Afroditesoyster - Afrodite’s Oyster

Selene!

she couldnt save her coven then, so she made sure her final act would be saving her coven now...lilia calderu you will ALWAYS be famous

identity is not inherently static, it grows with its wearer. you do not have the same interests, personality traits, dislikes, dreams, goals, ambitions, wants and needs as you did when you were a baby, or a toddler, or even a handful of years ago. as you grow and change, so does your identity. it ages like wine. it's not meant to stay the same for the rest of your life, if you find your manhood and womanhood develop and take different twists and turns over time, this is normal. if you find yourself feeling like different genders at different stages in your life, that's okay. if you find yourself ebbing back and forth between feeling cis and trans over the years, that's alright too. if you find you can't ever quite place if you're gay, bisexual, straight, or something else, that's chill. maybe you don't have to figure it out, or put it into words and labels, maybe you're just meant to experience it.

keep going

Time really is a flat circle.

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⬇️what is that thang⬇️

i love one piece so much

For me, being an AMAB enby, whenever I put on more “masculine” clothes I always feel like I’m performing masculinity, truly as a performance. Not to say that that’s bad, it isn’t, is just interesting to think/see this act of creation/interpretation I go through, is almost as if I’m an actor stepping in the shoes of a character.

Again, that’s not to say that this is something bad or that I’m not being truthful with myself, is just this self reflection and realization that gender at its core IS performance, a big compilation of arbitrary rules, gender is nothing but a play we all have a part in, some of us just have to go through auditions more than once.

In case anyone wants it, this is the Tarot spread that Lilia did