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Storybook & Fairytale homes & Airbnbs. (these are some of my favorites).

Isabella's Little Pink House, Orlando, USA / Casa dos Duendes in Campos do Jordão, São Paulo State, Brazil / Gingerbread Mansion, Ferndale, California / Forest House, Efteling, The Netherlands / The Boot At The Jester House Cafe, Tasman, New Zealand / Hobbit Home, Dutchess County, Pawling / Spadena House, Beverly Hills, California / Akebono kodomo-no-mori park, Japan (this woodland home was inspired by the iconic Finnish Moomins series by Tove Jansson) / Hamlet of Marie Antoinette, Versailles, France / Witch House in Białka Tatrzańska, the Tatra Mountains, Poland

Hello. My name is Nica. I want to stay anon until I get comfortable and I‘m not good with new people. But my question is, how do you advise someone to deal with their depression? Do you know any remedies that help with chronic sadness? Or panic attacks? My life isn‘t where I want it to be atm, dealing with a lot of stuff and I don‘t have any friends to talk to or get help from. Sorry if I‘m bothering you in the morning I just saw that you‘re leaving tumblr and it triggered an attack and I feel like crying. You were the one blog I liked and how you helped people and now I don‘t have anybody :/

Omg. No, no, no, you're not bothering me at all, & you're not just going to wake up one day & my account is going to be deactivated. I'll tell you all when I'm leaving & chances are I still won't deactivate, just cause. I'm so, so sorry, I didn't mean to trigger you. It was just an idea I had. I used to have really bad panic attacks to a point were my muscles would hurt for days, I had to be taken in an ambulance & put on meds cause I had them daily for like a month. I wouldn't eat, I was constantly snapping on people & irritated. I turned into someone who isn't me. My family noticed the change & pointed it out & I snapped on them for that. It was that bad. And this was recent, this wasn't like 5 years ago, all this happened LAST year. So I know from experience how difficult & painful what you're going through right now can be.

Even though I still have anxiety sometimes, I learned how to stop the attacks from happening, I don't have them anymore. But before then my doctor wanted to put me in a psych ward, (yeah, he literally recommended that) & I took Xanax (& Zoloft for two days) for a while, then it stopped helping, so he wanted to increase my dose. And I didn't want to become an addict or dependent on meds (I personally don't believe in taking meds for mental illnesses), so one day I just decided "fuck it, I'm not taking anything anymore" & I realized in that moment that the decision I made scared me a fucking lot cause I wasn't going to have anything to run to, but ultimately it was going to help me. I had to hurt & pray A LOT before I got better. While I was going through it I felt so hopeless & lost & I started questioning my faith in God cause I didn't feel like anything was changing, I felt worse tbh. I remember one night I just completely gave up & I drove to my mom's house in the middle of the night cause I didn't know what else to do. We went for a walk & talked until the sun came up. I never call my parents when I'm going through something terrible, I always try to resolve my problems on my own, so if I call them it's serious. But with time I got better. And I'm happier. So I'm living proof that you CAN overcome your biggest demons. My advice to you would be to start slow, you won't get better overnight. It's going to take time & it's going to hurt - I won't lie to you, but you WILL prevail in the end. But for now, distract yourself, get on your phone & find a funny video. Give yourself time to breathe & realize you're safe. That feeling will pass & you'll be okay again. & if you ever need someone to talk to to help you calm down, come hop in my dm's & we can hang out until you feel better. You don't have to be alone. & you definitely don't have to suffer alone. I often get people who ask me for advice in handling depression, that's partially the reason I haven't left Tumblr. I wouldn't want to abandon anybody. I'm so sorry you're going through this, honey. I hope things get better for you. Literally if you need me to just stay here for you just to help you, I will. & if you need any more resources in dealing with anxiety/depression, dm me. I'm so sorry for triggering you. I'll choose my words more carefully next time. Bless your heart, I'll pray for you.

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Organizations:

National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH); 866-615-6464

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI); 800-950-NAMI (800-950-6264)

Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA); 240-485-1001

American Psychiatric Association; 800-357-7924

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Division of Mental Health (CDC); 800-CDC-INFO (800-232-4636)

American Psychological Association; 800-374-2721

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Coping, Advocacy, and Support:

Anxiety and Depression Association of America: Support Groups

The Anxiety Network: Help and Support

Anxiety Central: Forums

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Medications for Anxiety Disorders (talk to your doctor first):

Cymbalta (duloxetine)

Celexa (citalopram)

Zoloft (sertraline)

Anafranil (clomipramine)

Prozac (fluoxetine)

Paxil (paroxetine)

Xanax (alprazolam)

Klonopin (clonazepam)

BuSpar (buspirone)

Valium (diazepam)

Ativan (lorazepam)

Lexapro (escitalopram)

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Links:

https://www.counseling.org/knowledge-center/mental-health-resources/anxiety

https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety/generalized-anxiety-disorder-gad/resources

https://blog.thetransitionhouse.org/anxiety-help-and-resources-1

https://www.rtor.org/anxiety/

https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Mental-Health-Conditions/Anxiety-Disorders

I H o p e Y o u ' r e O k a y

So since you don't follow or like people I guess I can't count on you following me back 😭

No, sorry. I'm not here for friends. No offense.

“Be thankful for every new challenge. Each will give you more strength, wisdom and character.”

— Kristen Butler

@sansgriff

K, I'm getting bored with tumblr, & I kind of want to move over to Discord? All of the chaos & negativity I see between folks on tumblr (not to mention porn/bots) makes it unenjoyable. I'm thinking about just making a Discord group chat (18+) for people who just want to talk, vibe & get to know each other on a real basis & ditch tumblr. Also, just cause I can't be on here like that all day & I'm in the process of reorganizing my life, so I'll probably eventually leave soon anyway. (Mentally, I'm already gone from here).

Dm me or reblog if interested. Idc. Night. 🌆🌙

@winslowat3am Hi! Hello! :3 How are you? I hope well! So...i‘m going around making early Halloween art for my favorite tumblr bloggers. I made a little Tim Burton-esque art piece for you! ^-^ A few things:

1 - I used your blog‘s tagline for the artwork‘s tagline ((it‘s always 3AM somewhere, darling)) so that‘s what the black font above your head says in case it‘s hard to see

2 - It is called the midnight game bc I remember you said your house was haunted in 2016 after you played the midnight game ((that‘s where the cute ghosties came from and the light behind you is the portal they flew out of)) and I thought it would be a cool title especially since in the midnight game you‘re supposed to play until from 12am-3am

3 - I tried to do your current hairstyle but I‘m not good at bobs for some reason lol. I was going to give you black eyes like you were possessed by the ghosts too but I was like nah bc I didn‘t wanna be disrespectful >-< And I had to restart the piece twice bc your face is hard to draw as it‘s very specific. I fxcked up your cheekbones and the first face I drew didn‘t look anything like you #cheekbonesmatter

4 - I wanted to give this a kind of tim burton/harry potter/orphan feel bc those are 3 of my favorite things and it is for Halloween! :3

5 - This took me 2 days and I almost forgot to give it to you bc my autism and adhd makes my attention span short af but you I hope you like it lmfao :3

So that is it! \^-^/

Happy early Halloween! 😊🍂

🍄🍂 Hey! Happy fall! 🍂🍄

I have a youtube request: the lavender scented candles you did in the summer, do you think you could do some fall candles from scratch too? I like how you infuse the real ingredients like with the lavender candle, the real lavender flowers in the candle. Can you do an apple scented candle with some of the apples from your garden? And some fall cooking would be appreciated! 😊😊 I need new recipes to impress my family for TG, lmao!! 🦃🦃

✨🎃 Happy Fall, Rose! 🎃✨

Just put up a recipe video yesterday making a mocha frappe, apple cider donuts & buffalo ranch chicken & cheese nachos. As fall progresses I will be making more fall themed cooking/baking, foraging, shopping & home decor vids. I'll be making pumpkin spice bread & beef stew in the next one. & I'll do your candle request soon! I'll probably make it an apple cinnamon candle. ☺️✨🍁

If anybody can tell me where to buy this that would be great lol

☆ put this star into the inbox of your favorite blogs. it’s time to spread positivity!! ☆ ❤️‍🩹

For me? Aww, you shouldn't have! Thank you, sweetheart.🧡🖤