CW: MENTION OF COMSHIPPING

Okay but which one of them is you tho

GUESS WHO'S BACK AFTER BEING TERMINATED FOR 9 MONTHS OMG IM SO GLAD TO SEE YOU ALL AGAIN

Support saw my application just a few days ago while my account was terminated/banned since autumn and I could do literally nothing IM FINALLY FREEEEEEEEE and I hope I'll come back with some interesting content later, but now I'll just repost things I posted before to get used to Tumblr again yeeee omg it's time to go back to comment others 24/7

Reblogging again because I'd like more people to see this

One of my friends who is an anti and a comshipper in denial (human x non-human, dubcon/noncon, angst enjoyer) told me recently that liking non-con and abuse in fiction is okay but enjoying kodocon and incest in the same fiction is not

And I was wondering... Why are these two things (which are BOTH morally wrong irl and are BOTH illegal or harmful irl, which BOTH can be triggering to someone and BOTH can be pretty much enjoyable to someone in fiction) treated differently? Why are those aspects of dark fiction treated so... Well... Twofold?

Abuse, guro, eroguro, murders (and any brutal crimes in general), kodocon, pedo/zoo/necrophilia, non/dubcon, severe mental illnesses etc description falls under darkfic definition, as far as I can tell, and antis tend to enjoy some parts of it (the greatest example of it is YanSim, Danganronpa and some psychological horrors enjoyers) with no shame, but at the same time they shame comship/kodocon/noncon enjoyers for the same thing. Isn't that weird?

My theory is, they treat these things differently because these things mostly present romantic or sexual stuff and so are pretty easy to be romanticized and sexualized. But:

Not every dark romantic or sexual fiction is meant to be seen as romantic/sexual in general and is meant to be romanticized or sexualized. From my experience, I would say it works vice versa. Romantic or sexual fiction can be used as a vent, as a representation of sexual traumatic experience, as an intentionally disturbing and triggering media (for horrors and thrillers), as an appeal to reflection of the essence of romantic/sexual relationships and behaviors between humans etc

Everything, in fact, can be romanticized or sexualized, no matter of its content. People romantize and sexualize mental illnesses, neurodiversions, murders, self-harm, suicide, cannibalism etc — everything that is NOT sexual or romantic in the first place. That's why, for example, different fetishes and eroguro exist

Romanticizing and sexualizing something in fiction and in real life is really different. Yes, in some cases fiction CAN affect reality and vice versa (for example how drawn porn can make you have certain fetishes, even though the porn you consumed were not, in fact, real), but it's NOT as common as antis and pro-cencorship people think. The only reasons (from what I know) people think fiction reflects real life unspoken rules are that they are either not mature enough to separate fiction from reality or their perception of reality is way too disrupted. So, if you're not a teenager/adult or if you know fiction can affect the way you treat real people, do not consume the fiction that you think can alter your brain into thinking dark fiction presents what's right and what's wrong, what you can do and can't do. And if you're a parent, please, watch your children and control the stuff they consume till they're mature enough. That's it

Also I would like to mention that it's OKAY to dislike, hate or despise dark fiction, or even people that consume this kind of stuff, as long as you don't assault, insult, or try to make real human beings feel bad about themselves in any way

That's all I wanted to say for today. Enjoy whatever you like and be happy. Have a good day!! <3

My god YES

For me it's not "fiction affects reality" or "fiction doesn't affect reality", but "fiction CAN affect reality"

And I personally think the media itself may affect it in certain cases, but what matters not less is the creator's intentions behind creations, target audience and existence or absence of a message for viewers in the media. It's not about the media itself, it's about people's perceptions and actions, all intertwined. People are the main problem in terms of awful actions in the first place, not fiction

the statement “fiction doesn’t affect reality” is wrong yes, but I feel there is some legitimacy to it.

it’s much less “fiction doesn’t affect reality” and more “fiction can affect reality but it should not hold so much power over it that something simply existing in a fictional work will drastically affect the way people interact with reality and other people.”

CW COMSHIP

The literal reason I started shipping Lisa with Fischl is these keychains /srs

They are so silly I love them

I hope it's ok that I put cw on comshipping because I feel kinda off when I don't (in case if someone outside procom community comes across my posts)

Ik other people's triggers are not my responsibility but it's not their fault if they accidentally see my posts and get triggered by it as well, so I want to prevent unnecessary triggers and stuff

Hey there guys, it's been a while since I've posted there!! Sorry for being dead for months </3

Some reasons why I was inactive here:

I was busy with my job as a souvenir artist, and I really loved my job!! The coworkers were really sweet and supportive and I always wanted to make money by being an artist/painter. But the salary was wayyyy too little (literally 30$ per MONTH), so I quit it. It was fun while it lasted though!

I became more interested in other social media and apps (like TikTok, Pinterest, Taobao/Xianyu, Telegram, YouTube etc) than in Tumblr. I use Tumblr for proship content only (because let's be honest, if some content maker will see a 🌈🍖 combo, they will instantly block me, so it's not really safe for me to interact with people I like here), so for fandoms and jsf stuff I use other social media, where nobody knows I'm a proship — that's just how people treat proships nowadays unfortunately

I was more focused on interacting with friends and acquaintances and on visiting some real live events rather than being on the internet all days long

Severe depression makes itself felt, and I ran out of ideas and motivation for blogging and art, not only in Tumblr but also in general. It's really tough for me, and I feel really bad for abandoning my Tumblr, but it's how your mental health affects almost every aspect of your life. But I hope I'll get better some day!!

And the main reason is... I got really tired of this ship discourse. Too many people, especially antis, fight each other, there is too much information, discourses and controversies, it's literally draining me as a person. I'm not planning on quitting proship community though, and even if I'm inactive in it, just know that I am still a proship and I stand by its ideas. It's just that I'm so tired of seeing people dehumanize, insult, threaten and groundlessly accuse proshippers in crimes like grooming and CSAing because of their fiction preferences so openly and unconscionably... I don't know. It's so unfair. I just hope one day people like this will realize that they do really wrong, and it will change for better

I'm not saying I'm completely abandoning this page though! I don't know what to do with it now, it's true, but maybe one day I'll be able to post here more often and frequently, so if you're interested, stay tuned! That's it for now I think. Remember, you deserve to be treated as a decent human being as long as you don't harm anyone on purpose, and it's not harmful to think every ship has its right to exist <3 I love you guys, you are the best

-This was said for like 1000 times and I'll say it for the 1001th time again-

imagine using profic site co-founded by wincest shipper & writer and then go nuts over its own target audience for using it to the point you start death threatening and suibaiting people