'non binary' people are usually just gnc, or a mix of female and male stereotypes. you think you arent a female or male because you dont like conforming to the stereotypes of your (actual) gender, so yeah, you base your gender on stereotypes.
gender stereotypes contribute nothing to your gender. you cant become a womyn or a man because those things ultimately mean nothing but your sex once you remove what society expects from the labels
^ the assumption by an anti-trans buttface that all identities "are based solely on gender stereotypes"
You're probably assuming I'm binary trans. Like, I went from one gender to the other. Classic radfem thinking.
That's much like saying that socialism is based on capitalism.
There isn't any way we can start socialism without the influence of capitalism when we exist in capitalism. There isn't any way that one can exist than with the influence of the existent reality.
However, based solely? That's just stupid.
Gender is all around us. I can't exist and presume that I have not been influenced by gender. However, by no means is the gender norm definitive of my or others' identity (unless they choose it so).
Binary trans is one way to exist, and non binary is the opposite. to be "based soley on gender stereotypes" would be to assume that all binary trans people are acting like the gender because the stereotype says so, but that's often not the case. Binary trans people are often using gender norms as guidelines because passing and fitting in is part of the desire of being trans - mostly for other people to respect and treat them with dignity, not because they are basing themselves off stereotypes.
You're very young. I hope you protect yourself and stay sane. Godspeed lass
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seeing people make fun of victoriasway on tiktok is so upsetting. (for context she is a solo traveller and gas some tips posted to orotect yourself while staying in hotels). female solo travellers are VERY vulnerable to men attacking them, even in safe countries, and these men dont even understand what happens to kidnapped women. there is no possible way to be TOO precautionary as a female solo traveller and men will never understand how vulnerable women are in these situations.
PEOPLE’S MARCH???? ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?? THIS IS WHY THE LEFT STAYS LOSING BYE
A woman on tiktok makes a video about how b*tch is a slur:
the comments:
Putting "white women" before a misogynistic statement does not make that statement any less misogynistic btw
girl if you have to go to a subreddit for advice about your boyfriend he is not the one
was literally JUST thinking about this!
I've noticed the past year or so a lot of people seem to have magically forgotten how to spell and pronounce the singular "woman" vs. the plural "women." Many now both write and pronounce the plural form the singular way.
Example: "I saw many woman today at the supermarket."
Anyone else noticing this trend, and, if so, any explanation?
It seems vaguely disrespectful and a bit sinister. I can't really put my finger on why, but perhaps because it seems sudden and intentional. I've never seen "man" and "men" get mixed up.
Also, I'm not talking about spelling errors, typos, or how people whose first language is not English use these words.
full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.
call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.
a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.
a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.
if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.
so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.
men who dont think misogyny is a big problem and a valid form of oppression are actually just stupid.
womyn were the first slaves. up until VERY recently history wise, womyn were just property! men that think feminists are insane have probably never picked up a history book in their life.. or think that womyn SHOULD be property.
"you need to cite your sources!!" source: every second of my entire life which I have lived as a female human being