We Were Talking About Cats In The Vc Today

caught on tape: little guy being a silly billy

Art by Julia Zhuravleva

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a sluge 😔

i dressed up and did my makeup tonight which has been a years long battle since… things, happened.

i’ve been fighting more and more to reclaim the part of me that loves being myself and seeing my friends so happy to see me, and getting a message afterwards from someone telling me it’s inspired them to try and be themselves more is just such a reward. i want to love myself, and not only does it materially improve my life to do so it improves the lives of those i care about.

it’s very nice to know even if i’m not doing it all perfectly im still doing it. and it makes it all better

my favorite video of all time ever

like I can’t stress enough that the desire to read every compliment you receive as insincere, mocking, or a secret sign of cruelty is going to poison you. You are not protecting yourself from delusion, you’re just hurting yourself because it’s easier than believing that you might be deserving of basic human kindness!

called him fat