What Helped You Become More And More Confident?

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She's right as always

Honestly fuck this millennial pink pseudo wellness bullshit about being gentle to yourself and always practicing mindfulness and committing acts of self care by consuming Product™️, I’m gonna continue being that bitch faced waif in all black running around the city at ungodly hours with wads of cash and ritalin in a designer bag and a peppermint vape hanging out the side of my mouth, texting on two phones simultaneously.

Most people already know what they need to do in order to reach their goals and be successful. Putting the work in and staying consistent is the part where most of them fail and so they never reach their full potential. It´s okay if things don´t go perfect but the key is to keep going. Don´t give up and don´t let temporary emotions or laziness get in the way of your success.   You know what you need to do... now do it.

if you want a nice body, go get it. if you want to become a lawyer, study your ass off. if you want nice hair, pick a style and get it done. stop being afraid and motivate yourself. find yourself. find your happiness, because it’s out there waiting for you.

facts?

I’ve seen women with synthetic wigs, press on nails, and $7.99 perfume make it, I’ve seen fat women and thin women make it, I seen women who are flat out disabled make it, and I’ve seen women who people assumed would never make it make it. The one thing they all have in common is discipline and the one thing they all share is that they had the personalities and the will to find a way to survive and get what they wanted. If you’re unable to find a way to make life work for you then maybe it’s on you and not on the rest of the world.

Rafaella Consentino photographed by Isabella Lombardini

Tell us more on how to manipulate guys 👀

Yesss so as promised here’s a few things to do

1.When you get to know someone, don’t reveal about yourself and ask them a lot about them. They will like the attention and at the end, realize they don’t know much about you, which will give an air of mysteriousness. Meanwhile, you’re collecting as much info about them to figure out what they like, what they dislike and what they seek. Then as the relationship progress, give hints and pretend to be their ideal person from the information you collected. That’s exactly what guys that want to get in your pants do. They sell a dream and once they know you caught the bait, they switch their personalities and stop pretending. Most likely will blame that change on something you did and you’ll go on a mission to change him back to how sweet and perfect he was before, but it was in fact a personality that was forged to fool you.

2.The silent treatment : most people hold to their pride a lot, give hints here and there that 1, you don’t text a lot so when you get distant and cold over text they’ll grasp on to that hope to explain any sudden disappearance, and 2, that you have pride and never go back to people that have wronged you (so when they upset you over something minor, give them the silent treatment and get them used to be the one to come back to talk and make things right and apologize), so you weaken their pride and ego and condition them to coming back to you always.

3.Lie lie lieeee, but be smart about it and don’t mix your stories up and make them believable. I always tell guys they are my firsts or 2nd, so they feel special. You have to sell yourself as someone untouchable and unattainable. But don’t go tell a guy he’s your first when you’ve fucked his cousin and PLEASE wait a decent amount of time before getting intimate. The Madonna/Whore complex really is a thing, I believe the best way to make a guy obsess over you is to project both/so he can’t fit you in a particular box : you’re out of his range, you’re untouchable, you’re divine yet so humane, sexy and carnal, so bullshit the hell out of him. Also you cheated? You lied? He caught you ? DENY! Never admit when you fucked up, even if you want to do it out of spite and hurt him. I’ll bury my secrets and all my lies with me when I die! If you have friends that can back your lies up for you and bullshit him to sell an image of you to him, it’s even better ‘’omg X is typically so cold with guys, I’ve never seen her like that with anyone but you’’.

4.Love bombing is great but you have to assert your superiority and how good, wonderful you are. For exemple, comments here and there about what your usual ideal type is to make him feel insecure and eager to compete and be the best not to lose you. The mistake I believe a lot of girl make is to be a man best source of support and let them get too comfortable, like yes he has to feel good when he is with you, but the point is that what you tell him when you love bomb him is to make him feel good only when he’s with you and insecure when he’s not with you, not feed him to make him delusional and overconfident. Play with his insecurity, redirect it so he feels lucky to be with you, don’t cure it. He has to constantly be under the impression that since you’re better than him, you can leave at any given moment and he’ll never find someone like that ever again.

5.Reinforce good behavior with love bombing and attentions targeting their specific love languages (ex: act overly excited and bubbly after he gives you a gift, if you’re typically colder be more tender and engage in more physical contacts, hug him, rub his arm scratch his hair, etc), and punish behavior you don’t like with silent treatment and ghosting (and really ghost don’t tell him anything just disappear without a word). They are your Pavlov’s experiments. :)

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Secret Diary of a Call Girl…

if you feel the need to “check out the competition” you’re hoeing backwards. there is nobody who can bring to the table what YOU bring, focus on yourself. competition doesn’t exist.

keep your eyes on the prize 💸💸

Don’t be ashamed of walking around with an ugly old man. be ashamed of walking around with a young handsome one that wants to fuck you, but not pay your bills