actually such a great point
From @ pinkpillled on tiktok
I didn't know there were more teen radfems like me until I stumbled across your blog lol. That's great <3
HII i honestly think more teen girls agree w radfeminism then we think, they just havent been exposed to the idea
girl don't be sorry for not posting!! not posting on tumblr isn't the end of the world, just do what you gotta do!
ily nymph 😭
im no longer asking, be normal about intersex people and our bodies, we are not your fetish, we are not your sci-fi porn trope, we are living, breathing people who deserve safety and respect.
average radfem post about trans people: the ideology is wrong, it’s bioessentialist, most tims r rapists, etc…
average trans person post about radfems: TERF SHOULD KILL THEMSELVES, IM GOING TO RAPE THEM AND MAKE THEM LIKE MY GIRLCOCK, I HAVE FANTASIES ABOUT RAPING AND KILLING THEM, THEY ARE SO STUPID, THEY ARE SO UGLY AND SUCH BITCHES!!!!
once you start noticing how casually misogyny is incorporated into society theres literally NO going back. look at our insults! theres so many words to degrade womyn just existing the same as men.
bitch, slut, whore, cunt are just used to insult us for being confident/sexually active.
even passive terms like crazy cat lady and calling confident young girls 'bossy' ARE contributing to this!
the first step to unlearning internalized misogyny is learning to stop using terms like these.
Just notice, how every female-exclusive space soon turn the rules to "non-binaries, transgenders, dogs, parrots, everyone is welcome" while male spaces, stay for males only. We women should STOP sacrificing our space, we should stop being afraid of speaking up, we should stop reducing our body, we should stop being our last priority, all for the sake of not hurting men's feelings. This is not inclusion, it's misogyny with a mask, hidden behind the name of representation.
has anyone seen that woman on tiktok who’s mother was in a BDSM dom/sub relationship?
her mother wore an “eternity collar” around the children, engaged in non-sexual BDSM behavior around the children (getting on her knees to serve water to her “dom” is just one example), and even explained the “rules” of her dom/sub relationship to the children.
this woman is explaining how being exposed to BDSM as a child negatively affected her, and the comments are like “but not all kink/BDSM people” like???
Love seeing women with bare faces, short fingernails, practical shoes, comfortable clothing, a full plate, a toothy grin, a relaxed posture. Love love love seeing women comfortable and happy and unselfconscious.
same thing with non-binary womyn. wanting to escape womynhood is so SO normal but basically no one in our world understands being a womyn means nothing but being an adult human female. not conforming to sexist assumptions and stereotypes doesnt make you not a womyn
I wonder if women who identify as men see males as the "basic, default person" in a way. TIFs dysphoria sometimes begins with discomfort toward their breasts because they've been sexualized, or the trauma inherent in puberty and getting their period, or the expectation to wear makeup or objectifying clothing - and then they think, "Well, men don't have breasts or periods. They don't have to wear makeup or clothes like that."
I wonder if it's less about truly "feeling like a male" and more about seeing the male as the standard person who does not have all these additional problems and expectations and identifying with that.
There is no way of truly knowing that the porn you consume is as "ethical" as it claims to be. Are you 100% sure that the actors haven't been trafficked? Do you know for certain that the performers are of age? Do you know, without a shadow of a doubt, that there is no abuse, coercion, or exploitation going on behind the scenes?
Just because something is marketed as "ethical" or "feminist", doesn't mean that it actually is.