THE IT GIRL MANUAL

a law of assumption & self care based guide

🎀 CHAPTER 1: LAW OF ASSUMPTION GUIDE

𝐈. how to change your mindset ˖*

-by changing your mindset, you will change your life. let me make this clear from the very beginning: you CANNOT change your physical reality if you don’t change in imagination FIRST. but what does this exactly mean? does this mean that you’re going to be thinking about your desires non-stop? does this mean you cannot slip and let out your emotions? or does this mean that you can’t have negative thoughts?

the answer to all these questions is no. you’re going to have your moments of weakness, you’re eventually going to get undesired and unfavourable thoughts about anything, it’s completely fine and human. that’s what you are after all. so embrace your emotions, cry as much as you need, scream your lungs out, take the time to bring comfort to yourself and do it slowly. there’s no need to rush. nothing is permanent and so are your emotions.

all that you need to do is relax and take it easy. you know how the law works, right? if you don’t, let me break it down for you:

sit down and relax. breathe slowly. take a look at yourself in the mirror. once you’ve done that, find a comfortable position, whether it’s laying down or sitting up. take a good 15 to 20 minutes to clear out your mind & understand what you really want. do you have everything clear in your mind? good. if you’d like, you can also script it down (optional step. it is not necessary).

now repeat after me: “it’s done”. easy, right? well now guess what, you have successfully manifested all your desires. don’t believe me? you don’t have to. all you have to do is have faith and believe in yourself. see how easy it was for you to imagine your desires? now you also know how easy it was to manifest them. congrats, you’ve done it!

𝐈𝐈. faith & belief ˖*

-faith and belief are, in my honest opinion, key when it comes to manifestation. what’s important to highlight when making such statement, is that the you need to have faith in YOURself. you need to believe in YOURself. not anyone else’s self. “but andreia, how do i believe in myself if i never trusted it?” the key is to live in the mind/imagination. your imagination is your only, true reality. in imagination, you have to think of yourself as if you’re confident and believe in you. take the “fake it till you make it” quote seriously for a minute: if you’re someone who struggles with their self-concept, you’re gonna have to plant the seed first to make the plant grow and flourish. in this case scenario, the seed is PERSISTANCE IN THE MIND and the plant is the BELIEF.

so yes, as much as you already have what you want the second you decide it (because by definition, the law works ALWAYS instantly), you have to store FAITH & BELIEVE in yourself. we all start from point 0. you’re gonna have to trust yourself one way of another and what’s a better way if not faking it at first? what’s extra important tho is that you have to PERSIST and not give up.

𝐈𝐈𝐈. the urge to give up and how to deal with it ˖*

-this is just a personal rundown, some of the things that have tremendously helped me when i was on the verge of giving up and didn’t believe in myself. what i did was completely stop thinking about my desires and focus on my well-being. i noticed how over consuming information was damaging my brain and not making me ACTUALLY understand the law. this is what i feel is the problem with a lot of people; they over consume information in hopes to finally get all of their questions answered, when in reality there are zero questions. you know how the law works and it’s NOT gonna fail you.

so what i did was take a break. take a break from social media and from my phone. note: you can NEVER take a break from manifesting (since you’re always switching states), but you can take a break from acknowledging it. going out with your friends, meet new people, open up to your parents and family members, trying new activities, doing yoga (my personal fav!), working out and travelling are all good distractions to help you detach. it’s almost a “reverse method”, where you’re paying attention to the physical world and not your inner world.

𝐈𝐕. law of assumption rundown ˖*

-the key points of manifestation. note that everybody’s journey is different. people are gonna believe in different things/methods/ways to manifest and that’s fine. there’s no need to have full on discourses about what’s better between “states” or “a+p”, because at the end of the day, what you put your trust in (what you have faith in) will work out for you. that’s the principle of the law.

be in a relaxed state of mind: don’t beat yourself up, don’t force yourself to believe what someone else believes in, let our your emotions: cry, scream, laugh, jump, leap DO IT ALL. trust your gut and your gut only.

clear out your mind: decide what is it that you ACTUALLY want. it could be absolutely anything in this world. nothing is impossible unless you believe it is.

literally tell yourself that it is done. because guess what, it is. congrats now, you have successfully manifested you dream life!

your focus MUST stay in imagination. that’s your only reality, there’s only one and that is it. no, don’t worry about the 3d. that is what follows and it can’t and WON’T follow up if you haven’t experienced it in imagination first.

faith and belief are key. can’t go anywhere without ‘em. remember, it’s NOT your thoughts that manifest. you can have up to 70,000 thoughts everyday. imagine for a second that you THINK about getting hit by a car (very occurring thought of mine lol). does this now mean that you manifested that? hell no. if you don’t believe you’re gonna get hit by a car, then it’s just not going to happen. so don’t stress out about impending doubts or anything, they mean absolutely nothing.

take it easy and do whatever you want. this is your life! not mine, or your mom’s, or whoever else’s. if you’re having a hard time, take a break and focus on your well-being. when you’re healthy and ready tho, pick yourself back up and be STUBBORN. you have what you want whether you like it or not.

🎀 CHAPTER 2: SELF CARE GUIDE

♡‧₊˚ this is both for my loass girlies and the girlies that don’t manifest. yeah, i’m a girl blogger too now, you better get accustomed to it because there’s gonna be a lot of shit posting on my account from now on eheh.

𝐈. skin care routine ˖*

MORNING ROUTINE:

cleansing: fresh lukewarm-to-cold water to avoid getting burnt and irritated from hot water. use a gentle cleansing soap that’s specifically made for your skin! *go to your doctor and/or dermatologist for an in-depth consultation.

moisturiser: always keep in mind that all skin types need to be moisturised.

spf: take your middle-most fingers and apply the product onto them, do not directly make contact with the plastic tube. find an spf that’s made specifically for your face, not the one you use for your entire body.

NIGHT ROUTINE:

double cleansing: especially if you wear makeup and had it on for many hours during the day, it’s important you make sure to double cleanse your skin.

moisturiser: right after you pat-dried your skin *better with a paper sheet rather than a cotton towel, apply it to your skin.

that’s pretty much it! remember that less is better. ⋆⁺₊⋆

𝐈𝐈. body care (hair, teeth, skin) ˖*

HAIR:

make sure to wash your hair with lukewarm or slightly cold water.

double shampoo your scalp, not your mid-ends.

put on conditioner after you’ve rinsed your hair: the “squish-to-condish” method consists into taking some of the product into your hand and smoothly drag it between your hair and then taking the base of your ends and squish them upwards. make sure that, before your do this, there’s still water in your hair.

BODY:

rub an unscented soap bar on your skin with a little fabric towel. my personal favourite is the dove “beauty bar” soap.

rinse the soap away and take your body wash (this could be scented) to clean your body once more.

scrub your body at least twice a week and try to shave as little as you can to avoid getting razor bumps and ingrown hairs.

SKIN:

right out the shower, take your moisturiser and rub it across your entire body. my personal favourite scents are almond, vanilla and coconut.

TEETH:

preferably use an electric toothbrush.

flossing is key.

get a tongue scraper and really get in there! that’s where all your mouth germs reside.

rinse with mouth wash.

𝐈𝐈𝐈. healthy habits (journaling & exercising) ˖*

JOURNALING:

literally just grab a piece of paper or get a notebook or use the notes on your phone, it doesn’t matter how and where you do it, I find journaling an extremely relaxing activity. not only you’re spending your time to collect all your memories and experiences for your future self to read, but you’re also relaxing your mind. if you’re someone who likes to stay on their phone a lot (trust me, i’ve been there), you need to start forcing yourself to detach from it in one way or another. journaling is fun and it doesn’t take you a long time to get pen and paper and start writing!

another beneficial aspect that comes from this activity is that it’ll most likely improve your writing skills and it’ll help you come up with lots of creative ideas when putting your mind into writing an essay, for example. journaling has personally helped me a lot with that!

EXERCISING:

ahh yes working out, one of my fave activities ever! except when i literally almost faint from doing sit-ups, but hey, i always come out alive after. no but seriously, working out is so so so beneficial for your body! i know that some of my loass girlies will wonder “mmh, but andreia you already have your desired body, right? then why do you work out?” well the answer to that question is that it brings me peace. it makes me feel serene, content and it distracts me from negative things or thoughts.

another reason why i work out is because i’ve always loved going to the gym with my friends. it’s sorta our safe space, i know that unfortunately (especially for women) gyms are not safest places to stay in, but you can probably find an only-women gym at your local city! (or manifest it of course ;)

if you’re not a gym enthusiast but still wants to work out, here are some good free home workouts that i used to follow before i started going to the gym again ֗ ִ ּ ۪

୨୧ lilly sabri’s warm up workout

୨୧ daisy keech’s “hourglass abs” workout

୨୧ daisy keech’s “bubble butt” workout

୨୧ lilly sabri’s “toned legs” workout

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and there you have it! a personal-based guide to master the IT girl lifestyle. please keep in mind that everybody’s thought process is different, meaning that not everyone is going to agree on my views about the law of assumption and what not. this was just a fun and (hopefully) simple guide based on what works for me! i hope you enjoyed reading ♡

with love always, andreia (halo) ◟♡ ˒ ⊹ ݁ ִ

...A BIG REALISATION...

My views about LOA have changed. Yea...

I used be an affirm and persist girly unfortunately 😭😭😭 and i had this weirdass thing going that "dominant thoughts create dominant states and dominant states manifest" blah blah blah...

NO. THAT IS SOMETHING I DON'T IDENTIFY WITH ANY LONGER. ❌❌❌

please please please read these posts to know exactly what viewpoints i identify with now:

this , this , this , this , this

kindly ignore any other contrasting thing that i might have said in the past. i don't identify with a&p 24/7 any longer.

i sincerely apologize if i have misguided any of you in the past. my blog from henceforth is going to be a States based blog.

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— HOW I MANIFEST INSTANTLY —

You guyssss!!! This is so easy and so effortless. I've been manifesting like this for three days now and omg EVERYTHING I AFFIRM FOR, MANIFEST SO EFFORTLESSLY. IM SO SHOCKED AND HAPPY. LIKE I KNOW MANIFESTATION WORKS BUT STILL WHEN IT UNFOLDS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, I GET GOOSEBUMPS EVERYTIME AKJDJSKS

So what I do is—

Firstly, i decide what I want and then be like "now I have it" because that's just how manifesation works.

And then right after I affirm (for ex) "I've no classes today, just because I'm the god and it's my reality. Whatever I say, goes. It's done and I'm so happy" I put my all faith into it and after that I completely detach. Then whenever I get a thought related to my manifestation or i start to worry, i be like "i don't need to worry, it's already done because I SAID SO" AND THAT'S IT Y'ALL THAT'S IT!! AND I'VE BEEN GETTING SUCH FAST RESULTS, Y'ALL WOULDN'T EVEN BELIEVE ME SKDJSKDJ

WHAT I MANIFESTED IN THE THREE DAYS—

1. Got selected in a competition (i really wanted to participate in this particular competition but my teachers are just so mean, so I took it upon myself)

2. Changed the weather

3. My favourite food (period cravings sucks)

4. A cute traditional dress (almost all of the shops were out of it and I was so sad because I've always wanted it then i thought like "why be sad when I can just manifest?")

5. Got all the tests cancelled FOR A WHOLE DAY (OMG YOU GUYS WON'T BELIEVE ME!! THERE WERE LIKE 7 TESTS TODAY AND I WASN'T REALLY PREPARED AT ALL SO I JUST MANIFESTED THEM ALL GETTING CANCELLED HEHE)

6. Changed the weather again

THE AFFIRMATIONS I USE—

I've 'xyz' because I'm the god and this is my reality.

I've 'xyz' because I said so.

I've 'xyz' because whatever I say, goes.

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it doesn't matter where you came from, what matters is that you're here now.

one thing that really bugs me about spiritual communities in general (reality shifting, law of assumption, non dualism, etc.) is that a lot of people shame others for not understanding things or believing in things that are limiting when they first start out. i mean, i understand the frustration - anons can ask a thousand questions that could be answered if they read pinned posts, and we all just want everyone to abandon their limiting beliefs and just get it.

but the fact is that we were born in a society that teaches us that we are limited and that some things are impossible, from the time that we are small until we find these teachings, and we are slowly undoing them through exploration and self-inquiry. it's an overwhelming and tricky journey, filled with so many beautiful highs and a lot of devastating lows, and i feel like everyone deserves a whole lot of compassion when searching for answers. i know i needed love and compassion when i first started, because my ego was scared and sad and was searching for answers in order to feel loved and secure. being told i was dumb and having someone be frustrated with me for my questions was the last thing i needed to become self-actualized. i know that everyone is different, but this is just my experience, so i wanted to share it!

my beliefs are constantly evolving into what brings me more peace and understanding. in the beginning, i wouldn't have been able to believe that my assumptions create my reality (law of assumption) if i hadn't been introduced to the idea of reality shifting. i wouldn't have understood the fact that this life is just beautiful dream and that my true Self is the dreamer (non dualism) if i hadn't first been able to separate my "imagination" from my "real life" (3D and 4D from law of assumption). these were all stepping stones in my understanding of the greater ideas that i needed to get to, and i feel no shame in formerly having beliefs or practices that i don't identify with anymore. i don't believe that you should have shame, either, regardless of where you are at in your journey of self-discovery and creative power.

i get so sad when i see bloggers shaming others for not understanding things when all of this is so fucking difficult to grasp when you are first starting out from our societally conditioned minds. i mean, we come from societies that have beliefs as foolish as skin colour making you inferior, or that gender is binary and you can't express yourself the way you feel inside. with beliefs such as these, of course the beliefs of anything being possible and the fictional being real are going to sound impossible and profoundly false. in my personal opinion, the tough love approach has never helped me - compassion and patience has. i feel like so many people believe and understand that we are all one and have a great understanding of the truth of things, and yet go around and are rude to those seeking answers. it just feels so pathetic to me to see bullying of those seeking answers when they're literally just an extension of you? they are showing up with silly answers because you expect them to have silly answers. and i realize that even this is hypocritical of me to say, because i could just choose to see a spiritual community full of love and compassion instead of what i'm seeing, but this is just on my mind and i wanted to share it in case anyone needed to read it.

i feel like if you are wanting to be a teacher of others, you have to take on the responsibility that being a teacher holds, which includes patience, patience, and more patience. that's just my own perspective at least, and everyone is welcome to have their own. i am also profoundly sensitive and feel wilty when others are cruel to me, so maybe i'm just trying to speak out to those who feel similarly, because this is a post i wish i could have read when i first started my journey. ultimately, everyone can do, be, and say whatever they like - it's their own damn blog after all! but i just wanted to be a voice of compassion in case anyone is needing that, whether they are practicing law of assumption, learning about non dualism, or dipping their toes into reality shifting. it all comes down to the same profound teachings that we, at our core, are limitless.

all of this is to say that i am proud of you. you are doing a good, great, amazing job. you are worthy of love and goodness in your life no matter what others may make you feel. you are worthy of the absolute best, best, best, and nothing less. it is a hard journey at times, but it is a worthwhile journey, and you are brave and creative and beautiful for taking the steps to expand and give yourself the best life. you deserve compassion and love and patience, and i am rooting for you every step of the way. i hope you are rooting for yourself, too.

ultimately, it doesn't matter where you got your beliefs. what matters is: does it feel right to you? does it make you feel connected to your true, unlimited self? does it open up your world and your heart to the endless possibilities available to you? does it give you peace? if so, it doesn't matter what practice or teaching you believe in. you are your greatest teacher. if you truly, truly read and listen to neville goddard and edward art, they are saying the same thing as nisargadatta maharaj, at least from my understanding of their teachings: I Am. You Are. We Are. All is. ultimately, listen to what resonates with you. that's all that really matters, i suppose.

it doesn't matter where you came from, what beliefs you once held, or who you've been in the past. what matters is that you are here, learning and growing, learning how to give yourself the most beautiful experiences that your creative power has to offer. be kind to yourself and remember that we're all just trying to expand and love and open ourselves up.

edit: additionally, if you ever feel belittled by me, i sincerely apologize and would love for you to tell me privately or otherwise! i want everyone to feel safe here, and if i make a mistake or go back on my word, please do hold me accountable so i can grow and be better c: 💗

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Hey over here! Hi, so I watched this Bill Nye video the other day and he said that if astrology was correct then the sun will rise in our zodiac sign on our birthday. He said that we are basing our sun signs on some ancient Aztec belief and that time has changed. If we watch the sun rise on our birthday today it would show up in the next zodiac sign. It really got me questioning my zodiac sign and astrology in general. Should we modernize the birth charts? Was this all wrong or is this all fake?

I’m coming off vacay to answer this question because this topic (not you just this specific topic frequently brought by scientists in an attempt to discredit astrology) irks me so much. I love Bill Nye and I love science. But astrology is not science. Astrology is an occult art. You can believe in it or not believe it. That’s your choice. But trying to disprove it based on scientific rules is pointless because astrology is actually beyond that. It’s ancient, esoteric, and probably infinite. First of all, scientists have been doing this a long time. Since astronomy split from astrology scientists have been making this argument. But it is nothing new, it is not a new discovery. Every time there is a surge in popularity of astrology a scientist is around to say “hey dumb astrology fans there are actually 13 signs and you’re not really the sign you think you are. So that means astrology is fake”

Astrologers are completely aware of this and it doesn’t matter because that’s not what astrology is. PTOLEMY KNEW ABOUT THIS. Also the Aztecs had a completely different astrology than the western zodiac. (I actually really love Aztec astrology and was considering integrating it into this blog when I really have the time.) They have their own zodiac with a completely separate lineage though the ancient origins are most likely connected to modern astrology but that is a different story. Sidereal astrology is in line with the modern placement of the fixed constellations (though still only uses 12 signs and does not include Ophiuchus). Most people will have a different sign in Vedic astrology due to the issue of the fixed constellations. A Modern western school of astrology “13 signs Astrology” also attempts to rectify this perceived mistake of astrology. But Astrologers have ALWAYS KNOWN ABOUT THIS.

Astrological interpretations are not actually based on the constellations whose placements are in fact perpetually and slowly shifting due to the earth’s “wobble” on its axis. Astrological interpretations are based on the ecliptic which is a permanent and basically an imaginary unchanging line encircling the earth. Arguably at the time of the crystallization of our modern astrology the constellations did occupy those places in the ecliptic. But they weren’t always there and didn’t stay there. Astrology existed before that and will continue long after but the esoteric truths will continue to exists.

This is why I feel it is important to take Astrological studies very seriously. I encourage anyone genuinely interested to really study some books go to some workshops. You don’t have to believe in it! If it doesn’t work for you don’t force it. It might not be for you and that is okay. I personally feel that astrology is more than just a way to indulge in narcissism and relationship compatibility. It is an ancient tool to understand the very nature of reality and the workings of the universe. But it exists in the realm of religion, philosophy, and magic and shouldn’t be validated or invalidated by the rules of modern science. They are separate things.

http://www.astro.com/astrology/in_ophiuchus_e.htm

http://astrology.about.com/od/foundations/a/ecliptic.htm

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