger. Use your Mars placement as a guide to see how Spirit wants you to deal w what life throws your way!

Your Mars is essentially your weapon of choice!

With Love & Lust,

A-D ❤️💋

P.S. — I have been working REALLY hard on my next long post for y’all. I’m ALMOST done, thank goodness!! But I’m so excited to share!!! I hope it’s worth the wait (& the 20+ hours I’ve put into it already…lol)

~ Astro Observations ~

Saturn is known as the protector planet as it rules over barriers, restrictions, delays, limits & any protection that can be forced. Look at your chart to see where you will experience the most setbacks yet are protected. For instance, I’ve noticed someone with Saturn in the 6th house is very hard working and often puts in twice the work to get places, but they can experience setbacks with their colleagues nitpicking or criticizing them. But they are usually protected, their hard work pays off, or they always thrive. I see A LOT of famous people with Saturn in the 6th house.

Libra risings like people who are like themselves or else they completely avoid those who are obnoxious and aggressive as it appalls them. Yet, I commonly see them drawing in these individuals at the same time. Best rising for enemies to lovers as the main protagonist just doing their thing unbothered until an aries rising shows up lmao.

I notice the type of people we are attracted to reflect our 1st or 7th house in some way. For instance I have Venus in 1st and I always attract Aries rising & Mars in 1st house people. I noticed the same for someone who had Moon in their 1st house commonly attracting Capricorn risings or those with Saturn in their 1st house.

The sun sign is actually very important in your chart and isn’t just some hocus pocus bogus crap found in magazine horoscopes. From my observations I’ve developed a theory that Mutable signs adapt using their sun signs qualities they usually start off HATING but find it necessary to utilize for their own personal power. Cardinal Signs seem to dislike their sun signs qualities and chase after everything using THE OPPOSITE qualities of their sign. It’s when they use their sun signs qualities to their advantage they will find their initiations successful. While fixed signs struggle the most to master their own sun signs qualities as it sticks with them through and through, they relate the most to their sun sign as these qualities are something inate they use to identify themselves. However, they struggle to figure out how to use their qualities in a positive light as they can easily get stuck in a cycle.

Ex, a lot of Virgo euns hated cleaning or organizing themselves using lists as they were younger but later adapted because of the many health problems this sign usually experiences so found it necessary

Ex, Cancer suns tend to ignore their emotions and lash out at others being deemed insensitive so they focus on Detachment when really they should be utilizing their magnetism and intuition through human connection as they are the sign with the most power over others emotions.

Ex, Aquarius suns struggle with seeing the use of collaboration with others opinions and applying their innovative thoughts towards real life skills. They can get stuck in a constant pattern of not feeling accepted or heard. But mastering their creative thinking and differences to use positively will give them the most recognition.

Conclusion:

Mutable sun sign = Adapting to your Qualities

Cardinal sun sign = initiating your Qualities.

Fixed sun sign = Mastering your Qualities.

This is also why imo it’s the hardest to spot a mutable sun sign as they’re usually farther away from Adapting to their sun signs qualities until they’ve gotten more experience in life. Usually looking at the general themes in their life can help you identify them the easier.

Ex, Gemini suns are focused on developing communication skills and confidence in their socializing capabilities.

Ex, Pisces suns usually deals with people taking their dreams for granted and is most likely influenced by a harsh or strict environment.

In Solar Return Charts the most common house placements tend to be the 1st House, 6th House, 7th House and 10th House. ESPECIALLY 1ST & 6TH HOUSE! This is because most of our years are focused on the tangible and everyday aspects of our lives which is ruled by the 6th house, our public person and career is the 10th House, and focusing on ourselves is our 1st House.

If you’re a student I frequently see 3rd, 5th, 6th, 8th & 9th Houses filled in solar return charts. The 3rd/5th/9th Houses are all about acquiring skills, learning from what’s in front of you, hobbies and pleasure, and higher knowledge or lessons to be taught that bring about movement in your life. I also included 6th house because that’s our daily life + physical health while the 8th house is about our mental health so it makes sense why students often have that house filled...

Wanna find out how to turn your creative thinking into a weapon and utilize it for success? Pallas (2) can show what you’re naturally gifted at intellectually.

Pallas is the asteroid representing Athena goddess of war, strategy, knowledge & creative thinking. I’ve seen this asteroid work wonders tbh. My friend has it in Libra 12th House and she’s a visual artist mastermind. She can piece any aesthetic or visual together like a puzzle.

If you want to manifest any desires, look at your 11th house! This house rules our wishes and what is rewarded after we’ve put hard work into it. Finding direction will be much easier to achieve if you look at your 11th house and what it’s telling you to work for. Basically I’ve seen Pluto in 11th = earning power over people, Saturn in 11th = earning respect and titles, Venus in 11th = earning love or money (wealth indicator), Neptune in 11th = earning a prophecy, deep undivided loyalty & glamour, Mercury in 11th = earning your name to be widespread, knowledge & fast results.

I’d say Mercury in the 11th is a big “viral celebrity” placement as they can easily do something and everyone knows their name overnight. Also good for scholars!

The 12th house is also known as the house of Loss. Your planets, sign & rulership could determine what you end up sacrificing or leaving behind. For example, Cancer in 12th could often leave their homes or roots, they usually experience family loss early too. Scorpio in 12th house loses their fear, finances & secrets easily (beware of who you let talk to you). And Sagittarius in 12th house can lose their freedom, knowledge acquired, and faith in others.

The most copied people tend to be Scorpio risings, Pisces risings, Pluto in 1st house, Neptune in 1st house and 12th House placements. That’s because with Scorpio energy in the 1st house their identity is literally exploited and used for power dynamics (legit had my friend catfished a bit ago and she has an 8° sag rising with Pluto in 1st conjunct her ascendant). And Pisces energy around the 1st House because people have no barriers with you and feel entitled to take your identity. It can almost feel like a sacrifice of themselves for Pisces rising or those with Neptune in 1st house (ex, Marilyn Monroe & Kim Kardashian, it’s not a mistake they both have Neptune in 1st house).

Differences between the angular houses cuz I know we get these mixed up easily:

Your 1st house = How you identify yourself in the world.

Your 4th House = Your roots and how you grow into the world.

Your 7th House = How others identity you, your close connections.

Your 10th House = What you’re known for, your reputation.

The houses of legacys are 4th, 8th & 10th. This is your history and how you make your mark on the world, how you will be remembered, and your title in the word.

8th house placements is what we knowingly gatekeep from the world, and the house rulership tells just as much if it’s empty. Rich people usually have Jupiter in the 8th house because they are quite literally gatekeeping their wisdom, knowledge, gifts & MASS amounts of power. They also receive money randomly sometimes and have fabulous luck with stocks or investments.

Usually people with Moon in the 8th House tend to be reserved with their deepest emotions and family life. They can often take the longest to open up or trust others as they’re used to being blackmailed or having their emotional security taken away from them.

Countries’ rising signs MAKES A LOT OF SENSE. Russia has a Scorpio rising (known for intelligence agencies, spies, and cold environment...also destruction of the USSR), the USA has a Sagittarius rising (known for freedom, boldness & diversity...also aggression lol) & Britain is a Libra rising (country known for its fashion, etiquette and tea, its so libra LMAO)

Sun sextile Mars is the best aspect for a natural leader. You know how to utilize your individuality to stand out during competition and you also naturally bring out shining qualities in the people you lead. You take challenges to your ego with ease and although passionate you still remain assured and unbothered by threats. Also high sex drive is present here

A lot of psychics have Moon sextile Neptune because they access otherworldly feelings subconsciously without blockages. And are both Water and Fire dominant. Water rules unconscious and flowing emotions, while Fire represents intuition and gut feelings hence “follow your heart” being their motto.

In general looking at your Moon placement is THE MOST important when figuring out your intuitive abilities as the Moon is the unconscious mind & your personal feelings and behavior. You could determine what suits you best with this!

Ex, Mercury aspecting Moon does well with Tarot & Oracle or any divination that requires pattern connections and using your hands

Ex, Pluto aspecting Moon might be able to talk to ancestors, spirits, and gain information about dangerous events

Ex, Venus aspecting Moon would be great for Glamour magic, Love spells, WEALTH MANIFESTATIONS, and herbalism!! TEA READINGS LOL

I need to stop with Libra & Tea �� istg Tea is ruled by Libra & Neptune BUT THATS JUST MY INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS COMING THRU.

I don’t necessarily believe in everything I listed or think it’s all good practices like Love magic but I wanted to help you develop an idea of how each planet can be connected for practical use.

I feel like Uranus is actually a hard planet to understand and sometimes value in everyday life because it’s just so...out there LOL. Like it’s described as sudden surprises, rebellion, electricity, revolution & eccentricity. It’s just a hard planet to relate to in general because it’s the opposite of conformity so applying it in your life is umm confusing to say the least lol.

Basically I look at Uranus as sudden ups & downs, where we grow FAST but where we get knocked down BAD too. I literally think cancel culture would be ruled by Uranus ngl LOL. It’s unpredictable and awakens or shakes up whatever it aspects.

So Uranus aspecting Venus would cause a turbulent love life, a somewhat Detached or Hypersexual character, Very wealthy and a visionary in fashion or with money. But alsoooo struggles to maintain relationships or struggles A LOT with self love.

TW but I’ve often seen those with Uranus in 2nd & 6th House struggle the most with body dysmorphia and weight fluctuation. Your health can always spike up and down too. It’s because these houses rule over our self-worth, body and physical health. Therefore, sometimes it can really shake your eating habits up which would obviously cause a struggle in your mental health.

However I’ve also seen some of the MOST inflated egos come from people with Uranus in 2nd House. Again the unpredictability and sudden Shockwave to your confidence with Uranus can literally make you feel like God or sunken. It’s VERY drastic.

Oppositions to the Ascendant, also known as Conjunctions to the Descendant are qualities we possess that others DON’T accept us for and often make us feel insecure. Lilith Opposite Ascendant would probably be heavily shamed for their promiscuity and manipulative behavior. While Uranus opposite ascendant would be ridiculed for their Weirdness or Intelligence. People would label them as crazy lol�� (totally not me).

Also if you have Uranus aspecting the Ascendant or Mars you are VERY clumsy and accident prone LMAO�� your movements literally come off as a shockwave to others and everything around you. It’s just one step and all of a sudden a whole clothing rack comes falling down. Uranus does rule Natural Disasters so...are we even surprised?

When looking at your Solar Return Chart it’s not just Pluto to be concerned about BUT CHIRON. This asteroid is the wounded healer meaning it will detail the wounds you have to recover from and face that year. Chiron also highlights where we feel or are literally rejected so...check that fr.

The saddest Chiron placement imo is in the 1st & 4th House. Because your identity and self expression is rejected with the 1st house, while in the 4th house you could be outcasted by your own family and feel blocked put from any form of emotional security.

An example of what I think is a good example of significant Chiron energy would be Selena Gomez and her Venus conjunct Chiron at a 1° orb in Leo 1st house. Basically it shows up as her body being rejected, women rejecting her, and her own creative projects or indivuality feeling rejected. She probably is very self-deprecative because of this as she never feels her appearance or identity is good enough.

Chiron in 1st House people also get copied lots...just sayin

Women tend to be VERY jealous of those with Venus or Moon aspecting Chiron because they view that individual as wounding their views of femininity and project their insecurities onto them. The women with Venus/Moon aspecting Chiron placements are seen in general as being too vulnerable or soft which are stereotypical feminine qualities a lot of women can feel resentment towards brought on by the ✨️Patriarchy✨️

Marilyn Monroe also has Venus conjunct Chiron...��

So does Jessica Alba, Olivia Rodrigo and Kurt Cobain.

Their lovesick songs PLZ what’s more Venus conjunct Chiron than that�� excluding miss Alba lol.

The same goes for women with Sun & Mars aspecting Chiron. Men are usually jealous of their success and degrade them because they see them as a threat to their masculinity.

Fun fact: The 4th House rules over the Father while the 10th house rules over the Mother in family astrology. Although I generally always saw the Moon sign as the most accurate representation of the maternal figure in your life but I found the above on astrology websites.

I also found some sources saying the 10th house actually rules your dominant parent? It’s a whole debate on Google but it did say the 10th house rules the Mother in my astrology books so...idk I see it. Let me know in the comments your thoughts!

And to end this off, let me know your rising sign degree and I will try to guess your favorite colour to wear lol