I think certain nonverbal and even nonhuman-adjacent shows of affection are just. so much better at conveying what feelings are trying to be gotten across than words do.
Words can be ambiguous in heat of emotion. If I snarl at someone, they get it and back off.
Nothing quite shows affection like pressing up to someone and letting out a hearty purr, or giving them a good nose-nuzzle. Biting them gently as a show that your fangs might be sharp, but you’d never hurt them.
And, of course.. yelping or yowling when someone steps on your paw. Always does the trick.
I find it funny that some anti-therians say stuff like “well, you can’t be an animal, because if I put you out in the woods right now you wouldn’t be able to survive!!” Like… yeah. If you take a fox and force it to live in a house with humans for its whole life, it won’t be able to survive in the wild. That doesn’t make it not a fox???
Never ever mistake me. I am not just in favor of the uwu romantic version Being An Animal. It's not all moodboards and waxing poetic about tails/wings/etc and running in the forest wild and free. All of that stuff is GOOD and FINE and a nice outlet for all flavors of nonhumans, please do not stop engaging with that sort of thing. I'm talking about me also wanting to embrace the gross and so-called ugly and less fortunate aspects of animality. like when you're wrestling a large prey animals into submission so you can eat that day but it fuckin Gets You with a claw/antler/horn/hoof/beak/etc and suddenly you're hurt real bad. Lost an eye, a toe, half your tail. Got a permanent limp from being stomped so hard that will make hunting difficult so you may not live your full natural lifespan. dying of severe cold or heat and then your body decomposing slowly, being food for other things. scent marking with piss, shit, musk. being young and inexperienced so you go without food for days cuz you can't hunt for shit.
there is no part of animality that is something I don't desire. I want it all, because all of me is animal. does it suck to downgrade from human sized complex brain to smaller wolverine brain? No not really! I am not mourning the loss of things I never asked for in the first place. sure I could say that woo, less complex brain means less capacity for things to go wrong, but that is a very human lens to look through. does a wolverine know it's "lucky" that it cannot have certain human mental illnesses because its brain may not be that complex? no, and that's why I'm not worried. I could turn into one fully physically overnight and then die stupidly 2 years later and that would still be ideal. sure I also may romanticize some things in ways that are not really Natural for my species, like how I think places that feel like Home just seem so beautiful to me, but no damn animal is perfect. I am allowed a couple flaws. several, in fact, lmao.
I Crave It All
I think I'm the freaking sun (or something cosmic)
"Guyysss... therians don't ACTUALLY think we're animals haha..." SHUT THE FUCK UP SHUT THE FUCK UP SHUT THE FUCK UP
At this point I prefer the company of those who are straight up physically nonhuman and are PROUD AND OPEN ABOUT THAT FACT, instead of YOU fuckers who tip-toe around your identity to make OTHER PEOPLE more comfortable.
GET MAD. BE ANIMALISTIC. WEAR A COLLAR. BARK AT PEOPLE WHO PISS YOU OFF. WEAR GEAR. DON'T WEAR GEAR. FIND YOUR FELLOW CREATURES. LEARN ABOUT THE START OF OUR COMMUNITY.
BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY SCARY AND INTIMIDATING TO NORMIES.
hot take that shouldn’t be hot:
asexual/aromantic/aspec people who are also cis and straight should be welcomed and accepted in the queer community
hi!! so I'm gonna explain my own experience it could be different for others
basically, my body even tho it does not look like the stereotypical animal of what I am, is that animal. so my body (even if it doesn't "look" how it's supposed to) is that animal. I'm nonhuman and that makes every other part of me nonhuman, and that means biologically too!! my blood and bones and DNA are that of a ringtail (my species). some parts of me are more ringtail showing imo too. like my eyes, teeth, nails, proportions. basically my DNA and biological species isn't human either, it's a ringtail. because my body is physically my species that includes the inner workings of it too !! I hope this helps
@sleepy-sunny-puppy
OH MY GOD. PHYSICAL THERIANS ARE VALID. this shouldn't be discourse. if you are a physical anything, you are valid. I'm so sick and tired of the mainstream resources available saying it's all nonphysical or it's only okay if you "recognize your human body"
my body has never fucking been human and it never ever will be. for some, they do have a human body or partially do!!! and many of us don't as well!!!!
I am physically and biologically a ringtail and have never ever been human in literally any way. sure my sapience is higher but does that mean anything? NO I'm so frustrated and upset
thank you for reading my rant
We've been seeing a lot of beings in the community being ridiculous about physical and biological nonhumanity so here's this for yall.
(Everything stated here is based off of what we've seen/read and experienced ourself. We're not trying to "indoctrinate" anybody.)
-Physical nonhumans who are physically nonhuman metaphorically (this is my body, I am this, therefore my body is this) are valid.
-Physical nonhumans who are physically nonhuman literally are valid.
-Physical nonhumans who are physically *and* biologically nonhuman are valid.
-Physical nonhumans who experience delusions regarding their nonhumanity are valid.
-Physical nonhumans who are literally physically and/or biologically nonhuman who don't believe themselves to be delusional are valid. (me btw)
-Physical nonhumans who are literally physically and/or biologically nonhuman who don't believe themselves to be delusional even after being diagnosed are valid.
-Physical nonhumans who experience delusions regarding their nonhumanity AND who don't want/have the energy (or for whatever reason) to double bookkeep when talking about those experiences are valid.
-And any other physical and/or biological nonhuman experiences I missed (sorry /gen) YOU ARE VALID.
-Physical and biological nonhumanity in any way or form is valid.
Be the creature you want to be
Be the nonhuman you want to be
Be the alterhuman you want to be
Be otherkin
Be therian
Polykin
Polytherian
Fictionkin
Plantkin
Voidkin
Conceptkin
Be uncommon
Be common
Be you. <3
I think we need to normalize using "people" as a species neutral word.
Like idk in my brain the word people just doesn't automatically = human. To me it's just a way to signify intelligence and individuality, and to emphasize the need for respect towards another creature, not specific to any one species.
Dogs can be people, mice can be people, dragons can be people, humans can be people, birds can be people, elves can be people, robots can be people, and so on.
It's also (in my opinion) just much easier than always saying "beings" or "individuals" when referring to varying assortments of creatures.
sometimes just existing as an animal is enough. I don't have to explain myself, or do super fancy things, or buy super expensive gear, just being an animal is enough.