They May Not Have Loved You, But They Did Change You. They Taught You. They Grew You.

Today, a colleague complemented me on a feature for which I was severely bullied in middle school. It was the most surreal thing. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self about it, it would probably blow her mind.

W.B. Yeats, from “Before the World Was Made”

fellas is it gay to be gay

wowie. research is backing something we already knew. the silent treatment/social exclusion/ostracism causes your brain to feel pain similar to that of a physical cause. fuck the silent treatment and fuck everyone who uses it to emotionally manipulate someone.

If you play Hunter X Hunter episode 85 at exactly 11:39:18 Killua will say “Gon….you are light” exactly at midnight, make sure you start your year off right guys

ADHD brain be like “Oh I have a ton of free time, but none of the literally dozens of things I could do to fill that time seem Gratifying Enough to commit mental energy to, so I’m just gonna sit here dissociating for five hours while also singing Queen songs in my head probably.”

i, personally , don’t like this but what can i do

You ever catch yourself thinking "please don't ask what's wrong for the luvva god just ignore me if i seem upset" and it's the hugest relief when ppl don't give a shit abt you

? like that's probably a sign of some unhealthy shit but here we are idk

adults who have a plan for their future children shouldn’t be allowed to have kids because they fucking lose it when their kids don’t fulfill the pretty little imagined idea their twisted brain came up with.

At any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety.

(via asianstudent)