Happiness Comes From Inside You,no One In This World Can Make You Happy ,we All Are Dependent On Someone

8 Uncomfortable Truths that We All Need to Accept

Happiness is where you are now, or nowhere at all.

It’s not a new relationship, it’s not a new job. It’s not a completed goal, and it’s not a new car.

Until you give up on the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.

2. Quitting is for winners.

Contrary to popular opinion, quitting is for winners. Knowing when to quit, change direction, leave a toxic situation, demand more from life, give up on something that isn’t working and move on, is a very important skill that people who win at life all seem to have.

But don’t quit because it’s hard.

Quit because it sucks.

3. If they really wanted to, they would.

If you apply pressure, they’ll do what you want them to.

If you take the pressure off, you’ll see what they’d rather do.

Never waste your life fighting what someone would rather do.

Let them go. Move on. Do better.

4. Taking no risk is the biggest risk.

You have to risk failure to succeed.

You have to risk rejection to be accepted.

You have to risk heartbreak to love.

If you’re always avoiding risk, you’re risking missing out on life.

5. Call yourself out.

The most common reason why people keep making the same mistakes is because their insecure ego prevents them from taking responsibility for their ‍

own bullshit, their own toxic traits and their own mistakes.

6. Closure is your choice.

Closure isn’t an apology, or justice, or answers.

That’s insecurity.

If the situation made you feel awful, seeking closure by reopening it is insanity.

Closure isn’t something htye can give you.

Closure is moving on. Closure is your choice.

‍7. If you’re happy alone, you’ll be happier together.

There is no type of affection that can fill the void of a person who doesn’t love themselves already.

There is no independence  in dependency.

There is no personal security in attaching yourself to a secure person.

Until you have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won’t make healthy decisions about someone else

8. It’s not your job to fix damaged people.

Your responsibility to hep someone will never outweigh their responsibility to help themselves.

But, it’s worth asking yourself why you resonated so strongly with someone that so desperately needed “fixing” in the first place.

Often, our own toxic romantic and non-romantic attachments tell a story about an issue we have within ourselves.

Love is like an art. It's fascinating. It's imaginative. It's colourful and just like art, It requires patience and time and struggle.

Just like how an artist shows his sensitivities, his beliefs and himself through his masterpiece and just like how he let people behold who he really is just like that when people are in love they allow themselves to be seen. They allow the other person to recognize who they really are and like any art, it consumes them.

You'll feel so much passion just like how an artist feels, your hands will get dirty when you'll put those hands into the mud to create something beautiful. It comes with great suffering and pain. Sometimes you won't be appeased with it, you'll feel like maybe these colors aren't good enough or is this all even worth it?

Just like art, not everyone is capable of love because loving someone isn't easy.

“one day you’ll realise you should have told her the truth. because you could have escaped and lived a long happy life together. yet you’re stuck in war you can’t win and the terrifying truth is you don’t know if you’ll ever see her again. and that breaks your heart. and the memories of her are all you have left but you broke her heart and you know she hates you for lying, for leaving, for loving her because she’s a solider made for war and you’re a betrayer. you’re meant to be enemies, it could never have worked. loving her was a death sentence, but it was one you would choose every time because life wouldn’t have been worth living without her .”

—  she was your death sentence but loving her made you want to live.//t.c

“I understood myself only after I destroyed myself. And only in the process of fixing myself did I know who I really was.”

— Unknown

I’m honestly thinking about you right now. Yes, you. I hope that you’re doing alright, that you’re enjoying those simple gifts present in your life, and that you realize how magnificent you truly are and will always be. Please, please take care of yourself today, friend. -nicole addison

You said you never wanted to hurt me, but you hurt me the most

Who will replace me in the void you left?

Who will give me solace from the chaos you set?

Who will tell me that I don’t need to wait?

Who will set the stage for the world to be perfect?

We all lie and carry a burden on our heads,

Pretending everything is fine—

It’s human tendency to impress.

Sometimes we think that our life has been messed up, screwed up, nothing has been left in life. we all go from these kind's of thought in our daily life, believe me, it's normal, it's completely normal you can't be positive every time in life. In the race of perfection and imperfection, whatever you do you will always be going to feel incomplete and imperfect about yourself, yes that's the harsh reality of this world we have got everything and we crave for everything "

“And even if we never talk again, please remember that I’m forever changed by who you are and what you meant to me.”

— Chasing Amy