I Think Its Because Femininity Is Seen As An EXTRA Effort On Men But A Requirement For Womyn.

full offense but men earned their so-called loneliness epidemic.

call me a misandrist. i don't care. i used to give the libfem ''patriarchy hurts men too'' spiel and how that somehow excuses them for their social ineptitude. but i'm done. men absolutely brought this onto themselves. every conversation about it is just men soiling their pants over the unfairness over it all and not-so subtly implying that it's yet another issue for women to fix. because hell forbid men get a grip on the concept of self-critique and personal growth without women's emotional labour to guide them.

a factor in men's loneliness is their refusal to actually form meaningful connections with anyone, including each other. wail ''nobody cares about men'' until you're blue in the face, but truthfully, men don't even care about men.

a man will dismiss women's friendships with each other as petty, fake and silly but in the same breath he'll admit that he doesn't even know his bros. not their favourite colours, political views or worst fears. not even their surnames or birthdays. men even seem to take pride in this, like it's some quirky and hilarious male trait that women couldn't possibly understand.

if there's no meaningful discussion, no confiding and comforting and if you don't even know each other, you don't have a friendship, you have an acquaintance. and a circle of acquaintances around you is never going to fill your emotional cup.

so men, if you're lonely, make friends with each other. compliment each other. or don't, remain lonely for all i care. just leave women out of the mess you created and refuse to clean up.

as a woman, my agoraphobia and fear of being alone at night/in public is 100% related to my gender. as women, we are vulnerable to men, even in safe countries and areas. dangerous men dont look for other men, they look for women.

Is it acceptable for males to call women bitches?

Absolutely not.

It's a gendered slur that's been used to demean women for centuries. No male should ever use the word bitch, even as a joke. Period.

you understand that right wing women is an example of radical feminists criticizing conservatives, right? that book isn't pro-right wing and andrea dworkin was a radical feminist

I have seen tras criticize conservatives but I've never seen a terf do the same.

Please criticize the conservatives you claim to hate🙏🙏🙏🙏

Right wing women? By Andrea dworkin? Hello? Terfs please fight fascists instead of less than 1% of the population

im not pro-cop but i think the fact that even cop supporters stereotype female cops as aggressive is stupid. of course the few womyn in such a traditionally and stereotypically male dominated workfield would have to be aggressive, no one takes them seriously! they're oversexualized, belittled, and assaulted just for being womyn. anyone would be aggressive, theyre just trying to prove themselves.

there is not a single way for teenage girls to express themselves without being mocked and it’s absolutely infuriating

girl if you have to go to a subreddit for advice about your boyfriend he is not the one

I see another person sent an anon saying similar - I just want to echo the sentiment that it is so hard to cope with the negative aspects of social media even as an adult. And of course it can be even worse at your age. Please know that you always should prioritize your safety, happiness, and wellbeing. If seeing all the misogyny being exposed by fellow radical feminists is overwhelming, if you’re feeling conflicted about your views and it’s causing you distress, if people are being unkind to you, even if you don’t have a reason at all, it is 100% always okay for you to disengage. The weight of the world shouldn’t have to be on your shoulders. Existing as a girl in this world is already revolutionary. I hope you’re doing well - keep shining bright 🌟

thank you <33

remember to comment "not funny" under EVERY male comedian you see 💗

I want women to collectively start gaslighting men, in the way they gaslight us. If you see Reddit posts / IG posts say things like this.

I want women to undermine any men’s issues with saying:

“Ahhh it’s not that deep”

“Chill, you’re being emotional”

“You should focus on being a dad, none of your passions will matter”

“Are you sure your fit to do this job?”

“I mean will your education even matter, your degree doesn’t have much value lol”

“Ahh Men☕️”

“I can’t take you seriously”

“You sure”

“I think you’re being dramatic”

“You’re being irrational”

“Men live life on easy mode” (which they do)

“Are you sure, you didn’t imagine it?”

“Nahh we don’t care about your passions and hobbies, how much money do you make?”

“I want a traditional husband that pays for everything but who also does all the domestic labour”

“Have you gained weight?”

“I’m a visual creature so i need a really handsome man”

“Why am I not allowed to have preferences”

“Are you sure it’s not your fault”

“I need to hear her side of the story”

“#notallwomen”

“I mean if men don’t go to war what’s the point of them? Lol”

“You should give her a chance”

“You’re standards are too high”

“Are you sure you didn’t imagine it?”

“I think you’re being hysterical”

“You’re standards are too high”

“Learn to take a joke”

“why should someone have you if they could have someone younger?”

“Why would she go for you, if she could have someone with more money lol”

“You’re gonna die alone”

Even if a Man is right about ANYTHING still proceed to gaslight him. IDGAF. Lmao. They have been doing this to women for most of history. Gaslight him, make him feel unworthy and shitty. I genuinely don’t give a shit.

Let me know what more I should add to the list, in the comments.