O boy..... 😨😨😨😨😨
(photo via kiralkira)
Je me rends chez Tecnic pour mon cours de conduite... C'était fermé jusqu'au 1 janvier... Croyez le ou non j'ai vue 2014-12-30 pendent 1 mois, pis quand je suis revenu à la maison, je suis aller dans ma chambre, et j'ai vue 2015-01-30. Sois que mon cerveau est focké, sois que j'ai mal vue..... Mais je suis sûre que mon cerveau focke car j'ai vraiment, MAIS VRAIMENT, vue 2014-12-30😨😨😨😨
Hier ont parlais des masques et ont nous a donné un travail là dessus..... J'ai vraiment rien a faire qu'an j'y pense, lol 😂😂 ( ont parlaient de toute façon)
J'araite vraiment pas de le dessiner lui, LOL XD (Faut croire que je m'en nui vraiment en court de maths o.O)
WoW....😲
I was thinking this morning about Ben Solo/Kylo Ren and how his story talks about children abuse. It may be said in some meta, but I’d like to talk about my point of view.
I was abused when I was a child, and somethings happened after that fact:
- my behavior changed to something out of control; - my parents just didn’t know what to do with me once they had no idea about what happened; - I hated my parents because I wish they had protected me; - when my mom discovered, years later, what happened, she tried to blame me, and it was like death for me; - on a second moment, when she saw that I was falling apart, she gave me some support, but asked me to act like nothing had happened, and it made me hate her even more; - every time people tell me they have problems with their parents, I feel like, in some way, we are connected by our pain.
Now, back to Ben Solo’s story:
- He was abused by Snoke since a young age (maybe not in a sexual way, but you got my point); - He starts to grow with the dark side (what I see as him losing control) - His parents send him to Luke (probably because they have no idea what to do with him); - The dark side is stronger in him now (his hate grows); - Luke sees the dark side in his nephew, and instead of help him, he tries to execute him (like in a judgment, where Ben was considered guilty); - Now that he’s almost completely in the dark side (falling apart), his father come from nowhere and asks him to come back home, like if nothing had happened. (familiar?) - When he reads Rey’s mind, and sees her past, that is an instant connection (TFA), and in a certain way, he feels like she is the only one that understand him besides all the mess the he becomes (TLJ)…
I think that’s why we wanna #savebensolo and empathize with him. Not because we are stupid girls in love with an abusive character, but because seeing his pain (every woman has a story to tell, unfortunately) makes us realise that his redemption is also our redemption… He’s human, an he’s trying! And so are we!
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